Best text strategy after getting numbers from cold approach?

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Tue Jan 05, 2021 4:07 am

I'm conflicted between two methods.

a. Get her number, send her a text with your name immediately. Ask her if she's free to meet on <1-2 days later> at <some random spot/view near my apartment>

b. Get her number, send her a text with your name immediately. Start texting her for a day or two, and THEN ask her out.

I'm worried if I go with option A they'll flake much more because there's barely any rapport. On the other hand I don't want to be her texting buddy and kill the mystery.
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Tue Jan 05, 2021 4:14 am

A. If she isn't interested asap, I find myself losing interest down the line, too.
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Tue Jan 05, 2021 5:46 am

Get her number, text her for a bit, invite her over to ur place. Get as far as you can. if not, schedule a date.

ur mentally jacking off again btw. you dont need to ask us for everything, do it yourself. just remember: aggressive is best
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Sat Jan 09, 2021 9:11 am ... -dq16ldatn

I found this really upped my texting game a lot. No one is perfect and I'm always trying to be better but at least read it to get the knowledge in your brain. It's a quick read shouldn't take more than 15 minutes going slow.
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Mon Jan 18, 2021 6:00 pm

Rapport (beyond basic “I’m not a creep and I’m socially normal” convo) is unnecessary. Either they’re into you or they’re not.
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