Update on the girl: She delayed meeting again, we agreed to meet saturday but then during the day she said she wanted to break up, "didn't think things could be fixed". I said I'd cut contact etc but she said she wanted to give me my birthday gift(she had mentioned it before, my birthday was May 1st...

If you would like some more resources I follow several style guys on youtube on social media, more than happy to share. Looking forward to seeing the new style pictures. Definitely interested, send them my way! Shopping was a small disaster, roamed for hours and didn't find what I wanted. Well, I w...

Hey man, fucking props for starting the journey. The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step - or some cliche bullshit like that. Cliche aside, it's totally true. You took the first step on improving yourself, so good job! As for your relationship, it honestly sounds like a drama fest...

What I meant to write is, are her friends advising her on not proceeding with your connection with her? My woman doesn’t care for my opinion. She appreciates the advice of scholars and philosophers. The only exception is her uneducated best friend whose advice overrules pretty much everyone. It’s b...

Thanks, I'm looking forward to being part of the community. As far as this chick you’ve been seeing. She loves you. She just can’t commit because of some baggage she’s got. She’s putting words into your mouth, and justifying herself. At least that’s how I read it. Go cold. If I were you I’d just wri...

Bought a pullup bar, built a workout routine with the help of some people and got started. Will go shopping next week(thinking wednesday) for clothes and new shoes. Have been feeling a bit shitty about the girl I talked about. She's being evasive and not affectionate, despite we talking a decent amo...

So, the pandemic hit me hard. Stopped taking care of myself, became very sedentary etc. Became apathetic and depressive. Started back on Tinder after things started opening up and met this girl - says she's "assexual fluid" from the start, don't really care to elaborate or have an opinion but basica...

Yo guys, I'm fresh to the forums and the blog, still going through all the chapters. I am commited to changing my life completely, so I figure making myself accountable is the place to start. I'm 31yo, playing online poker professionally from Brazil. I was initially(many years ago) repelled by the P...

Yo I'm KB. I, KB, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously. 31 from Brazil, playing online poker full time My goals are: Either get into a healthy(by my standards) relationship or get laid at least once a month - Related to last goal, I need to internalize it is ok not to be in a re...