DAY 8 : Gonna be off a few days | Ovnidos Log, from the deep to the everest (5'5'' bastard)

[Squilliam]

Will do it tomorrow if you’re interested brah

I would like to hear the story too.

Also you quoted the wrong person.

[ovnidos]

Field Report #1 Lay.

Context:
1st lay after my ex-gf dumped me in late September. And second lay ever.

How this happened:
Matched this cute half-French, half-Algerian girl on bumble. We talked for about a week before the date, she was very receptive and always asking question or get the conversation flowing. I asked for a date, then asked for the Instagram, so we can plan the date.
First image, my current old profile.

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Before the date:
Was stressed, in very bad mood, but did buy condoms with almost no hope, God I was wrong.
I dressed in a tight-fitting t-shirt, necklace, rings, Chelsea boots (For the heels), didn’t wear my glass, but I see well in the 4m radius, so it’s not an issue for the date. And a big ass jacket because it’s freezing out there. I also made the choice to do not wear any kind of hoodie, because I wanted to display my arms and tattoo.

The date:
First, I made sure the logistics were on my side. I asked for a drink 50 m from my flat. Also, no roommates.
We both drank a beer for about an hour, we were sitting face to face, I know it isn’t ideal, but I didn’t know how to sit like on the same bench. Amelioration point for next date. I saw she was pretty receptive, touching her lips, messing with her hair or showing her neck.
We talk about our rings, and jewellery. It was a trick to touch her and be flirty. Then at the end of the beer, I propose to go to my place for another one. She said yes. So let's go.
Arriving at my place, I opened two cold ones, (Yeah French ppl don’t only drink wine) and we continue discussing, she was still wearing her coat. I’ve got a very small vessel, so every time I’ve got to pee, I used it as an excuse to get closer. Until at one point we were so close, I felt it was the time for the kiss.
Went for it then, after that it was the highway to sex. I lifted her in my bed, we get necked. Add a bit of trouble getting very hard, can because of the 2 high percentage beers, stress, performance anxiety. But still managed to get hard. So I but a condom, fuck her, it cracked, put another one, and finish the sexy time by fingering her. (Result of the fingering)

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She went to shower; she was smiling and everything. I get her back to the subway.
I didn’t know if I should kiss on the lips or do the French way to say goodbye “la bise”, so it was a bit awkward. Then she grabbed me by the neck to kiss me, lmao.

The after:
I would like to make it my plate in my rotation, (she has flat too so it’s logistically cool), but even tho I really think she enjoyed the sex and everything, she a little bit dry by text, time will tell… I won't behave needy, tho.

Conclusion:
The nihilism that slowly eating me can get fucked, Hugo is back and isn’t late for getting his 10 annual lays, 9 more to come. I feel fantastic, did get back my fucking confidence. She did compliment me a lot during sex, like when I removed my t-shirt and showed my muscles, or the told my I add a very beautiful face. So, your boy is feeling good af.
Can’t wait to improve my OLD profile to get this shit mooooore easy.

Tomorrow last hard exam, then Friday it’s gonna be a hard party with all my promotion. I guess I’ll get wasted. Then Saturday another party at one of my friend. Will get probably less wasted.
Sunday will be chill af then.

I wouldn't have been able to do all this without your precious support and tips and tricks, it's a very supportive and positive community. I love it ! 1 lay isn't much but it's very important to me

Monday will be back to work, back to the gym, back to the grind, before that I deserve some rest.

I’m done, turn to fuck(or get fucked) by composite materials exam.

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[TacoLover]

Congrats man! This is only the beginning. More lays will keep coming.

Saw your pics, and motivated me to improve my profile.

Sitting next to girls is pretty scary at first, but you still managed to get physical.

And getting compliments from girls never gets old.

Cheers!

[ovnidos]

Saw your pics, and motivated me to improve my profile.

Noooo please, I hope my profile isn't optimal at all. I didn't have a crazy amount of result with it.

Sitting next to girls is pretty scary at first, but you still managed to get physical.

Yeaaaah next time next challenges!

[Squilliam]

Noooo please, I hope my profile isn't optimal at all. I didn't have a crazy amount of result with it.

Not even close dude. I'm not an expert but I can see a few potential things you can improve upon. Ask @pancakemouse, he will give you good feedback. I saw a huge improvement in results even after making my profile from bad -> mediocre.

[ovnidos]

Not even close dude.

Yeah, I hope to increase my result soon! I will also soon (1 or 2 weeks, I need to get it from my grandma 3h from where i live) get a DSLR, so I'll be independent for taking OLD pics.

[Squilliam]

Yeah, I hope to increase my result soon! I will also soon (1 or 2 weeks, I need to get it from my grandma 3h from where i live) get a DSLR, so I'll be independent for taking OLD pics.

It's gonna take awhile anyways. Expect to do several shoots, lots of trial and error. It will likely take you hundreds or possibly even thousands of photos before you get one good picture.

[ovnidos]

It's gonna take awhile anyways. Expect to do several shoots, lots of trial and error.

That’s not an issue at all, I’ll keep trying. And ask for reviews

[ovnidos]

DAY 22:

I’m done, turn to fuck(or get fucked) by composite materials exam.

End of the story I've been fucked. I'll probably go back for some exams in June, tbh I couldn't care less.

I did 2 naps of 1 hours, I add some crazy ass sleep debt.

OLD:

I'm gonna back to it on monday, and also focus more on it when I'll have my dslr.

Feelings
Damn I'm feeling quite good, I step out of the hole I was in. I was in the constant struggle of fucking believing in myself. I can now see myself as a winner and took a confidence boost for some time I think. Perhaps it's too early to tell, but I think I'm out of my depression state.

[Thebastard]

Well done brother. It has barely been a month and you got your second ever lay! Just keep up the effort. Consistency will make sure you succeed. There will come a point where those feelings of neediness will subside, the more success you have - the more that you prove to yourself that 'yes - I can get laid.'

[ovnidos]

Well done brother. It has barely been a month and you got your second ever lay!

Thanks bro !! Tbh honest I’ve been on OLD since October. But my new profile pic (my actual avatar) changed the amount of matches I’ve got drastically.

[ovnidos]

DAY 23 :

Last exam and last day of uni... don't have the time to deep down into my feelings for now. Tonight will be my last party at my uni.

I don't even plan to night game, because we can't dance or move in the restaurant. You should sit at anytime, or mask-up to go to the toilets.

Fuck this I'm not a robot : Sit there. Mask-Up. Don't dance. Don't try to have fun to much it spread c-19.

[colgate]

DAY 23 :

Last exam and last day of uni... don't have the time to deep down into my feelings for now. Tonight will be my last party at my uni.

I don't even plan to night game, because we can't dance or move in the restaurant. You should sit at anytime, or mask-up to go to the toilets.

Fuck this I'm not a robot : Sit there. Mask-Up. Don't dance. Don't try to have fun to much it spread c-19.

Europe sounds mad rn come over to America for some real night game.

[ovnidos]

Europe sounds mad rn come over to America for some real night game.

That's my plan, I need to find a country with money&girls nice opportunities

[ovnidos]

DAY 24 :

Got my new camera! It's the Canon E05 550D with a 18-135mm lense. Is it a good pick ? Should I buy another lens?