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by ytlord
Thu Mar 09, 2023 8:20 am
Forum: Everything Else
Topic: Travel Advice - Want to learn how to transition from rooted homebody to world explorer
Replies: 8
Views: 4312

Travel Advice - Want to learn how to transition from rooted homebody to world explorer

I’m much closer to the beginning of this journey, but I can give advice as someone who came from a “low travel” background. I grew up traveling around the US a decent amount, but mostly camping trips and stuff like that. Solo travel is a whole other experience, and one that I think is best to just d...
by ytlord
Wed Mar 08, 2023 12:54 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Yg’s Progress Log - Social Circle Advice
Replies: 39
Views: 5138

Yg’s Progress Log -do you wait for girl’s to text you after first date?

“Hey, I had fun last night, hope you weren’t too tired today haha. (she mentioned having to get up early and being tired.) Would like to see you again sometime soon.” Yeah that’s fine. You’re badly overthinking all of this. Imo “text game” is near meaningless after the first date. If you invited th...
by ytlord
Sun Feb 26, 2023 5:53 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Brandon’s 365 Days of Masculine, Self-affirming Action: Days 278-283
Replies: 234
Views: 44293

Brandon’s 365 Days of Masculine, Self-affirming Action: Day 82

The stuff you and Dom are doing is absolutely incredible. Really makes me want to keep pursuing “social circle” situations. Implementing leadership and masculinity to bolster your sex life is kind of what I’m trying to do right now, and I feel like it’s a good way to improve all areas of your life i...
by ytlord
Tue Jan 31, 2023 1:10 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Are any of these pictures usable?
Replies: 5
Views: 1033

Are any of these pictures usable?

Fit / style is on point for the basic fuckboy look, good job there. 1 or 3 should be usable but it’s hard for me to say which. Id plug both into photofeeler and see which one does better, though I know thats controversial advice.
by ytlord
Tue Jan 31, 2023 1:08 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Need Help pivoting from a relationship to a casual/hookup mode and limited time
Replies: 8
Views: 1318

Need Help pivoting from a relationship to a casual/hookup mode and limited time

So first I would point out that 40 matches to one date ratio is about average, if you want more dates you simply need more matches. No matter what course of action you take to improve on your “seduction vibe”, you will definitely need more volume, and more dates, so as always improving your pictures...
by ytlord
Sun Jan 29, 2023 4:16 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Are these pictures any good? Or should I start over?
Replies: 12
Views: 2012

Are these pictures any good? Or should I start over?

I think 7th pic is the best, but yeah none of them are good. Expressions are awkward, outfits are basic. Your face should basically NEVER be shadowed, no amount of brightness adjustment will fix that you just need better lighting. Don’t edit away bad shadows. Take better pictures. Re read the Tinder...
by ytlord
Sun Jan 22, 2023 12:57 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: I tried tinder gold but still no success
Replies: 10
Views: 1895

I tried tinder gold but still no success

Your pics are just not good. It feels like you are trying to look cool or edgy without actually looking attractive - not because you aren’t attractive, but because these pics are not attractive. 1. Way too far back, can’t see your face clearly, body language is closed and almost hostile. 2. Squintin...
by ytlord
Wed Nov 02, 2022 11:58 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: ReachKid's log - Positive focus
Replies: 74
Views: 12228

Jegg's progress log - Baby steps in the right direction

However I do feel like my social skills are still lacking, especially maintaining conversations. I believe now this is almost certainly due to the fact I spend most of the time in my room not talking to people. I had a similar experience in Uni - the trick is to just start as many conversations as ...
by ytlord
Sat Oct 29, 2022 11:52 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Thrice log. How to deal with a bad date
Replies: 686
Views: 127827

Log one a day until first tinder lay

Your top priority needs to be mental health. You are essentially attractive - lower BF%, good facial aesthetics. Sure you aren't "jacked chad" enough to reliably get girls to invite you straight over off of Tinder, but you are definitely attractive enough to successfully casually date. There's simpl...
by ytlord
Wed Oct 26, 2022 12:34 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Tinder Profile Review
Replies: 8
Views: 1655

Tinder Profile Review

IMO Last pic is best, I'd lead with that one. First one isn't bad but crossed arms can seem "standoffish", and the last pic doesn't look full on nice guy. BDSM feels a touch too dark, but I don't have a ton of experience with that type of profile so I'm not a perfect resource. I actually like the 3r...
by ytlord
Tue Oct 18, 2022 1:29 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Need advice - which photos to use?
Replies: 3
Views: 792

Need advice - which photos to use?

1, 2: Could be good if zoomed in more 3: Almost good but your eyes are out of focus, generally too blurry 4: Pretty damn good 5: Prefer posture in 3 6, 7: Not bad but posture is kinda weird 8: Out of focus, makes you look short 9: Overall not bad, odd facial expression IMO 10: Boring posture / facia...
by ytlord
Tue Oct 18, 2022 1:17 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Taking Self Portraits
Replies: 5
Views: 1204

Taking Self Portraits

I had great success taking self portraits in public with a tripod, remote, and DSLR. My current best photo was admittedly taken by someone else, but I had tons of OLD success before that photo using self portrait techniques. The trick is to just lean into how autistic you look out in public and grin...
by ytlord
Fri Oct 14, 2022 1:05 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: ReachKid's log - Positive focus
Replies: 74
Views: 12228

Jegg's progress log - I need to graft

Really enjoy reading your log man, you’re on the right path. If you can nights like that as encouragement, that attitude will carry you far. Judging my the selfie you posted, you look way better without a beard, stick with that look. Improve your haircut and style, probably bulk up a little, and you...
by ytlord
Fri Sep 23, 2022 12:34 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: ReachKid's log - Positive focus
Replies: 74
Views: 12228

ReformedGamer's progress log - Time to hold myself accountable, and get the sex life I want

I'm focused on this idea that I can't escalate to sex because I still haven't moved into my flat (in under 2 weeks I move thankfully) Do you currently live with roommates or family? Roommates are definitely no excuse, I’ve literally always had roommates and have gotten plenty of lays. Family is a b...
by ytlord
Wed Sep 14, 2022 1:20 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Crimson’s Progress Log
Replies: 699
Views: 112675

Crimson’s Progress Log - Tracking short-term goals

Dude you’re fucking killing it. One note I’ll make on escalation: I’ve found that it’s counterproductive to kiss a girl when you aren’t close to a location where you can have sex. I’ve never kissed a girl and the gotten her to agree to go back to mine. I’ve gotten her to agree to come back and then ...