Do you apologize after being too sexual?

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What actually happened?
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She's a friend of mine and recently broke up with her boyfriend, I thought I screened her and that she was sending the right messages, she invited me to come watch a movie with her and was wearing something hot as hell. At a moment I basically said I wanted to fuck her...

Now that I write this I feel like it's ridiculous I'm the one feeling guilty actually
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Sun Jan 31, 2021 12:20 pm

Dont feel bad if it was just you taking your shot man

Sounds like you just went about it a bit clumsily

Im not friends with girls i really wanna bang anymore, id suggest you decide whether she stays a friend or not now
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Sun Jan 31, 2021 3:52 pm

Radical wrote:
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Dont feel bad if it was just you taking your shot man

Sounds like you just went about it a bit clumsily

Im not friends with girls i really wanna bang anymore, id suggest you decide whether stays a friend or not now
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I would say the wrong move wasn't being sexual, it was voicing it. You just go for it. My go to move is subtle touches while talking. Sometimes I ramp it up more. Then you go for a kiss. It's 2021 so if she is receptive to the kiss she's probably dtf.
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I apologized to her, it's all good. It was just very brutish and clumsy, but we ended up having a laugh about it. In the end, I'm happy I did it. Now she knows my intentions and the fact that I want her. I'll get another chance for suree
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Giles wrote:
Sun Jan 31, 2021 11:00 am
She's a friend of mine and recently broke up with her boyfriend, I thought I screened her and that she was sending the right messages, she invited me to come watch a movie with her and was wearing something hot as hell. At a moment I basically said I wanted to fuck her...

Now that I write this I feel like it's ridiculous I'm the one feeling guilty actually
I'd say its a hail mary move. Final solution sort of thing. One a relatively recent location I managed to turn a situation around by looking into the girl's eyes and saying 'I want you.' I don't think I told a girl outright I wanted to fuck her but I am sure it has worked occasionally!

Don't feel bad. You made your move. It was yours to lose and this time you lost but next time bro. Just try a different screening line maybe.
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Not even gonna read past the title: No.

if shes not letting you be as sexual as you want to be then she is not yours
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Tue Feb 02, 2021 11:49 pm

Giles wrote:
Tue Feb 02, 2021 1:06 pm
I apologized to her, it's all good. It was just very brutish and clumsy, but we ended up having a laugh about it. In the end, I'm happy I did it. Now she knows my intentions and the fact that I want her. I'll get another chance for suree
A few others helped you out with the original situation. I def. agree with @Radical and @Thebastard's diagnosis.

I'll add - going forward if you decide you wanna try to fuck her again just kiss her when it feels right, and if she's receptive go for it. Touch is much more effective than speech as the first move.
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