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by ziva
Thu Mar 30, 2023 11:15 pm
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Which shirt should I get?

I think the black/white one looks a bit cooler
by ziva
Mon Apr 10, 2023 8:54 am
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COLDEST APPROACH | AA Log

Yesterday I've read through the cold approach program from GLL and listened to the first audio recording. Today I've listened to the second one where he basically talks about execution of a plan. Being smooth/talking to women is just a plan you execute. Tomorrow is day 3. I've read that the action s...
by ziva
Sun Apr 16, 2023 6:06 pm
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Should You Use Enhancers For Approach Anxiaty

Outside of the health risks I don't see the issue with enhancers at all tbh Said as someone who has never used them for daygame If gaming on drugs gets you more approaches, conversations, numbers, dates, lays, then you're getting more quality and quantity of interactions in the time spent, which gi...
by ziva
Wed Apr 05, 2023 12:28 pm
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How to stop watching P?

Like everyone else has said having a date with a FWB lined up within the week helps. Learn to enjoy the feeling of tension building up until then, and consider how great the sex will be once you get that release. Along that line, be honest with girls about what you are into and what you want to do ...
by ziva
Sun Apr 02, 2023 6:22 pm
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How to stop watching P?

If it helps, consider watching porn like having a drink. One every now and again won't hurt you. If your drinking 3 pints a night every day of the week, then you clearly have a problem. I've experimented with this a lot. If I watch porn, I give in to the addiction, which I already don't want to do....
by ziva
Mon Apr 03, 2023 8:01 pm
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How to stop watching P?

This thread reminds me that I haven't watched porn for a while now. Can't remember exactly when was the last time, maybe in February, with a girl, just before having kinky sex... As an ex addicted porn user, I would say that what truly worked for me was to get sexually satisfied. Even when I was in...
by ziva
Sun Apr 02, 2023 6:26 pm
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How to stop watching P?

Paid Renegade wrote:
Sun Apr 02, 2023 3:38 pm
Have sex 3-4 times a week (with different girls each time)

Watching porn/jerking off will start to feel like a chore
I think (almost know actually) that something like this is the only option I have.
Not watching porn, but also not seeing girls has been next to impossible for me.
by ziva
Thu Mar 30, 2023 9:45 pm
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Tying Mental Well-being to Looks

I've noticed for a couple of years now that there are things I "stress" over for like 6 months to year, only to realize I haven't thought about it for a long time. What I want to say is, stressing over uncontrollable or irrelevant things is normal. You will do this less as time goes on. Tips that he...
by ziva
Wed Mar 29, 2023 6:42 pm
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READ THIS - You MUST post here before you can post anywhere else.

I, ziva, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. What's up guys. I've been watching KYIL for over 2 months and finally decided to join the community on the forums. To keep shit simple, my current goal is to up my confidence with women and talk about improving life/dating with y'al...
by ziva
Sun Apr 02, 2023 7:05 pm
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Why beating porn is hard and what to do about it

So look. I think it comes down to this. Humans have all sorts of drives. But the drive to have sex, is probably the strongest of them all. We ignore hunger for sex. We sacrifice sleep for sex. We travel for sex. We look good for sex. We act tough for sex. We act nice for sex. And a lot of us pay tho...
by ziva
Wed Apr 12, 2023 7:14 pm
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COLDEST APPROACH | AA Log

I skipped most of the AA program and just jumped straight into cold approaches. Got bored of asking for the time and directions to various places and skipped to just giving hit and run compliments to girls then slowly built on that. IMO the GLL AA program wastes a lot of time with bullshit that you...
by ziva
Sun Apr 02, 2023 6:07 pm
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How to stop watching P?

@ziva I don't think you should be reliant on sex to avoid porn and masterbation. This is a bad habit on my part actually and has fucked me a bunch of times. Cause if i break up with a girl, i typically go back into my porn addiction. Or if i'm not getting laid or having a dry spell the temptation i...
by ziva
Tue Apr 18, 2023 1:40 pm
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COLDEST APPROACH | AA Log

AA program 6a Quick post. I thought I had to do the drills all in one day, or it doesn't count. This left me with days where I didn't have that much time complete a drill in one go, meaning I didn't approach any girl at all. So after listening to the podcast of toast on the KYIL YouTube channel, I'...
by ziva
Wed May 03, 2023 11:56 am
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COLDEST APPROACH | AA Log

Yea i had the same problem when i'd do the AA program. I wouldn't do it like that. Instead i'd say just do each day at a time but if it takes multiple days to finish "day 6" or "day 7" then that's fine. Just do the drills when you can if you're busy. And wherever you happen to be. Obv if you can go...
by ziva
Wed May 03, 2023 12:09 pm
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Looks feedback: Manbun vs shorter

The manbun look fits you pretty good man