ziva I’m going to give a different perspective (including my experience) on this. A lot of guys think they are the king when they quit masturbation cold turkey, or do this “semen retention”’stuff but I think it’s a load of bullshit. It’s kind of like that MGTOW movement or whatever it’s called thes...

Doesn’t need to be so complicated- Spam approaching or not it doesn’t matter, as long as you are going in with intent and follow through with it with each girl. It’s much better to approach 1 girl and try to touch and kiss her and get rejected, than it is to do 40 retard approaches where you’re half...

NightRoller Feel like I can help a lot here, since that’s all I’ve been doing the past 2 years (I also run a travel blog giving advice for budget travellers). 1. I booked a ticket and arrived only with enthusiasm on mind. Like with anything else, it’s really something that you just do and learn (si...

michaelho068 I’ve approached over 2000 women and still feel anxiety, sometimes I even mumble my words and get those butterflies time and time again. Still get laid a tonne. If you want to get good at getting approaching/getting laid, then the goal isn’t to feel zero anxiety at all per se, but just ...

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Congrats man. Make sure to soak it all up, that’s a lot of changes in one year. Then onto the next one

MakingAComeback Love the amount of detail you write in these posts man. Got a couple of things I wanted to share below… I try to put it in, and we’re not hard enough. “Haven’t you seen the size of my boobs? Get hard!” I tell her I need some water, and I’m going to punish her for this. Good attitude...

caico11 Good work man. Here’s something you can try… when you next introduce yourself and shake her hand, try holding her hand until she takes it back. This changes everything. Girls that give you a number after are in my experience much less likely to flake (they’ll know what the deal is, and actu...

approach every single hot chick you see. You never know who might be the one that pulls home 100% agree here. It’s more about getting over the ego, and those silly excuses guys often say like don’t spam approach etc. “ You never know ” is what I repeat to myself daily doing this stuff. From there l...

Hey man, when it comes to dates there’s no need to wait for tension or anything like that - she’s already there and most likely keen, it’s just up to you to lead the way home. Best thing is to not overcomplicate it with too many techniques. I’d say a hug at the start, hold their hand at some point a...

AmericanAndy Keep going with cold approach. Whilst I'm using Tinder as well, I do agree that cold approach feels more human and I also definitely prefer it. When you cold approach, have you got a plan in mind or are you just spamming whichever girl you see? Are you trying to get physical.. kiss the...

I, SpicyBoi, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. Hey guys. I'm Spicy, 26, and originally from the UK. I am a traveller at heart and am currently backpacking around South America. Long time lurker of GLL/KYIL, although you may actually know me if you've listened to Andy's epis...