I skipped most of the AA program and just jumped straight into cold approaches. Got bored of asking for the time and directions to various places and skipped to just giving hit and run compliments to girls then slowly built on that. IMO the GLL AA program wastes a lot of time with bullshit that you...

Today was the 4th day of the AA program , which meant I had to get out there and ask 5 girls for the time. I just finished the drill like 30 minutes ago. In total it took over 6 hours to talk to 5 girls and ask the time. I wanted to ask girls who were at least a little attractive and not just 50 y/...

I don't understand why guys want to stop watching porn or why they bother doing nofap. It won't affect your ability to get laid unless it's extreme. The nofap movement is so retarded I just can't regularly watch porn and feel good about that. I have friends who are opposite to this as well. When I ...

Yesterday I've read through the cold approach program from GLL and listened to the first audio recording. Today I've listened to the second one where he basically talks about execution of a plan. Being smooth/talking to women is just a plan you execute. Tomorrow is day 3. I've read that the action s...

Is the approach anxiety program from GLL still viable? I might start following that regime. Still viable ya. Just expect it to take a long time and sometimes be hard. You'll have a few moments where you can't accomplish a particular day, but eventually you'll push through. ... Also careful on the w...

So I'm going to work on my approach anxiety starting next week (it's sunday now). The last cold approach I did was last week in a club while I was sober. I could eventually do it, but it took way longer than I would like it to take. Also my main goals is to up my confidence with women, so this is pr...

I think my stance on P and masturbation have changed a bit in the last days. I watched P and did the deed 3 days ago, after 17 days of nothing. But before I did this I said to myself "I will do it and accept all the consequences that might come with it" (lower energy, self-esteem drops, all that). S...

Cold. Approach.

Should I do it? Been thinking about it for the last week. Only went out to cold approach once with a friend, and that was years ago.
Why should I do it? Why should I not?
Anyone with experience in beating AA, would love to hear from you.

Like everyone else has said having a date with a FWB lined up within the week helps. Learn to enjoy the feeling of tension building up until then, and consider how great the sex will be once you get that release. Along that line, be honest with girls about what you are into and what you want to do ...

Hey man I'd recommend using Get Cold Turkey as a website blocker, it works well on desktop. for mobile I haven't found something as good. Having top quality online dating profiles + cold approach bringing in loads of warm leads would honestly help the most in terms of stopping you watching porn/PMO...

This thread reminds me that I haven't watched porn for a while now. Can't remember exactly when was the last time, maybe in February, with a girl, just before having kinky sex... As an ex addicted porn user, I would say that what truly worked for me was to get sexually satisfied. Even when I was in...

Sounds like you have all the motivation in the world to stop. Everyone handles things differently, and if porn is that addictive to you you then I understand you wanting to go cold turkey. Knowing its this bad for you, why do you choose to do it? You don't strike me as the person choosing to do her...

So look. I think it comes down to this. Humans have all sorts of drives. But the drive to have sex, is probably the strongest of them all. We ignore hunger for sex. We sacrifice sleep for sex. We travel for sex. We look good for sex. We act tough for sex. We act nice for sex. And a lot of us pay tho...

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Sun Apr 02, 2023 3:38 pm

Have sex 3-4 times a week (with different girls each time)

Watching porn/jerking off will start to feel like a chore

I think (almost know actually) that something like this is the only option I have.
Not watching porn, but also not seeing girls has been next to impossible for me.

If it helps, consider watching porn like having a drink. One every now and again won't hurt you. If your drinking 3 pints a night every day of the week, then you clearly have a problem. I've experimented with this a lot. If I watch porn, I give in to the addiction, which I already don't want to do....