No Matt,


You have to go out of the house and ask strangers for the time.

Nothing more.

Don't be disappointed. Acknowledge you are, then time to adapt. You didn't make what you wanted. Ok Next move is baby steps as you said. If your goal is too hard for you now (That's normal), time to make it baby steps like you said. That means your goal needs to be cut down into 5 steps for example....

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This thread is great guidance.

Ask your girl to draw you smth special for you, print it and ask the tatooer to tatoo you this.

Or when you had the horse licorne mask when you had sex.
Don't remember where it was the film on your log on GLL.

Like a screen of this film when you doggied the girl mask on as a tatt.

Everything has already been said beautifully. You do have approach anxiety otherwise there wouldn't any excuses or conditions about how and when you give yourself permissio' to approach. If you don't want to do the AA PROGRAM (you don't have to), you still have to work on your 'weak points', aka the...

It's the overall energy !!