I, Aloofus, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. About me: 38 year old from the East Coast US. I'm a former fat guy, and have been quite successful with women too (hit 100 several years ago, and haven't kept track since). I've been working on being the best version of myself f...

KillYourInnerLoser I use the black dragon relationship model (I have an OLTR, with FBs). My GF though is the only girl I see that's not bi. We've had actual discussions about it, but she really has no desire to bang another chick. Though over this weekend seemed to be into the idea of "finding" oth...

It's the peroxide in all that shit that makes your mouth sore/sensitive. If you get professional whitening done at a dentist it's the same stuff just stronger (and more expensive). It shouldn't have caused a cavity, it might have just been that you got one around the same time you used that. I smoke...

I also follow BDs dating template (short quick first date, second date at your place). I've had 3 dates in a night before. What you can do is space them out, and pick close by (but different) venues. So that night I did something like 715, 830, and 10 (second bar was 10 minutes away from the first, ...

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Thu Jun 25, 2020 2:37 pm

Aloofus wrote: ↑

Thu Jun 25, 2020 1:24 pm

BDs dating template

Who's BD?

Blackdragon. He's a non monogamous relationship blogger.

It shouldn't have caused a cavity, it might have just been that you got one around the same time you used that. Is there a better substance that you've found?? Shit feels like it's eating away at the tooth. Is peroxide completely harmless, like, if I used it daily would I fuck anything up? Does it ...

I say "I don't kiss and tell". A girl doesn't want a guy telling a bunch of people that you've slept together. If you do sleep with a girl, she won't see herself as nothing more than an increasing notch count for you. This also keep an air of mystery. I give some type of answer like this too. Partl...

Me and my friends used to play this game called "Go." We got it from the Simple Pickup guys who used to be on youtube. You point to a girl and say "go!" You have 5 seconds to approach and if you don't then you drop and do 10 pushups no matter where you are. Or you pay them $5, pick your poison lol ...

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Overall I think your pics look pretty good!

What jumps out at me right away is how many you have sunglasses on for. I'm pretty sure I've read that you don't want to overdo hats and sunglasses.

The first one and the winking one. Choose one for your main photo. Then take some more photos showing of more of your personality. Also, man, you you are really good looking. You will slay it online. Cant help but to feel jealous lol. Thanks @Lostcause but don't forget where I came from. I worked M...

chado I haven't heard much regarding exercise and covid. Though both are huge stressors on your body (exercise is a beneficial one). I'd say try going a bit lighter while you recover. Like active recovery type stuff if you must. I'm also a huge proponent of listening to what your body tells you. If...

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Wed Jul 22, 2020 4:14 pm

Facebook dating, is that popular here in the US? never heard anyone talk about it

Popular enough. I've definitely had some success there.

Give it a try, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

Tinder gold allows you to remove your age, so you should appear to everyone then. I'm 38 so had to go that route (though I don't get a ton of matches in that age range). Blackdragon talked about 3 types of very young women. Type A will only date guys in their close age range. Type B that are open to...

ihnskko I think the point of that template IS to be polarizing. If she's interested she WILL meet you regardless of the context. You're trying to screen out the attention whores/time wasters. You actually left out the middle part of the message, which actually conveys no expectations. So you might ...

chado when most people say "nice guy" they mean nice guy syndrome (what Robert Glover talking about in his book "No more Mr Nice Guy). Things like seeking validation/approval, having weak boundaries, doing things WITH unsaid expectations for people. All of that is bad shit. Treating people well isn...