You love my articles/podcasts, you get a kick out of seeing all my lay reports (you dirty perv), seeing me work on and achieve my big goals, you want to do what I’ve done. You’re on this page because you want me to help you build an elite life other guys will envy.

I went from a total zero (I was obese, suicidal, with zero friends and no hope in life) to a guy who gets laid whenever the hell he wants, with whomever he wants. I run my own successful coaching business, I have an amazing girlfriend, I’ve built a tribe of loyal mates who’d take a bullet for me, I get to mentor and help countless guys – life’s pretty groovy. Let’s help you do it too.

What I’ve accomplished so far:

A fucktonne of lays (I stopped counting properly a few years ago), mostly from Tinder/online but a handful from daygame/cold approach too.
A tonne of 3somes plus a couple of FFFM 4somes.
– A happy, loving relationship with my girlfriend Imogen – we have 3somes with girls we date. She’s a total sweetheart and she regularly comes on my podcast to talk life, love, self-improvement.
– Financial success running my own coaching business: Went from a financial loser with $25k worth of debt, to being able to quit my job and go full-time with coaching and mentoring guys, changing lives and doing what I love.
Overcame 9 years of depression & suicidal tendencies.
– Going from zero friends to having a killer social circle with a tribe of like-minded guys who are all on the warpath to building elite lives
Losing 77lbs and building a body I’m truly happy with.
– Went from “I can’t even do a single pushup” to comfortably deadlifting 175kg.
– Went from the most negative person you’ll ever meet, to a total optimist who sees life as a precious gift.

I’m also in a happy loving relationship with my 21yo girlfriend Imogen – we have sex with girls together in 3somes and have a tonne of fun in the bedroom with them. She’s also helped me build my site, my YouTube and my coaching business up. She’s a total sweetheart and she regularly comes on my podcast with me to talk life, love, self-improvement, making the world a cooler place. I love her to bits.

I‘ve helped countless guys improve their own lives, including a bunch of guys who were complete virgins with no friends, a tonne of weight to lose, their financials were in shambles & they had no idea what the hell they were doing – guys who are now crushing it when it comes to their goals. I’ve also worked with guys who were depressed, guys who felt hopeless, guys who felt like it was too late for them. I’ve written tonnes of articles about depression & suicidal thoughts; it’s something I spent years overcoming myself.

Truth is, since the day I was born I didn’t feel like I truly “deserved” to live an epic life or to have any girls like me or make any money or like my body or feel worthwhile in any capacity. Like I was destined to always be a fucking zero. Everything you’ve seen me accomplish since then has been a rebellion against that; me standing up and saying, “Fuck you, universe. I deserve all the cool shit I see other people getting. I’m not a fucking loser. I deserve the shit they have.”

If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.

Here is a 2-part interview with one of my coaching clients Ed, to show you what coaching will do for you if you’re willing to work your ass off and push yourself.

Ed went from a depressed, unconfident virgin at 31 to an ass-kicking machine with a tonne of confidence, plenty of lays, and he goes out and shoots photos with models for his Tinder/Instagram now:

Rene went from “I’ve only banged 2 girls in my entire life” to having a 3some within 2 weeks, banging 12 girls in 12 weeks, almost having a 4some, having a girl write him a love letter and write him a song, mentoring another guy and helping that guy lose his virginity, as well as a HELL of a lot more:

Dmitry started a business and earned his first $500 USD, had sex with 3 women including a virgin (when sex wasn’t even his main goal), became a coach himself and most importantly, found peace, happiness and self-acceptance:

George more than tripled his lay count in just 12 weeks, improved his mental health, quit drugs and alcohol, worked on his binge eating, and much much more:

Jeff hadn’t had sex with a woman in 9 years; by his 5th week of coaching he’d gotten laid, hit on a tonne of girls in person, learned to open up and be completely honest and real with girls, overcome a tonne of mental hurdles and learned how to trust women:

This client was a virgin, very inexperienced and nervous when it came to women, super nerdy – he didn’t let any of that hold him back. I helped him lose his virginity and he even participated in an ORGY!

