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by SamJ_
Thu Apr 15, 2021 11:39 pm
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Anyone want to discuss approaching?

My main goal is overcoming social anxiety in general primarily through cold approaching women. Been socially awkward pretty much my whole life and have been too proud to admit it was a problem til now. I want to chat with someone who has the same goals either on the phone or over the Internet and ac...
by SamJ_
Thu Apr 15, 2021 11:32 pm
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I am disappointed with myself

Hey all, This is my first post on the site I am writing this after going on my first date in several months where I just hung around not doing much. It all went well since I can talk for hours about random shit. However I made a promise to myself that I would kiss the girl at the end of the date. T...
by SamJ_
Mon Apr 19, 2021 3:52 am
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My Cold Approach Goal

After some thought and some great discussions with some of you guys, I decided to make a goal for cold approaching. I will probably be doing some exercises from the approach anxiety program as "practice" to go along with my main plan, which is to approach 100 girls before I turn 25 in November. The ...
by SamJ_
Thu Apr 15, 2021 11:30 pm
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Partners for AA program

I would but I would wanna talk over the phone or zoom or google or someshit. It's much harder to stay motivated and accountable just typing text online
by SamJ_
Thu Apr 22, 2021 3:54 am
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Unsure if You Should Do the AA Program?

Yea I'll take a look at it when I have some time. Really for me though, the AA program is actually pretty pointless right now. I could theoretically bang some really hot girls in the future, but I will need a full 100% porn reboot first, and to also max my looks as much as possible, and get in extr...
by SamJ_
Sat Apr 24, 2021 5:33 am
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SamJ's Approach Log

In this thread I will be recording the approaches that I complete (minimum of 100 approaches by 25th birthday). To count as an approach, I must ask a girl I am attracted to for some form of contact info. I had been putting this off for a long time, and tonight I finally decided to stop being a pussy...
by SamJ_
Mon Apr 26, 2021 12:58 am
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SamJ's Approach Log

Approach #2: This one I'm actually a lot more excited about, because I actually held a 1-2 minute long conversation with a girl, and exchanged names and snapchats although she had a boyfriend, but she actually seemed like a cool person who could be a good friend in general. this one was a WAY bigge...
by SamJ_
Wed Apr 28, 2021 2:56 am
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How Do I Get Over Missed Opportunities?

I would say the emotions you are feeling are part of the process of learning how to deal with missed opportunities. Its good to be hard on yourself since it will motivate you to do better. Cold approaching is a numbers game. Try and think of solutions to be able to increase the number of approaches...
by SamJ_
Sat May 01, 2021 4:32 pm
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SamJ's Approach Log

Two more approaches done last night, walking around the streets near some bars/restaurants near me that are pretty active on weekend nights. Approach #3: I approached a girl in a big group of girls, said hi, and told her she was attractive, asked her name which she gave to me but she said she had a ...
by SamJ_
Tue May 04, 2021 12:58 am
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How do you decide when to approach?

Right, but you're in a city of over a million people, right? I'm not trying to make excuses but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to have a bit more discretion in who I approach in my situation than you would have. Don't get me wrong, I know I'm not approaching enough yet. But I think there co...
by SamJ_
Tue May 04, 2021 3:13 am
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How do you decide when to approach?

That makes sense. 8 months isn't too bad. Honestly man, majority of girls love being approached. Even if they have turn you down because they have a boyfriend. They genuinely enjoy it. You'll get to feed off that energy. It feels like good karma points when you approach sometimes. Yeah Ive had all ...
by SamJ_
Tue May 04, 2021 11:41 pm
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How do you decide when to approach?

waste of time, its not being honest, and i dont know anybody irl who gets laid who talks like that. Anytime ive given a girl a compliment like that she immediately lost attraction. girls laugh at guys are that socially inept/thirsty @l0vebone You realize Chris and Scotty were proposing being as dir...
by SamJ_
Thu May 06, 2021 12:23 am
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How do you decide when to approach?

I have gotten laid twice in the same week from saying 'Hey you're cute' to random girls i didnt know I can tag the users i know for sure have gotten laid from direct approach as well: @KillYourInnerLoser @Crisis_Overcomer @Ed_ @joe_ronimo @MrGainz @GravyTrain @lucasxpogba @Thebastard @dashedhopes @...
by SamJ_
Mon May 10, 2021 3:42 pm
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Sam's AA Program Log

I've been procrastinating the program for a week, and also some other stuff in my life, so I'm writing here to be accountable, that I will finish a day of the program tomorrow, see u ! I've been following your AA log here and it's exciting and motivating me to keep up what I'm doing although I'm no...
by SamJ_
Wed May 26, 2021 5:14 pm
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Toasts Cold Approach Log

Gunna be using this thread to document any interesting events and my cold approaches. Yesterday I figured it has been so long since I've done any approaches that I needed to do at lease one. I'm getting settled into my new apartment, and I see cute girls on the daily walking around my block. Went t...