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- Wed Sep 14, 2022 1:24 am
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Help with Tinder profile
- Replies: 1
- Views: 522
Help with Tinder profile
Very average read guide
- Tue Sep 13, 2022 1:25 am
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Is it advisable/socially calibrated to invite a girl near your place if she lives really far?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1227
Is it advisable/socially calibrated to invite a girl near your place if she lives really far?
I used to have this dilemma because I live out in the suburbs. I eventually figured out that most of the girls who wouldn’t meet me close to my place weren’t DTF. I get less dates by only inviting girls to places close to me but my pull rate has gone way up. I may lose some girls, but in reality I g...
- Mon Sep 12, 2022 8:00 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Help with tinder pics
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1324
Help with tinder pics
Google drive is kinda dogshit so I’m just going by thumbnails. Since I can’t seem to open full pictures I won’t give you a specific set or order, only general advice. Your physique is obviously elite, you have a good haircut and facial aesthetics. The main issue is that these pictures make you look ...
- Sat Sep 10, 2022 4:31 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
- Replies: 11
- Views: 2145
Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
I'm not very photogenic No, you just need to take ~1000 pictures before you get one that looks natural and good. Being “photogenic” is just a question of improving that ratio. I don’t wanna come across as a dick, but you have quite a bit of work ahead of you. I feel like I suck at hair advice, so I...
- Sat Sep 10, 2022 2:22 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
- Replies: 11
- Views: 2145
Returning to online dating after years, match quality down the shitter
Get new pictures, trim down to 4-6 pictures instead of this clusterfuck. Read the Tinder guide, you’re at a basic enough level that that’s the “correct” advice. Tinder standards have gone up massively in the last 3 years, probably more so the last 5 but I wasn’t active 5 years ago. You need well cur...
- Fri Sep 09, 2022 6:15 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Tinder pics
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1156
Tinder pics
With what you have now, I’d say 5,3,1,9,10. Your style is extremely solid imo, and your pretty good looking, but could definitely do with edgier expressions / poses in pics. You probably will get the best returns by improving your texting. I’m not the best source on this but I’d recommend starting w...
- Tue Aug 30, 2022 5:42 pm
- Forum: Progress Logs
- Topic: Rottweilers' Log
- Replies: 173
- Views: 35182
Rottweilers' Log
The thing about boxers / fighters is that they are generally burning so many calories that they don’t have to try that hard to lose weight, at least that’s my take. Those sports tend to only attract people who are extremely motivated and already fit to some degree, so burning 1000 calories and eatin...
- Tue Aug 09, 2022 11:41 am
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Photo feedback
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1154
Photo feedback
1st Pic: Solid outfit, you look good, decent level of accessories though atm I'm telling everyone in a solid T-shirt to add a necklace. You could definitely cultivate more "fuckboy vibe" with your expression here, but it's not actively hurting you. I'd say the smile leans more "cocky/confident" than...
- Tue Aug 09, 2022 1:55 am
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Tinder Profile/Body/Fashion Review - Nails painted black
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2066
Tinder Profile/Body/Fashion Review - Nails painted black
1st pic: Not a great first pic because your eyes aren't clearly visible, also you have a great haircut but this pic fails to show it off 2nd: Hat and shirt are frankly ass, also your expression looks insecure 3rd: Overall very mediocre, not much to say. Not amazing, but nothing obviously wrong with ...
- Mon Aug 08, 2022 9:41 pm
- Forum: General Self-Improvement
- Topic: How do you work on one goal at a time, in practice?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 2865
How do you work on one goal at a time, in practice?
This has been on my mind a ton lately, especially in regards to balancing something that's more mentally draining like cutting or fighting AA. I tried to "do everything" back in May and it led to serious burnout / backsliding. The past month or so I've successfully been losing weight by making that ...
- Thu Aug 04, 2022 10:23 pm
- Forum: Progress Logs
- Topic: colgate - assume your childhood woes were your fault too
- Replies: 807
- Views: 237525
colgate's bulldog pen - july 2022 online dating recap
~100 matches. - 25-30 numbers, 1 instagram, 1 snapchat. I actually arranged dates with the instagram and snapchat, but they both flaked. The snapchat girl wasn't from here and is sending me snaps from her home, which is some island in the middle of the Pacific so I'll enjoy the random beach and coc...
- Thu Aug 04, 2022 10:15 pm
- Forum: Mental Health & Depression
- Topic: Allen Carr's Easy Way to leave addictions behing: Porn, sugar, smoking, others
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1814
Allen Carr's Easy Way to leave addictions behing: Porn, sugar, smoking, others
Damn I literally just posted about this in my log. I only just read it for the first time, but while reading I realized that I had used something similar to this method unintentionally in the past for other addictions. Really is awesome for changing your mindset!
- Mon Aug 01, 2022 2:06 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Photo feedback on new photos - Help pick six
- Replies: 14
- Views: 3096
Photo feedback on new photos - Help pick six
11-15-6-18-1-5 You have awesome hobby pics, but you’re still missing edge. The reason I like 6 so much is that your expression works, you aren’t smiling, you look confident. Almost all of your pictures are either smiling at the camera or looking away and still smiling. If you’re smiling at the camer...
- Fri Jul 29, 2022 2:17 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Rate my tinder pics
- Replies: 10
- Views: 1449
Rate my tinder pics
So your posing, backgrounds, expressions are all solid, or at least you manage to have good ones in your larger batches. Running pic and gym pic both have bad posture / lighting, so don’t use those. Currently the sixth pic is the best (floral shirt looking to the side) by far. Biggest thing you need...
- Mon Jun 27, 2022 6:00 pm
- Forum: Tinder/Online Dating
- Topic: Should a man always write first?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 835
Should a man always write first?
Because of my current approach like writing first and few answer or never is a lot pain in confidence If girls not responding to your Tinder opener hurts your confidence, you probably need to work on that instead of just deciding not to open. Also, you can’t even take it as a judgement on you - hot...