This client had a massive coaching journey – a 3some, 7 lays in 12 weeks, I helped him start his own business, and much much more:

Some infield videos and vlogs from a guy I took out who’d NEVER talked to a single girl in his entire life. Within a few hours I had him talking to 20 girls; a couple days later it was 47 girls. He got 5 phone numbers and a couple of dates, all from one coaching session with me:

Another amazing transformation; Cam went from depressed and barely able to function after ending things with an ex, to absolutely crushing it with getting laid, building his own coaching business, improving his style/fashion, and eventually becoming the moderator on the forums. You all know him as Radical:

These guys aren’t special, they don’t have something you don’t have – they’re just regular dudes who pushed themselves out of their comfort zones and didn’t fucking quit. If these guys (and hundreds of others), can do it, you sure as hell can too.

So what do you want from life? What kind of man do you want to be? What do you really want, but feel like you’re “not allowed to have”?

Whatever you want, and whoever you want to become, I’ll get you there. Let’s do it.

Desperate for a coaching program that gives you on-going accountability, advice and motivation throughout each week, and a brotherhood of like-minded guys who are absolutely crushing their goals and achieving crazy shit with women, money, business, fitness, mental health, self-improvement, enlightenment and more?

Want access to me for 12 weeks as your own personal mentor, your personal cheerleader, your guru to save you months/years worth of mistakes or messing around with trial and error?

Want 12 weeks of access to a tribe of guys who are absolute killers (both my coaching packages include access to a group with all the other coaching students, so you – and I – can push each other and dominate our goals)?

What am I asking silly questions for, of course you fucking do.

I offer 2 coaching packages – group coaching, as well as my  HARDCORE 1-on-1 coaching (which also includes free access to my group coaching package). Both will get you where you need to be.

The guys I let into my group or HARDCORE 1-on-1 coaching programs are absolute goal destroyers, going out everyday and talking to 20+ girls a day (even guys who before they signed up had never talked to ANY girls in their entire life), building businesses, losing 100+lbs of fat, building elite social circles, taking no prisoners. They’ll have your back, push you to do what they’ve done, and I’ll be right there as well helping you build yourself into an absolute legend. You’ll feel like you’re part of a tribe of ass-kickers who’ll make you succeed and crush your goals. They’re all absolutely amazing human beings – and I want you to be a part of it too.

You’ll be surrounded by a tribe of hard-working killers; other dudes just like you who don’t fuck around, don’t make excuses, take EXTREME OWNERSHIP of their lives and are absolutely killing it. Right now we’ve got a dude in there who’d only banged 2 girls in his entire life – on just the SECOND week of coaching with me, he’d had a 3some, banged 4 more new girls (tripling his total lay count), and has since had a girl write him a love letter. No, I’m not joking – you can ask him about that yourself when you join.

We’ve got a handful of guys fucking DESTROYING it with their businesses, making tonnes of money and expanding and hiring VAs to take their businesses to the next level.

We’ve got guys working on their mental health, inner peace, STOICISM – building themselves into unbreakable rocks who can’t be fucked with, impervious from the bullshit life throws at us all. Absolute legends; I’m proud to know these mofos.

We’ve got a guy who’d only ever told TWO girls “Hey, you’re cute” in his entire life. He’s now done 30+ approaches in his first week. Absolute god.


Oh, and we’ve got a few of the legends you might know (and love) from the forums – one guy who lost his virginity recently in his 30’s, another guy who’s an absolute GOD of Tinder (and he’s happy to share everything he knows with you – everyone in the group is super generous with their time and helps push each other), another dude who’s got an eye for the best Tinder photos and will happily rate your photos and give suggestions on how you can take your dating results to the next level.

I’ll make it clear: My coaching programs are only for guys who are absolutely serious. I’m not fucking around, and I expect you not to fuck around either. My coaching is not cheap, and I only offer it to guys who are 100% ready to invest in themselves and go all-in with taking themselves seriously.

I’m also way more open in my coaching groups (I share more of my personal life) with my coaching clients than I am in articles/podcasts/etc – I talk about my goals, my finances and how I’m making money from this site/my coaching, I cover the things I’m working through and what my plans for the future are. You’re getting an inside look on how I accomplish my goals, and how you can too.

Let’s save you years of pain and figuring things out on your own, struggling and feeling like you’re lost, feeling like it’s hopeless, feeling like you’re never going to make it.

Let’s fast-track your success and get you the things you want, and help you become the person you want to be.

