FEMDOM Guide - How to Find DOMINANT Women

[kyil_andy]

Everything you've ever wanted to know about having a woman take the lead and come onto you (female domination).

I put a metric fuckton of effort into this guide - the quality is right up there with the Tinder Guide (obviously shorter).





Topics covered:

00:00 Intro
00:15 CHAPTER 1 - INTRODUCTION TO FEMDOM
00:27 Different types of Femdom
01:43 Why Femdom is hot for a man
02:12 Why it's hot for the woman
04:08 CHAPTER 2 - IMMY'S JOURNEY WITH FEMDOM
05:46 How Immy learned to be dominant
06:36 Give yourself permission to suck at it
07:19 Dominating other women (in 3somes)
09:09 CHAPTER 3 - EXPLORING FEMDOM PLAY
09:40 "Switching control, topping from the bottom"
11:07 "Asking for what you want, even as a submissive man"
12:40 Discussing beforehand & sexual bucketlists
13:16 Verbal domination
16:10 "Begging, being made to beg"
18:40 Dirty talk
20:49 "Her driving you to the ""breaking point"" where you e contrwitch"
22:07 Humiliation & Degredation
26:08 Prostate (anal) play
27:06 Bondage & restraints
30:25 Costumes & outfits (fetish wear)
31:31 CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)
32:39 Edging & orgasm-denial
33:32 Ruined orgasms
35:18 Cuckolding / Hotwifing
36:59 Femdom relationships (outside the bedroom)
37:37 CHAPTER 4 - FINDING A FEMDOM PARTNER
37:56 Fetlife
39:08 Tinder & dating apps
42:12 Make sure they have good intentions
42:30 CHAPTER 5 - TRAINING A PARTNER TO BE DOMINANT
43:11 How long does it take to train a woman?
45:36 Encourage her & give positive feedback
47:54 "CHAPTER 6 - CONSENT, COMMUNICATION & BOUNDARIES"
49:02 Aftercare
50:28 Subdrop
55:02 Start every session with a positive intention
55:40 Final summary


Going forward, I want to put this much effort into all my content. Truth is I've been "phoning it in" the last year or 2; half-assing a lot of my content. I'm actually glad I did that, as giving myself permission to suck is the only way I was able to do this much video content and get comfortable being on camera... but now it's time to go all-in with the quality again, like the days of the Tinder Guide and the 3some guide.

What topics do you guys want me to cover (in this much detail) next? Some guides I already plan on recording:

- Being a male Dom
- Impact play and Sensation play (spanking, whips, wax, ice, etc)
- How to find women for BDSM on Tinder/Hinge/etc (I may do this as a paid course, super in depth)
- Roleplaying
- Dirty talking
- Psychological play
- Toys
- Taming brats

[Bman]

I put a metric fuckton of effort into this guide

And it shows. Very well done. Looking forward to the other videos.

If this is something that you are looking for as a guy, I highly recommend going out to munches (kinky meetups). There are A LOT of femdoms, many of who are just learning how to do it which maybe less intimidating for you. You can find munches in your city in the events tab on Fetlife.

When you go, you can approach just like you would any other type of event. A really easy question to find out if they are a Domme is to ask "how long have you been in the scene?" You'll usually start to find out what they are into and how they identify. Then you can start asking more about their kinks and then let them know you are new and wanting to experience being submissive.

Your city may vary, but I've found the people at munches are very welcoming. As I tell all the new people who come to my munch, everyone here is just as nervous and kinky as you are. So give yourself permission to put yourself out there.

[Adrizzle]

Taming brats plz

[Paid Renegade]

A video on how you do multiple male orgasms would be awesome. Pretty common for girls to ask to go multiple rounds but I’m usually over it after I cum once.

Also awesome video btw

[kyil_andy]

A video on how you do multiple male orgasms would be awesome. Pretty common for girls to ask to go multiple rounds but I’m usually over it after I cum once.

Absolutely will do this, great topic.

[bonzo34]

Imogen's story/journey (though you mentioned doing that already)

also bdsm course

thought bdsm was a separate thing- like a goal in and of itself before watching your short. now it seems a better way to get laid if you are doing a lay count goal anyway

[kyil_andy]

Imogen's story/journey (though you mentioned doing that already)

Great one. Already half-wrote an article called "Immy's Transformation", just need to finish it.