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by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 03, 2024 8:55 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: We have Liftoff
Replies: 6
Views: 686

We have Liftoff

Well fellas, I have updates. First the bad news: My weight hasn't budged, still in the 230's. More motivated then ive been in a while to workout, i just need to fix my eating habits. And now for the good news: I've started a new job and I absolutely love it. the pay and benefits are phenomenal, and ...
by Ashsrt
Sat Sep 23, 2023 6:31 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: We have Liftoff
Replies: 6
Views: 686

Let’s deux this

Thanks MILFandCookies I’m finishing up the easy peasy method today and I’ll read that too. My interview went great and I got a callback from another huge company for an engineering position. I did relapse once it’s just almost impossible to not casually peek and then boom. Missed the gym this mornin...
by Ashsrt
Thu Sep 21, 2023 3:17 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: We have Liftoff
Replies: 6
Views: 686

Let’s deux this

Porn is hard to quit guys. When it’s part of your daily routine it takes a second to realize what your doing before you stop. Otherwise the past two days have been uneventful. I have an interview tomorrow so looking forward to that. Cheers
by Ashsrt
Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:56 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: We have Liftoff
Replies: 6
Views: 686

Let’s deux this

9/18
227.6

Good day, work and school. Got further in the easypeasy method, kind of surprised they say to continue porn until you finish the book. Too busy today to do that anyway. Got my meal plan on paper and tweaking it for what I need now.
by Ashsrt
Mon Sep 18, 2023 4:07 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: We have Liftoff
Replies: 6
Views: 686

We have Liftoff

I fell, and I’m going to get back up. This will be my progress log. Goals: Cut from 230 to 190 by end of January. Stick to my diet and workout routine with some modifications for my new schedule. Completely stop my porn dependency. 9/17/23 I worked on my car and a buddies car all day. Hardly ate, an...
by Ashsrt
Mon Sep 18, 2023 4:00 am
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: I've become a loser all over again.
Replies: 9
Views: 2763

I've become a loser all over again.

@Ashsrt this will not be the last time you taste failure on this journey what counts is you stay on that journey and this post is a sign that you havent quit turn how you feel right now into rocket fuel thanks for your kind words in there about my guide too btw, means a lot Starting over sucks, but...
by Ashsrt
Mon Sep 18, 2023 3:58 am
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: I've become a loser all over again.
Replies: 9
Views: 2763

I've become a loser all over again.

Try to see it as falling forward bro. You know that you were able to reach your goals in the past, you are definitely capable of doing it again and beyond. You say you're scared of failing but you sound like you already believe that you have failed; in that case, the only options are to remain in a...
by Ashsrt
Mon Sep 18, 2023 3:56 am
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: I've become a loser all over again.
Replies: 9
Views: 2763

I've become a loser all over again.

Hi bro. I am another fallen angel. i was having a nice life abroad and banging chicks. Then I made poor decisions, I made debt, I made career mistake, lost all muscles I had hardly gained... I just started building everything from scratch again. This time with the past experience and it's gonna be ...
by Ashsrt
Sun Sep 17, 2023 5:17 am
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: I've become a loser all over again.
Replies: 9
Views: 2763

I've become a loser all over again.

This just posted and I can see my old picture and my old goals. I've fallen so far. I'm so ashamed of myself.
by Ashsrt
Sun Sep 17, 2023 5:15 am
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: I've become a loser all over again.
Replies: 9
Views: 2763

I've become a loser all over again.

Hey Everyone, I've been away from the forums for a while, but I need to be here now more than ever. 9 months ago I had everything I wanted, a great job, a really cool fwb, and I was at my goal weight. Fast forward to now, and I've become a bigger loser than I was before. What happened? Well to start...
by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 13, 2022 4:54 pm
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?
Replies: 15
Views: 5003

I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?

Hey man, this may be completely non helpful but..... I am pretty sure when you started this journey you we're excited or happy or looking forward to it or at least not feeling like how you do now right? Well if that is the case, just KISS Keep It Simple Stupid Find a new goal over the next year, I ...
by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 13, 2022 4:48 pm
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?
Replies: 15
Views: 5003

I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?

Mate, I can relate very much. I'm successful with online dating but I actually hate it. Having sex with tinder girls gives me absolutely nothing. It makes me feel empty and depresesd. Th advice that I can give you is: 1. Set goals that are unrelated to women (run a marathon, climb a 8km mountain, e...
by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 13, 2022 4:45 pm
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?
Replies: 15
Views: 5003

I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?

It's not because we're on his forum bit Andy has an article about it : https://killyourinnerloser.com/settling/ It's totally normal man. You wanted something one year ago, now you want something different. It's just called growth. Maybe in a year, after a relationship, you'll want to bang many girl...
by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 13, 2022 3:12 pm
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?
Replies: 15
Views: 5003

I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?

I can see what the poem is saying, and I guess my response is, imagine you set out in the wrong direction. But didn’t realize it until you got there. And still, the destination remains unknown. You probably picked up things along the way right? Also maybe you would've been obsessed and always wonde...
by Ashsrt
Sun Mar 13, 2022 12:46 am
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?
Replies: 15
Views: 5003

I got what I wanted, so why am I so unhappy?

happiness is not a destination, but a manner of traveling read and think about this poem: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/51296/ithaka-56d22eef917ec I can see what the poem is saying, and I guess my response is, imagine you set out in the wrong direction. But didn’t realize it until you got ...