Any suggestion on the minimum I need to get going Imo, the minimum is edgy style, good grooming, and a good pose/lighting. Low body fat is not necessarily a requirement, but it will really help you. The pose in this photo sucks (no offense.) I don’t love the haircut or outfit either tbh, but I’m no...

Bro I’ve seen your other pics. You look good. More than good enough to get laid on Tinder. You look better than me tbh. Your problem is your pink hair. Straight up. It’s killing you. People tiptoe around saying it definitively, because no one’s 100% sure how pics will do on Tinder, but I’m extremely...

i think the only way to achieve this is to actually fuck them, which i'm till not doing. I feel that once i start having sex a lot of things will change naturally It’s cliché, but changing attitudes can change results as much as results can change attitudes. Results are important, but you can still...

should i get lower blephoroplasty surgery? I heard that eye bags are far more noticeable in photos than IRL. You could probably just photoshop them out rather than getting plastic surgery. Or you could at least start with that and see if it makes a difference online. I really doubt you’d get called...

You have to be aware of chicks testing you and fucking with you and playing games and disrespecting you Is it really disrespect though? If I am getting the story right, it sounds like she wants to go sightseeing or hiking for a second date and he wants a lower effort date. I don’t think that’s disr...

Update: Not much to say, I did organize my trivia night, but it was kind of a bust because: 1. It’s not a good setting to talk to people because it’s loud and everyone’s focused on trivia. 2. I’m not that into trivia. (Somebody else suggested it) That’s okay though, I’ve been meeting some cool peopl...

Don’t take it hard, but it’s not worth using dating apps with this caliber of photo. That’s okay, most guys start off sucking at taking photos and there is an immense amount of room to improve them. https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/ Everything in part I of this guide is mandatory, except ...

I had blackpill rage yesterday at zara thinking that all those young beautiful girls are fucking and sex is such a natural part of their life that they wouldn't be able to understand even in 100 years why guys like me are sexless and need communities like this Again we can put things into perspecti...

it’s a bit embarassing to have to ask this but how do i not look sad in photos. I can’t smile voluntarily - it doesn’t look good. I tried not looking sad; i have no clue how to. Should i try faceapping / photoshopping the expressions? I had the same problem at first. In my experience smiling for a ...

No real updates on the social circle stuff. I am working on organizing a trivia night, but it is still in progress. Changing gears for a second is there a guide on this site for night game or general advice on the subject? The friends I do have like going to bars and clubs and as long as I am being ...

Update. I did take some of this advice. I took some of the friends I already had and some of the new people I’d been meeting and organized them to go bowling. Of the new people, 1 came, 2 took a rain check and we made plans to do something else that are at present up in the air. 2 of them were a guy...

Yeah really sucks you don’t have the money for a new device, I see some of your frustration now. ngl one thing that really helped me was having 2-4 dates lined up every week for like 2 months. It makes you a lot more willing to experiment. I’ll give my thoughts. Firstly I think “calling her out” for...

(2) Buccal Fat Removal: I looked into Buccal Fat Removal. One big concern I had was the possibility of prematurely aging myself. Your cheeks naturally lose fat as they age. Buccal fat removal that looks good now, might make you look old and gaunt 5 years from now. Or it might not, that’s one of the...

Honestly man I agree with your mom. Granted, she has no idea what it’s like to be a young man on Tinder, but she’s right that you are taking the ban too hard. Loads of guys have had to deal with it. And while it’s frustrating, it’s not like it would take years or a Herculean effort to get around. It...

Thanks, I went to see a band play with my friend this weekend, and met some new people that they brought along. I tried being more open/friendly and feel like I got a more positive reaction. Tried the open stance stuff too and it seemed to make some improvement. Wound up swapping numbers with my fri...