Succeeding Despite Not Knowing What You Want

Radical · Sat Dec 19, 2020 12:39 am

Top 5 Biggest Strengths as promised

Memory - always had it. It allowed me to coast through education not really taking it that seriously. I can also speed read like rapid

Im quick to take action - this is a more recently learned strength by leaning into my impulsivity and figuring out how to swim. Instilled in me by GLL and the community there.

Empathy - Always had strong empathy and understanding but i've developed it further by meeting more people and making more friends. The quickest way to convince someone you care about them is to actually care about them.

My height - this might annoy some people this one, but i figured i needed one that was physical. But i've always been very happy that I'm a tall guy. Im 6'2 and I grew quickly so I spent most of school years as one of the tallest in the year.

I got over my ego and the idea of doing everything myself - this was actually tough. Learning to trust and rely on other people to do stuff to help you. But I consider it a great learned strength.

Radical · Sat Dec 19, 2020 9:24 pm

Factoring in self improvement, my blog, my youtube channel and my job I basically find it impossible to take days off recently.

They suck too, im more stressed out trying to avoid everything than I am in a busy af day.

I think this is great thing tbh. I've never been more fulfilled day to day work wise.

I take half days now. So I write off a morning to go hiking or something.

Thebastard · Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:39 pm

Having just taken a day off I can relate. But then I planned for it. The pizza, watching the mandalorian, fapping. I made a deal with myself so there is no guilt. But I do get you. Once you build momentum killing it, its hard to stop.

Radical · Tue Dec 22, 2020 12:39 am

An old video I did that no one watched

Why impulsiveness is a positive trait
If you have it as part of your personality lean into it when it tells you to act
Throw yourself in the deep end so you learn how to swim

Wifty · Tue Dec 22, 2020 8:09 pm

What about vlogging sharing your goals and reporting them daily.

And ask people Who begin to Follow you what goals they have too, so you can all begin to be together onto the same road/mindset ?

Radical · Tue Dec 22, 2020 10:28 pm

Doing that daily would bore me tbh. I like coming up with concept videos and talking about things, it makes the videos potentially more interesting to edit as well... and i want to play around with that more.

Its not a bad idea as a weekly thing, to show how im practicing what i preach though.

Radical · Sat Dec 26, 2020 11:44 pm

Probably my worst case of drama since I started taking my dating life seriously

Hottest chick I dated last year but jesus christ
Broke into my hostel and found my dorm room, all at 1am
Had to calm her down, let her sleep off the alcohol and then send her off forever

Radical · Thu Jan 14, 2021 9:27 pm

Ive not been reposting my vids on here enough

Here's a soppy one about how im grateful for everyone that makes up this community

Fri Jan 15, 2021 12:29 am

Echo those sentiments - love you guys.
Success is literally just DON'T QUIT.

Manganiello · Fri Jan 15, 2021 3:15 am

I was off for maybe 6 months.
I think what happened was just this forum was a lower priority, and life got busy, and I kind of just forgot.
I won't really call myself as "being back" until I've been on here for a few months tbh.

There's so much value in just being around other people who are committed to some goal in their life.
It gives another reason to keep going.

Mr Available · Fri Jan 15, 2021 3:49 am

I wouldn't worry too much about other people.

I'm really busy to post updates of my life.

And I'm looking forward to your style advice on your site.

Radical · Fri Jan 22, 2021 1:12 am

@pussypounder9000 Hey dude. Answered your question about tinder in full on a vid

Fri Jan 22, 2021 2:24 am

^ Agree with everything, this cunt knows his stuff. He should be moderator or something

Radical · Thu Jan 28, 2021 5:59 pm

As promised on a recent video I put my thoughts on how useful Photofeeler out there

TLDR: It can be useful as a supplementary analysis but the Tinder pool will sometimes throw up different results. As was the case with two of my pictures

MattsCrib · Thu Jan 28, 2021 7:50 pm

Dude, great logs!

I'm especially interested in you TRP series - what made me completely block reddit overall was the sheer goddamn negativity in TRP. I mean... Even the endorsed contributors - do you actually want to fuck girls or just fuck over young guys by cheating with their girlfriends and then telling that "girls are sluts - she was choking on my dick while she was texting her boyfriend telling him that she loves him" etc. It's this weird power-fetish, creating a problem while simultaneously complaining about said problem.

The last straw for me was when I was talking about my former classmate, a girl who at the time was a virgin. An endorsed contributor SWORE that I actually have no idea what she's doing behind my back and she's actually a slut, possibly lying about not having sex. I've known this girl for YEARS, she is a decent friend and she has told me that she's TERRIFIED of never finding anyone. She hadn't even KISSED anyone, was from a typical farm house and wanted to raise a family with one guy. Now she found a pretty decent looking farmer type of guy, is I think 24 or 25 and planning to have children soon