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KillYourInnerLoser
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Sun May 31, 2020 11:34 am

Got suggestions or changes you wanna see?
  • Suggest a change or improvement you want to see made to these forums
  • Suggest an article or a topic you want me to write about
  • Give me feedback on my site, these forums - anything you want.
Go nuts; I'm open to all suggestions.

Lemme make this clear: We can literally add ANYTHING we want here. I'm happy to figure it out (as long as you give me a couple days/week to figure out how to do it). I'm a fairly competent coder so I'm happy to add any features we can think of. And the forum software I'm using (phpbb) already has a tonne of extra add-ons already, so I likely won't have to code much (other than to hack/edit stuff to make it fit this board).

As long as they fit our core values (which we'll all work out together, over time). Values such as:
- This forum is a supplement to taking action; but you always need to take action first
- This forum is here to not waste too much time; we shouldn't add any features that'll make it so people spend hours a day wasting time on here
- This forum is a positive place; we're here to make each other's lives better
- etc

Basically we all need to figure out what we want this place to be, and then make it into that.

-Andy
Andy / Australia
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KillYourInnerLoser
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Mon Jun 01, 2020 2:25 pm

If you guys want any extra topic icons (the icons at the top when you post a new post), lemme know. Current ones:
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Andy / Australia
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140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
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SIGMA_1234
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Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:19 am

I can't see your photos.

All I see is "You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post." in a red text box.
Your friendly closeted pervert

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-) Job applications: 5/ day but minimum as 5/week
-) 30 mins. of Mandarin TV shows to improve Mandarin

COVID-19 Quarantine specific:
-) daily home workouts
-) 15 swipes in Bumble/ Tinder or talk to 1 girl (whichever comes first)

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KillYourInnerLoser
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Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:58 am

SIGMA_1234 wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 9:19 am
I can't see your photos. All I see is "You do not have the required permissions to view the files attached to this post." in a red text box.
Give me a day, I'll fix it. Appreciate the heads up man.
Andy / Australia
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140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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SIGMA_1234
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 1:31 am

Hey Andy, hope you're killing it today.

I just want to suggest that you gotta have a more direct way to make your forum here known. I just stumbled upon here just by randomly exploring your website, until I clicked on the "Forum" button. Not many people will have the patience like me to discover this.

Also, there's gotta be a reason as to why this forum exists and how it differentiates form discussing things in the comments.

Cheers!
Your friendly closeted pervert

Goals:
-) Job applications: 5/ day but minimum as 5/week
-) 30 mins. of Mandarin TV shows to improve Mandarin

COVID-19 Quarantine specific:
-) daily home workouts
-) 15 swipes in Bumble/ Tinder or talk to 1 girl (whichever comes first)

Side Hustle to Digital Nomad Log
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KillYourInnerLoser
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 2:00 am

SIGMA_1234 wrote:
Thu Jun 04, 2020 1:31 am
I just want to suggest that you gotta have a more direct way to make your forum here known.
Remember I literally only JUST made these forums 4 days ago. I'll "put it out there" more when all the features have been added - this is basically "day 1" still.

I'll end up mentioning these forums in articles going forward, I'll tell my coaching clients to sign up, etc - later on.
why this forum exists and how it differentiates form discussing things in the comments.
I feel like that's self-evident; in the comments, you'll only have me responding for the most part. A forum is a community of people who help each other. You also make your own progress log and use this as a "journal" or a "diary"; you cannot do that in comments on my site.

Thanks for feedback man, appreciate it.
Andy / Australia
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140+ lays / 14 threesomes / 1 foursome (MFFF)
Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 2:42 am

Lol Sigma this is still the beta test of Andys forum

Itll be an alpha forum™ in no time
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KillYourInnerLoser
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:03 am

Radical wrote:
Thu Jun 04, 2020 2:42 am
Itll be an alpha forum™ in no time
Alpha should always be capitalised, you fucking beta bucks chump cuck. ;)
Andy / Australia
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SIGMA_1234
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:04 am

Lol sorry if I'm getting ahead of you. I just want the best for this place. It's like the bro group I never had because back at school I'd spend waay too much time studying than make friends and get laid. Can't wait to change that, and can't wait to see this place grow.

