My definition of success is to develop the ability to go out any time and get laid, within 1 week, by a woman I'm attracted to. In my 20's I did get laid plenty. Some were from work, some from cold approach, some from bars, but most were from online. Most of the girls were 4's-6's (I hate objectifying them btw) with a handful of 7's and maybe a single 8. My sex life was inconsistent and I was never happy with it or the attractiveness of the girls I was with. Most of them had at least 1 sexually attractive feature (big boobs or butt), but on the whole they were not girls I was was excited about. I will say that the most attractive ones were all from cold approach (I had shitty pictures for the online game).
This time around I'm only going after the girls I actually want. I made a written outline of most of GLL's articles and a handful of really good KYIL's articles and have absorbed and understood the information. I've now started applying what I've learned and I'm not quitting until I hit my goal.
I've updated my fashion and have started cold approaching again this week. I've done 9-10 approaches in the last 3 days. I'm getting a much different reaction from girls this time around. I can't figure out if my style screams player, ridiculous, or if at 35 I'm just looking too old to be talking to girls in their early 20's. All but 1 of the cold approaches were rejects. They were pretty cold/hard rejects meaning the girls did not really even engage in the conversation. Some looked at me a little petrified when I started talking to them and most were really quick to brush me off and walk away.
Prior to updating my fashion, when I dressed like an average guy, I did not get rejected like this. Most girls would at least talk to me and the rejection would be them telling me they have a boyfriend or just a courteous "no thank you" when I asked to meet again. I'm curious why the responses are different now. I'm wondering if my fashion is simply filtering out the non-available and non-DTF girls?
I've been going out dressed like this (and plan on sticking with this basic template):
![Image](https://i.imgur.com/g1DeLTM.jpg)
I'm going to continue playing the numbers game and refining my routine. In the mean time, can anyone spot anything off-putting about my appearance, just so I can rule that out? I think I look just fine but sometimes you don't know that you're delusional until others give you a reality check.