You can’t tell me you’re serious about building a kickass life if you’re not willing to invest in yourself.

Do you have any idea how much I would have killed to have direct access to my mentors (Chris from GoodLookingLoser, Caleb Jones from BlackDragonBlog)? I’d have cut off my left testicle for the kind of attention, care and ongoing accountability I’m offering you here.

Let’s fucking go.

Radical – Free Style Coaching from the Fashion Guru Himself

Sign up now and you’ll even get access to Radical/Cam from Radical Improvements as your personal style coach FOR FREE – he’s a coach in the program alongside me. Ask him for fashion advice as often as you need it, run your potential outfits past him and get his feedback, ask him for tips on accessories, shoes, clothing and more – whatever you need.

Bonus Members-Only Content

Also included with all my coaching is access to a tonne of members-only podcasts, covering much more advanced topics in much more depth than I’m able to do in my regular content. I cover advanced relationship management techniques, deep topics like how to find your purpose and reason for being here, how to set and achieve big goals, how to make money, how to start your own business, and much more. Download or listen to them at your leisure; they’ll fast track your success.

Whatever you’re currently struggling with, if you work with me and put in the effort, we’ll build you into a kickass human being.

Helping guys with their mental wellbeing and helping them rise from the ashes is the topic that’s closest to my heart. I spent more than a decade of my life in chronic depression, constantly suicidal, wishing I had the balls to end my life but never actually working up the courage to do it. I felt worthless, useless, hopeless, helpless – like there was no way out. All I wanted was for life to not suck so much, for me to not spend every waking second in desperate despondency. I just wanted to feel normal, like everybody else.


No longer will you have to feel like a loser, alone, wishing you had an amazing life. I felt that way for years – I know exactly how you’re feeling. I went through so many lonely nights crying my eyes out sitting at home in my apartment by myself, feeling like a complete and utter zero, completely convinced nobody would EVER want me. I hate the idea that anybody is sitting there feeling the same hell I used to feel. I hate the idea you just want women to fucking like you, but you think that’s utterly impossible. I want you to finally feel what it’s like to be wanted by women, to get that validation you’ve been craving for years (trust me, it feels fucking good being wanted). I’m here to pull you out of the mud and get you the elite sex life you’ve always wanted.
Best of all, you can have all the lays you want in an ethical way – being 100% upfront and honest with all the women you sleep with.
No pickup artist lines to memorise.
No manipulation or using women.
None of the drama.
Just 100% “keeping it real” and being authentic.

If you’re willing to work hard, our coaching sessions together will do more for you than years of therapy. I’ve heard this so many times I’ve lost count now: “Andy, in our first coaching call you helped me more than all the counsellors I paid thousands of dollars to.”

I give you real conversations, real advice and real empathy from someone who’s been in your shoes, worked through it, and come out the other side. Most therapists/counsellors have no idea what the hell it feels like to spend hours and hours a day wanting to kill yourself, thinking women will never like you, wondering if you’ll ever have friends, for years and years. Most therapists talk from a point of “theory”, but they’ve never actually overcome huge issues themselves and more importantly gone on to be successful and crush their goals. I have. And so have the other members in the group.

Now let’s get you the life you deserve.


Group Coaching Program (12 Weeks)

 – 12 weeks of weekly group calls with me + Cam from Radical Improvements
 – Access to TWO coaches during your 12 weeks (myself and Cam) to ensure you kick the most ass possible
 – Daily access to me & Cam (and the other coaching members) through our Facebook group
 – LIFETIME access to our Discord server so you can network with every coaching client I have ever – and will ever – work with FOR LIFE.
 – Daily free access to Cam from Radical Improvements for fashion advice, business advice, getting laid advice & general coaching
 – Access to a fuckton of members-only content (ebooks we’ve written, videos and podcasts just for coaching clients only, etc)
 – A brotherhood of men who are kicking ass and will force you to dominate your goals too
Price for 12 weeks: $7,000 USD (Payment plans are available if money is an issue – happy to discuss)

HARDCORE 1-on-1 Program (6 MONTHS)