GGL seems too overwhelming for me when I just discovered it a few weeks ago.
Your friendly closeted pervert

Goals:
-) Job applications: 5/ day but minimum as 5/week
-) 30 mins. of Mandarin TV shows to improve Mandarin

COVID-19 Quarantine specific:
-) daily home workouts
-) 15 swipes in Bumble/ Tinder or talk to 1 girl (whichever comes first)

Side Hustle to Digital Nomad Log
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KillYourInnerLoser
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:08 am

Nah man, there's a reason I said thanks for suggestions - throw EVERYTHING at me. I have a fucktonne of things to do (my todo list has 183 things on it, not even exaggerating) - but every single suggestion that ever gets given to me, I write down and get to it eventually. Nothing goes unheard; even if it takes me a few weeks/months to get to it. Rest assured, it will be done.

Yep, whole point of this place is we want to set up an awesome website/forum/community of dudes who want the best for each other. The goal is to create this place TOGETHER - not just me making it how I want it. I'm always open to input.

"GLL sems too overwhelming for me" - I'm interested to know what you mean by this. As in, the content/his message is too overwhelming/hardcore? Or the site itself is overwhelming visually (hard to navigate, etc)?

-Andy
Andy / Australia
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Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:09 am

To some extent i think that sense of being overwhelmed at first and overcoming it to actually post your log and be in the mix with guys that are ahead of you is a good thing

You dont want to be surrounded by guys on your level or below you (unless you are elite like Andy and your actual goal is to help people)
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SIGMA_1234
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:13 am

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:08 am
\"GLL sems too overwhelming for me" - I'm interested to know what you mean by this. As in, the content/his message is too overwhelming/hardcore? Or the site itself is overwhelming visually (hard to navigate, etc)?
The content isn't hardcore. I like it. No problems with that.

The site just seems cluttered. It's a bit tough to navigate with so much posts. Though if I really try, I can find my way around it. It's just that it takes effort to get around haha
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Goals:
-) Job applications: 5/ day but minimum as 5/week
-) 30 mins. of Mandarin TV shows to improve Mandarin

COVID-19 Quarantine specific:
-) daily home workouts
-) 15 swipes in Bumble/ Tinder or talk to 1 girl (whichever comes first)

Side Hustle to Digital Nomad Log
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Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:14 am

Oh right you meant the GLL site is clunky

Yep - bloated and clunky is how i view the old place. Still love it though
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The Beast
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Fri Jun 05, 2020 8:40 am

If there was a page specifically for beginners/newbies to use I think that would work well. Similar in some respects to the sidebar method used on TRP, it could contain links to suggested articles, videos or other publications that we as a forum feel are central to killing your inner loser and starting this style of self-improvement. This would ensure that we're all on the same page when posting, having carried out this reading. Anyone who hasn't taken the time to do so will likely stand out and can be directed to this beginners area. Andy, you likely have all the material for this already on your main site but it's not on the forum right now. As the forum grows, I imagine a lot more traffic will come directly here so this is obviously going to be more important in the future than right now as we're only 20 odd members, all of which likely use your site/have been coached by you. But that might not be the case in the future, they might come straight to the forum landing page and so there's a need to get 'up to speed' quickly on what it is we're about.

Connected to that, I couldn't seem to find any 'rules' here unless I'm missing them? This doesn't have to be too clear-cut and I'm definitely not suggesting banning people if they arbitrarily fall foul of any 'rules'. But again, it could help us all get on the same page as quickly possible and ensure we're congruent with each other. 10-12 is obviously pretty common, we could all initially agree to the current 'rules'/KYIL commandments and they could also be changed if needed as the forum develops.
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KillYourInnerLoser
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Fri Jun 05, 2020 8:46 am

Solid suggestions. Will implement.

Rules - yeah I haven't added that yet. I've written them up; just need to put them somewhere + show them when you first signup.

Cheers man.
Andy / Australia
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Goals 2020: Pay all bills from coaching. Finish 3some & BDSM guides.
PM me for 1-on-1 coaching
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