Because of my current approach like writing first and few answer or never is a lot pain in confidence If girls not responding to your Tinder opener hurts your confidence, you probably need to work on that instead of just deciding not to open. Also, you can’t even take it as a judgement on you - hot...

How much BDSM experience do you have? Your main log says 6 lays so unless you had some spicy LTRs you might not be experienced enough to run a BDSM profile. It’s not just profile quality, it’s that you risk having an off vibe in person if you’re talking more shit than you can back up. You also have ...

Remove your last pic (black and white smiling at camera), it’s just not good. Better to have a small number of good pictures, I’m currently running 4 on Tinder and one of them is complete nonsense. Cat pic would probably be better in color, I would only make a pic black and white if something is ser...

Rene’s about covered the general idea, I’m just gonna shill BJJ. Super fun, good exercise, awesome people. Gives me a mental clarity and fortitude that nothing else does - bullshit with work / girls feels a lot less serious when you just spent half an hour sparring.

You’re definitely on the right track. Chase weight loss, that should be your #1 goal above all else. That said, you’ve made great progress so far. As far as ED goes, weight loss will help massively with raising your testosterone and second order by making it easy to fuck girls you are extremely attr...

I have something in my mind, Do you have Friends with benefits or One nightstand that is on and off, like the same person just spaced through some time? Did you guys have dates before meeting them or did you guys like just fucked at first sight? I know this girl that I want to know a little better,...

Black is generally a safer bet to cultivate an edgier look, which is what you wanna aim for. Also just not a big fan of the light jeans + dark jacket, though I’m not a fashion expert. I’d also avoid polos entirely, stick to t shirts or button ups. Unless you’re legit jacked they don’t look good and ...

So I just wanted to put this out there - if you're like me and suck at making natural expressions for pictures, FaceApp is really good for adjusting expressions to where you want. It doesn't look fake, I've always thought that Photoshop's "Neural Filters" massively changed the way my face looked, ch...

Dating, so far my strategy has just been, talk and try to be flirty(?), ask to come to my flat, to my flat. If yes, try to kiss. So I can get my rejection at home in private lol. I can improve this by being more flirty or idk, I need date training. I really strongly agree with Andy / other people o...

As often stated on here, the problem with photofeeler is that it tends to reward broad appeal over polarization. Your pictures have good quality and composition, and you look comfortable in front of the camera, but they're generally a little bit bland. They give off the "boyfriend" vibe, which can g...

I think social 3 is solid, mostly because it has a girl in it. Gym 1 is probably the best looking of that set, but I'm not a big fan of the filter / editing. Not sure what you're using to edit, but if it's lightroom you should probably use a mask to increase exposure on your face and reduce the shad...

I haven't used pro photos but my results increased 10x when I went to photos using a DSLR. As far as taking decent photos yourself, I don't think it's as hard as people make it out to be. Photography in general isn't easy, but just focusing on the basics of framing yourself in a shot and taking a sh...

Well I can't see your pics anymore, but I'm in the DC area and wouldn't mind helping out. Shoot me a DM if you wanna just show pics in private cause I get that

Done three photoshoots in the last week and gotten what I think are some pretty damn good results. Currently running: sitting stripes 2 (2).jpg Monochrome leaning 1.jpg Green Blue 1 Foot Up.jpg volcano.JPG Including the last one largely to add some variety / show that I do shit, but I don't think it...

Outfits are a bit bland imo, no accessories and clothes that don't fit the contour of your body. You seem to be in decent shape so most of your pics should not be in baggy clothes. 1st pic cuts off the top of your head which always looks bad. 2nd pic is actually really good for a headshot, I'd proba...