 – The HARDCORE 1-on-1 Program ALSO includes access to the above group coaching program!
 – Work with me 1-on-1 to absolutely DOMINATE and crush your goals, no holding back.
 – This is the package you take when you’re 100% serious about living an elite life – I WILL get you there. I go all-in with you; I expect you to go all-in too.
 – 6 MONTHS (holy shit!) of 1-on-1 coaching calls with me, going super in-depth (each call usually goes for a few hours). Since you’re working 1-on-1 with me, you can be much more vulnerable and open; we go deep if we need to, like you would with a therapist.
 – Access to TWO coaches during the 6 months (myself and Cam from Radical Improvements) to ensure you kick the most ass possible
 – 6 MONTHS of weekly group calls with me + the group coaching clients (on top of the 1-on-1 calls)

 – Daily access to me & Cam (and the other coaching members) through our Facebook group
 – LIFETIME access to our Discord server so you can network with every coaching client I have ever – and will ever – work with FOR LIFE.
 – Daily free access to Cam from Radical Improvements for fashion advice, business advice, getting laid advice & general coaching
 – Access to a fuckton of members-only content (ebooks we’ve written, videos and podcasts just for coaching clients only, etc)
 – A brotherhood of men who are kicking ass and will force you to dominate your goals too

Price for 6 MONTHS of coaching: $50,000 USD (Payment plans are available if money is an issue – happy to discuss)

"But..." (Limiting Beliefs)

“I can’t afford it/I don’t have much money…”

Then you’re not serious. Plain and simple. Go read this, right now: If You Don’t Take Yourself Seriously, How Can You Expect Anyone Else to? You either want to change your life and achieve your goals, or you want to sit there and make bullshit excuses and lie to yourself.

Do you know how much I would have killed to be able to do 1-on-1 coaching with my mentor, Chris from GoodLookingLoser if he offered it? I would have paid $20,000 for him to help me avoid the years of suffering, pain, struggles, hardship and total hell I had to go through. I would have taken out a fucking bank loan in order to pay him if he gave coaching (he didn’t, unfortunately) – I’d have done anything to fast-track my success and avoid all those years of misery. And that’s what I’m offering you – the chance to save yourself years of struggling and fast-forward to the part where you actually get laid and actually crush your goals and actually get to enjoy your life.

Hell, and speaking of bank loans – I literally took out a $10,000 bank loan in order for me to move to the centre of my city and work less hours at my job for ~6 months, so I could stay in a central apartment and go all-in with getting laid. Best decision I ever made – I took my sex life seriously, improved to where I am today, and made about 3 years worth of progress in 6 months. I saved myself 3 years of struggles and pain. Again, if you’re actually serious, you’ll do whatever it takes to get your shit together.

Are you really going to choose to save a few dollars (which you’ll likely waste on bullshit and self-medication, let’s be honest) instead of getting your priorities right, fixing your life and giving yourself the sex life you’ve always dreamed of?

Come on, let’s be serious – you are wasting money on stupid stuff you don’t actually need right this second. Buying take-out food when you could be cooking it yourself, wasting money on alcohol/going out, money on self-medication instead of dealing with the actual problem so you don’t need to self-medicate anymore. Stop wasting that money – invest in coaching and put it towards your goals instead. Grow some balls, put your money where your mouth is, and decide your future is worth investing in.

Want to end up old and alone, or worse – in an unhappy relationship, knowing you had a chance to build a kickass sex life and find a great woman, but instead you just went with what was ‘comfortable’ and ‘easy’? No? Let’s make sure that doesn’t fucking happen then.

Hit me up and let’s start.

“Can you actually help me?”

Short answer: Yes. Long answer: Yes, if you’re willing to work hard, do the homework tasks I give you and actually commit to building an awesome life. Everyone has the power to change, and I’ll be the catalyst for you building a kickass life. I give you the tools , the support & the solid plan to help you fix yourself.

If you want me to have a profound impact on your life, YOU have to work for it, and YOU have to be the one to make the changes. I’ll guide you, give you all the wisdom and motivation I have, but at the end of the day YOU need to be the one to take life by the horns, take matters into your own hands and build an awesome life. I’ll be right there with you.

“Now’s not the right time/I should make some more progress first”

I’ve got you covered; watch this:

“I should focus on my career first.”

This discussion comes up from time to time, and the answer is always: Focus on your sex life first, and worry about your career once that’s handled.

Can you really focus on your career when you feel deep down you’re a loser with women?

Can you really give your finances much time or attention when you’re constantly distracted by thoughts of, “If only I could get laid…”?

