(Roundtable Discussion) Guys Who've Gotten Laid from Cold Approach

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Adam
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 6:28 am

Question for Andy: Have you ever seen someone get comfortable with approaching girls by just jumping into it without doing the AA program? Or have you always seen better results from guys who went through the program?
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Yaxir
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 11:30 am

thanks @KillYourInnerLoser , @Crisis_Overcomer (haha , the Mjolnir really made me laugh - don't worry , i will try to have as good fundamentals as possible when doing my first ever cold approach later this month ) and @SIGMA_1234 ( very detailed description and you described it very well - hits the points i was really worried about , also motivates me to approach )

also Sigma , thanks for pointing out the theorizing and mental masturbation bullshit .. it's overthinking shit too much

i have to get rid of that ASAP !

Just to provide a little bit of background;

By heritage , i am from a generally conservative Muslim country , which is why i asked these questions

I am sure other people with similar backgrounds have similar fears / anxieties - but we can only grow by overcoming them !

this forum gives me hope that i can change and i will !

great day my mates !
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 11:33 am

Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Sun Jun 06, 2021 5:06 am
style/hygiene advice
btw is there a main thread for this ?

where can i find this on the forum ?
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 2:59 pm

Yaxir wrote:
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i have to get rid of that ASAP !
Then what are you waiting for? Start logging.
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 5:04 pm

I have a few questions:

-How to keep being motivated when there's shit weather? I just feel depressed when it's a shit weather, I don't think theres any trick except to force yourself but still I'd like your opinion.

-Do you guys live far away from the spots you approach? For me it's something like 1 hour train trajects to get to good approaching spots, so it's difficult for me to get shit done and not procrastinate. But maybe I should just force myself, don't know.
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Sun Jun 06, 2021 11:45 pm

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Sun Jun 06, 2021 10:30 pm
That means you have 5 weeks to go FUCKING CRAZY with getting laid. I want to see you all rack up a couple of lays, minimum.
Nice a time crunch. Puts the pressure on to succeed. Needed some sort of external motivation to make me push even harder.
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Mon Jun 07, 2021 6:58 am

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Mon Jun 07, 2021 11:24 am

Good Motivation. Trying the tinder guide.

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I don't know why I thought no girl would ever reply to this. Just have to do this 10 more times. SHE DIDNT GIVE ME HER NUMBER THO. Should I ask for it again or just set it up on tinder :)
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Sat Jun 12, 2021 12:59 pm

Right now I've pretty much just tell girls they're cute and ask for their number (12 approaches) - how long are your conversations when you're more comfortable approaching and how long did it take you to get more comfortable talking for however amount of time you talk for (I'm assuming somewhere from 1-3 minutes from what Andy mentions alot, but curious if anyone tries for more, or intentionally keeps it even shorter than that).

I think 5 or 6 out of the girls I've approached have been girls that were working - anything on pushing yourself to talk to girls that are just out and about, or does it just come with time?
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Mon Jul 12, 2021 10:48 am

Cold approach lays: Hmm... I never counted. Probably something like 50, suuuuper rough estimate.
Lays: Something like 115. Rough estimate.
Cold approaches: Thousands and thousands.

Down as long as I'm free the day you choose.
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Tue Jul 13, 2021 2:58 am

Cold approach lays: 2 (3 if u include the BJ)
No lays from online cuz I'm not very serious about it yet. Lifetime lays is 7 now.
Cold approaches: ~500 and climbing

10 am Brisbane time I believe is 5 pm my time. I'm free around then.
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Tue Jul 13, 2021 3:25 am

Dibs
I think it will be cool.

Lays 1
Cold approach lays 1
Cold approach count ~300 - 350


Just shoot out a date Andy.
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Tue Jul 13, 2021 8:32 pm

Thats like 1am start for me. I'll come on different roundtable
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