Man things are just REALLY bad with women right now. Was meeting this cute girl who invited me to her place right away because she doesn't like bars but that was awful, she was sitting like 5 kilometers away immediately, after a while I proposed that we move to her bedroom but she was sitting on th...

Pancake nailed it. A few extra points: For your venue, I've found a place that serves coffee, tea, and alcohol to be paticuraly helpful. Allows both of you to get whatever is most comfortable for you. I always get water. Girls get a variety of stuff. If at all possible, have the girl get a drink in ...