All that ends up happening every single time I see a guy try is he half-asses his career for a couple years, then comes back to the forums and says, “Ok, I’m finally ready to admit I need to get laid first and stop wasting time.”

You can’t build an epic sex life without focusing on it 100% – your career isn’t going anywhere. You can work on it after you’ve gone all-in with building a sex life/finding a girlfriend/whatever it is you truly want deep down.

If you’re happy with an average, mediocre sex life, than more power to you. But I know myself and every guy I’ve ever talked to doesn’t want to be average with women – we all want to get laid whenever we want without feeling like it’s “just luck”. Be honest with yourself: You want to be good with women, not lucky with women.

I’ll quote a couple paragraphs from an article I wrote:

“I was afraid to go all-in with getting laid, because I hadn’t yet handled my career/finances. I was almost 30 (and about to have a mid-life crisis) because my life wasn’t what I thought it was “supposed” to be. I was poor – massively in debt (about $25,000 AUD). I didn’t have a good job, let alone a career. All my mates were making hella bank, getting promotions at work, and I was just sitting around being a mess. Who the fuck was I to think I had the right to go out and try to get laid, when my finances were a mess and my life wasn’t where it was supposed to be?

Thing is, I couldn’t focus on career. I couldn’t focus on making money. I couldn’t start a business. I couldn’t do much of anything; because I was so caught up in the fact I knew I couldn’t really get laid. It ate away at me, it drove my self-esteem down, it made me feel worthless. I knew even if I had the best career in the world, even if I was making a million dollars a year, I’d feel like a loser if girls didn’t like me and I couldn’t get laid.”

I am so so glad I decided to handle my sex life first; it put me in a much better position to handle then go on to handle my finances (through this website and helping other guys).

Sort out your sex life first, and you’ll be in a much better position to dominate your career. Getting good with women improves your life in a billion ways that’ll positively-benefit your career/everything else. Read this: How Getting Laid Makes You a Better Man (Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?) 


“It’s too late for me/ I’m too old”.

No, it’s not. Read this. I didn’t even start my self-improvement/getting-laid efforts until I was 28. I was a complete and utter failure at life right up until that point, and if it wasn’t too late for me at 28, it’s not too late for you no matter your age.

It’s orders-of-magnitude easier for me to get laid in my mid-30’s than it EVER was in my 20’s. I know I’m only going to get laid more – and more easily – as I enter my 40’s and really start having a kickass life. Don’t let age be the reason you continue to live your life as a sad loser like I did for all those years.

Because here’s the thing: can you really afford to keep buying pickup artist books, memorising 10,000 lines and routines that don’t actually get you laid, hanging around nerdy forums where nobody actually sticks their penis in a vagina, going on The Red Pill and reading about how much women suck? Or are you ready to actually take some damn action and lead an amazing life? Let’s go.

Sign up for coaching and we’ll get cracking.

“I’m too short / I’m not white like Andy / [some other reason why Andy is ‘better’ than me]”.

Sorry, fuck that bullshit. Already wrote an entire article answering these bullshit excuses: “I Can’t Get Laid Because…

And here’s a 2-part interview with one of my clients Ed, who was 5ft6 & a 31yo virgin when he first started coaching with me.

And here’s a guy with no arms and no legs (so he’s INFINITELY shorter than you) who has a cute wife and 4 kids.

And here’s a 5ft7 guy who’s also bald who banged a new girl every week recently.

And here’s a 5ft1 guy who’s getting laid more than you.

My site’s helped thousands of guys who were shorter than me, older than me, younger than me, blacker/more Asian/insert-some-other-race-here, guys with less money than me, guys with more money than me, guys with mental issues, guys with severe hangups about women. You know the ONE thing they all had in common? They didn’t let dumb excuses hold them back. They took action in spite of their fears, hesitations and doubts. Hell, I have doubts all the time. Read this: I Am Always Full of Doubt. Then take a leap and send me a message so we can get started improving your life.

“I’m depressed.”

I’ve said it a million times but I’ll say it again: if I can overcome my depression, you can too.

