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by benstrong26
Fri May 13, 2022 3:29 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Experiences hiring a photographer? EDIT: PHOTOSHOOT NEXT WEDNESDAY, I NEED HELP
Replies: 16
Views: 4370

Experiences hiring a photographer? EDIT: PHOTOSHOOT NEXT WEDNESDAY, I NEED HELP

AtlantisGuy hopefully your photographer helps you out with this, but you’ll want your facial expressions to be on point during the shoot. Easiest way to do this is to get yourself into a confident mindset and give the camera that knowing smirk. Good luck on your shoot, my results pre and post shoot...
by benstrong26
Fri May 13, 2022 3:25 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Pics and profile critique
Replies: 4
Views: 1049

Pics and profile critique

Thanks guys! I hear what you're saying. But I've had girls comment on 3 more than any other pic (I guess some girls really like cowboy hats lmao). One or two commented on 6. I feel you on 7 though. I need some good physique pics that aren't mirror selfies. I'd like to replace that one with a pro sh...
by benstrong26
Wed May 19, 2021 12:58 pm
Forum: Style & Fashion
Topic: Accessories Sources/Inspiration?
Replies: 3
Views: 1379

Accessories Sources/Inspiration?

Check out https://www.clocksandcolours.com/ too. Their stuff has a lot of edge.
by benstrong26
Fri May 14, 2021 1:05 pm
Forum: Cold Approach
Topic: Girls with masks
Replies: 6
Views: 1943

Girls with masks

I see you live in the US. The CDC said yesterday that vaccinated people don’t need to wear masks anymore. If someone is wearing a mask outside they are probably vaccinated too, so I don’t they would be freaked out if you approached them.
by benstrong26
Thu Dec 10, 2020 3:08 am
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Ed’s 365 Gym Project - Back on track!
Replies: 22
Views: 7081

Ed’s 365 Gym Project - Broke Down Crying After The Gym Today

@Ed_ why don’t you like the squat/deadlift focus of starting strength?
by benstrong26
Mon Aug 31, 2020 5:21 pm
Forum: Style & Fashion
Topic: I need help picking between these two watches
Replies: 3
Views: 1576

I need help picking between these two watches

I have a very similar Orient watch myself and love it because it is versatile. You can dress it up or go casual with it. One thing to note though is that it is an automatic watch. The watch gets its power from movement, so if you don’t wear it every day it will stop and you will have to reset the ti...
by benstrong26
Sun Aug 09, 2020 2:58 am
Forum: Country-Specific Talk
Topic: Dallas, Tx
Replies: 2
Views: 1834

Dallas, Tx

I live in Dallas but I wouldn’t say I go out frequently, especially right now.
by benstrong26
Sun Aug 09, 2020 2:56 am
Forum: Style & Fashion
Topic: Take 2.
Replies: 9
Views: 3196

Take 2.

I think stylistically your outfit is fine for the occasion, but to me the fit on the jeans looks off in the photo. They look like they are bunching up at the knees which is making your legs look funky. You might need to look at a different brand of jeans. Personally, I like Revtown jeans because the...
by benstrong26
Sun Aug 09, 2020 2:50 am
Forum: Gaining Muscle / Gym
Topic: How to Fall In Love With the Process of Working Out
Replies: 12
Views: 4254

How to Fall In Love With the Process of Working Out

I didn’t start working out to have an impressive physique, I started working out to get strong. Tbh, it was a grind until I started seeing results, then I got addicted to the process. There is a major high to seeing progress. Also, find the thing that works for you. For me it was CrossFit, the group...
by benstrong26
Sun Jul 26, 2020 3:37 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: First super nasty response!
Replies: 12
Views: 5309

First super nasty response!

I’ve gotten the “Let me give you advice, don’t call a girl sexy” response to the opening line a few times. I just chalk it up to the fact the girl is probably frustrated to still be online dating (it’s usually a girl in their early 30s) and move on.
by benstrong26
Tue Jul 21, 2020 2:05 pm
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: The Slight Edge for overcoming "nice guy" behaviors
Replies: 23
Views: 9328

The Slight Edge for overcoming "nice guy" behaviors

arcade_fireee I think you’d get a lot out of reading Models by Mark Manson. You can be nice but also express yourself honestly. For example, if you find a girl to be attractive and you tell her that, you aren’t being a nice guy. A nice guy wouldn’t come out and say that for fear of offending her by...
by benstrong26
Wed Jul 15, 2020 7:55 pm
Forum: Country-Specific Talk
Topic: Where to move to in the US? - Update: Moved to Austin
Replies: 13
Views: 7693

Where to move to in the US? - Autistic City Comparisons

Even if the city institutes a lockdown, aren't there less liberal suburbs close by where things will be more open? I'm not looking for some utopia where things stays open (like New Hampshire or South Dakota) -- I just need gyms, places to take dates, and some places to keep approaching women. Enoug...
by benstrong26
Wed Jul 15, 2020 2:57 am
Forum: Country-Specific Talk
Topic: Where to move to in the US? - Update: Moved to Austin
Replies: 13
Views: 7693

Where to move to in the US? - Autistic City Comparisons

I wouldn’t put Austin at an A when it comes to lockdowns. Texas is a mess right now. If the Governor allowed it, the local government in Austin would have already instituted a lockdown. People are getting desperate because they need to but are scared to send their kids to school. Overall though, Aus...
by benstrong26
Sun Jul 12, 2020 1:55 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Looking for tinder guidance/course correction
Replies: 9
Views: 2458

Looking for tinder guidance/course correction

Minor quibble but the “Don’t be afraid to say hey” piece was only meant for Bumble. Since you can (and should) message first on Tinder, it doesn’t make as much sense.
by benstrong26
Thu Jul 09, 2020 9:24 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Low Response Rate?
Replies: 5
Views: 2282

Low Response Rate?

Tinder and Hinge I’m at around 10% though it’s a small sample size so far. (Not counted the couple of girls who tried to educate me that I shouldn’t call a girl sexy)

I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing (while improving my photos) and hopefully the response rate picks up.