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by ytlord
Wed Sep 14, 2022 1:24 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Help with Tinder profile
Replies: 1
Views: 522

Help with Tinder profile

Very average read guide
by ytlord
Tue Sep 13, 2022 1:25 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Is it advisable/socially calibrated to invite a girl near your place if she lives really far?
Replies: 4
Views: 1227

Is it advisable/socially calibrated to invite a girl near your place if she lives really far?

I used to have this dilemma because I live out in the suburbs. I eventually figured out that most of the girls who wouldn’t meet me close to my place weren’t DTF. I get less dates by only inviting girls to places close to me but my pull rate has gone way up. I may lose some girls, but in reality I g...
by ytlord
Mon Sep 12, 2022 8:00 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Help with tinder pics
Replies: 8
Views: 1324

Help with tinder pics

Google drive is kinda dogshit so I’m just going by thumbnails. Since I can’t seem to open full pictures I won’t give you a specific set or order, only general advice. Your physique is obviously elite, you have a good haircut and facial aesthetics. The main issue is that these pictures make you look ...
by ytlord
Sat Sep 10, 2022 4:31 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
Replies: 11
Views: 2145

Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter

I'm not very photogenic No, you just need to take ~1000 pictures before you get one that looks natural and good. Being “photogenic” is just a question of improving that ratio. I don’t wanna come across as a dick, but you have quite a bit of work ahead of you. I feel like I suck at hair advice, so I...
by ytlord
Sat Sep 10, 2022 2:22 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
Replies: 11
Views: 2145

Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter

Get new pictures, trim down to 4-6 pictures instead of this clusterfuck. Read the Tinder guide, you’re at a basic enough level that that’s the “correct” advice. Tinder standards have gone up massively in the last 3 years, probably more so the last 5 but I wasn’t active 5 years ago. You need well cur...
by ytlord
Fri Sep 09, 2022 6:15 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Tinder pics
Replies: 4
Views: 1156

Tinder pics

With what you have now, I’d say 5,3,1,9,10. Your style is extremely solid imo, and your pretty good looking, but could definitely do with edgier expressions / poses in pics. You probably will get the best returns by improving your texting. I’m not the best source on this but I’d recommend starting w...
by ytlord
Tue Aug 30, 2022 5:42 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: Rottweilers' Log
Replies: 173
Views: 35182

Rottweilers' Log

The thing about boxers / fighters is that they are generally burning so many calories that they don’t have to try that hard to lose weight, at least that’s my take. Those sports tend to only attract people who are extremely motivated and already fit to some degree, so burning 1000 calories and eatin...
by ytlord
Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:41 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Photo feedback
Replies: 5
Views: 1154

Photo feedback

1st Pic: Solid outfit, you look good, decent level of accessories though atm I'm telling everyone in a solid T-shirt to add a necklace. You could definitely cultivate more "fuckboy vibe" with your expression here, but it's not actively hurting you. I'd say the smile leans more "cocky/confident" than...
by ytlord
Tue Aug 09, 2022 1:55 am
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Tinder Profile/Body/Fashion Review - Nails painted black
Replies: 9
Views: 2066

Tinder Profile/Body/Fashion Review - Nails painted black

1st pic: Not a great first pic because your eyes aren't clearly visible, also you have a great haircut but this pic fails to show it off 2nd: Hat and shirt are frankly ass, also your expression looks insecure 3rd: Overall very mediocre, not much to say. Not amazing, but nothing obviously wrong with ...
by ytlord
Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:41 pm
Forum: General Self-Improvement
Topic: How do you work on one goal at a time, in practice?
Replies: 10
Views: 2865

How do you work on one goal at a time, in practice?

This has been on my mind a ton lately, especially in regards to balancing something that's more mentally draining like cutting or fighting AA. I tried to "do everything" back in May and it led to serious burnout / backsliding. The past month or so I've successfully been losing weight by making that ...
by ytlord
Thu Aug 04, 2022 10:23 pm
Forum: Progress Logs
Topic: colgate - assume your childhood woes were your fault too
Replies: 807
Views: 237525

colgate's bulldog pen - july 2022 online dating recap

~100 matches. - 25-30 numbers, 1 instagram, 1 snapchat. I actually arranged dates with the instagram and snapchat, but they both flaked. The snapchat girl wasn't from here and is sending me snaps from her home, which is some island in the middle of the Pacific so I'll enjoy the random beach and coc...
by ytlord
Thu Aug 04, 2022 10:15 pm
Forum: Mental Health & Depression
Topic: Allen Carr's Easy Way to leave addictions behing: Porn, sugar, smoking, others
Replies: 2
Views: 1814

Allen Carr's Easy Way to leave addictions behing: Porn, sugar, smoking, others

Damn I literally just posted about this in my log. I only just read it for the first time, but while reading I realized that I had used something similar to this method unintentionally in the past for other addictions. Really is awesome for changing your mindset!
by ytlord
Mon Aug 01, 2022 2:06 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Photo feedback on new photos - Help pick six
Replies: 14
Views: 3096

Photo feedback on new photos - Help pick six

11-15-6-18-1-5 You have awesome hobby pics, but you’re still missing edge. The reason I like 6 so much is that your expression works, you aren’t smiling, you look confident. Almost all of your pictures are either smiling at the camera or looking away and still smiling. If you’re smiling at the camer...
by ytlord
Fri Jul 29, 2022 2:17 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Rate my tinder pics
Replies: 10
Views: 1449

Rate my tinder pics

So your posing, backgrounds, expressions are all solid, or at least you manage to have good ones in your larger batches. Running pic and gym pic both have bad posture / lighting, so don’t use those. Currently the sixth pic is the best (floral shirt looking to the side) by far. Biggest thing you need...
by ytlord
Mon Jun 27, 2022 6:00 pm
Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
Topic: Should a man always write first?
Replies: 4
Views: 835

Should a man always write first?

Because of my current approach like writing first and few answer or never is a lot pain in confidence If girls not responding to your Tinder opener hurts your confidence, you probably need to work on that instead of just deciding not to open. Also, you can’t even take it as a judgement on you - hot...