Helping guys overcome depression and move past negative thinking is the thing I am absolutely most passionate about above all else. I can’t even begin to describe to you how fucking horrifyingly painful and miserable my life was for over a decade. I was obese, depressed, suicidal, with zero friends, in abusive relationships for 9 years total, I was an alcoholic with a bad porn addiction, agoraphobia (inability to leave the house), I hated myself and all I wanted was to die so it could all finally be over. Here’s my full story (including how I fixed it):  My Transformation Story.

I was the very definition of a loser, a failure, a nobody, a miserable wretch. No matter where you’re at or how deep in a hole you feel, I absolutely promise you it’s fixable. After all, if I can do it, you sure as hell can too.

If you’re struggling with depression, before we continue, I want you to read these 3 articles. It’s important.
  1. How I Beat Depression & Learned to be an Optimist (My Story)
  2. Don’t Kill Yourself.
  3. When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless…

Then I want you to answer the questions I laid out for you in that 3rd link. If you want me to help you overcome depression, I only accept clients who’ve filled out those questions honestly and in detail, in order for me to see that you’re serious about improving things and taking action (even if it’s hard).

“I have too far to go, I have too many changes to make.”

And so your genius idea is to try and do that by yourself? Struggle for years and years like I did because I was too “proud” to ask for help, making 10 million mistakes, having no idea what the fuck I was doing, feeling completely hopeless and useless? You have a chance to fast-track your success, skip literally years of pain and suffering, and get the ball rolling right now. Stop wasting time focusing on all the changes you need to make, and just make the first change: hit me up for coaching so I can help you.

No man is an island. So stop trying to be one. Let me help you..

“I’m not a player/I’m too much of a loser/this isn’t me.”

If I had a dollar for every single time I felt like a loser, like a fraud, like a complete imposter who didn’t really deserve to get laid: I’d be a god damn billionaire. Go read through the log I kept of my self-improvement/getting laid journey, and you’ll see for most of it I absolutely did not believe I’d ever become a player, or that I deserved to get laid a lot. Here’s some quotes from that log:

“I thought about it a lot this morning and I still feel like I don’t “deserve” to hit on hot chicks. Like I don’t have the right. Like “who is this ugly guy, who does he think he is, he shouldn’t be hitting on chicks out of his league”. But 2 months ago I didn’t even think I deserved to bang average/ugly chicks.”

Another quote:

I still feel like it was a fluke, like it was just luck. I still don’t believe I “deserve” hot chicks yet, I really don’t. Last night was scary because I honestly felt like she was too hot and I was scared to kiss her. I have this feeling like I won’t see her again, she’ll regret the sex or something and not talk to me again. I honestly think it would hurt my confidence if I didn’t see her again, I’d really take the rejection personally.”

Another quote:
“Do I deserve to cold approach? I don’t know.”
Hell, even after I had my first 3some, I still didn’t feel like I “deserved” to get laid. Here’s what I wrote the day after the 3some:
“I don’t have much of a sense of entitlement; I know it doesn’t seem like it from my logs, but I still don’t believe I “deserve” to get laid. But I feel like this 3some was a huge step to becoming “a guy who gets laid”.”
A tonne of my coaching clients say the same stuff to me – “I’m not cool enough to get laid”. They then go on to build kickass sex lives the average guy can’t even dream of. If they can do it, you sure as hell can too.
Please, please, please don’t let “I don’t deserve to get laid” be the reason you hold yourself back. I felt exactly the same way too. You can overcome it – let me help you. Fill out this form and we’ll start.

“I’m nervous/not sure what to say during coaching calls”

Most people who hit me up are nervous – that’s completely fucking normal. I myself am nervous every single time I do something that I haven’t done before – read this. Don’t let nervousness be the reason you hold back; you need to run towards fear.

Besides, you’ll have me there helping you. And all the other guys in the program are amazing dudes – nobody will judge you for being nervous. It’s pretty common; it’s not a big deal.

A Few More Testimonials from Guys Who've Become Elite


You’re at the bottom of the page. You’ve read all you need to read. Stop procrastinating and decide you’re actually going to TAKE MASSIVE ACTION and build an elite life.

Now let’s get going. Sign up and I’ll kick your ass into gear, starting right now.


Yo, Andy here. I’m an Aussie guy who went from a depressed, suicidal loser to a guy who gets laid regularly, has 3somes & BDSM sex, crushes weights at the gym & loves his life. I killed my inner loser. It's my mission to get you to kill your inner loser too.