Rottweilers' Log

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

When I was your age I was getting blown out 4 x a week in the clubs. Now I'm clapping cheeks. FWB coming Monday, we're unboxing our BDSM starter kit together. Tues a hottie is scheduled for a date, Wed a hottie is scheduled for a date, Thur same thing, and Friday either I get a chick who has been DTF for a while to come straight over and we get that over and done with, or I see my plate and have a great night & following day in the park hiking with her. Flakes are always gonna happen but point being: my reality became one I didn't even know was possible because I did the work, and honestly had a LOT of help. A LOT.

The harder you work, the more these guys will help you. And when you are a success and a total baller, you pay them back, you contribute to them and open doors for them. It's a cycle. We win together.

Thank you, Man!
Bro, ever since I've been lurking on Andy's website and youtube since last year, You're one of the guys who made me move my ass to get something done in my life and after reading your logs, damn, you come a long way. I wish you the best with the dates.

What are your actions this weekend?

I helped with the renovations in our house today and also took care of my grandmother, I had a plan to go out today but was canceled when no one else is left in the house. Not really sure how can to make some momentum with this situation

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

"...So uh, is self-improvement like a breast implant for men?"
"brain we're approaching women give me something useful!!"
-Me, a few hours ago

9/10 approaches

Neighbor: I wanted to start early, so I spoke to the first woman I saw. I asked her how to go to one place but I went the other way. *mental facepalm... (positive interaction)

Church mother: I greeted a young mother with a happy mother's day in a church (she smiled, positive interaction)

Athletic lady: Asked for directions, she must be in a rush so I just ended our conversation with a "blessed sunday" (idk interaction)

Flower girl: I saw a cute girl holding three flowers and waiting for a taxi, I asked her where she bought the flowers and how much she bought it for. managed to prolong the conversation a little (She has a cute smile!: positive interaction)

Hat girl: A lone vendor in the park had no customers so I decided to approach her to buy a hat for my mother and I had no change for the bill I had so I decided to buy a single white rose some where in the park. upon returning I bought the hat and gave her the rose. (Positive interaction?? I don't know if that was normal/ wise thing to do)

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I wore this hat the entire jog

Girl with the dog:: I saw a dog with small booties haha, and I asked the lady if I can take a picture of her dog, I complimented her dog afterwards (we were under the sun so I couldn't read her face, also masks are still worn here in the Philippines so... positive interaction??)

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White shirt woman:I asked for direction and offered me to hire a vehicle with her, (she has a cute laugh: positive interaction)

Skirt girl:: I asked for a way to the church, her face mask was down and I saw her lips were... orange? I must've stared for too long and maybe leaned too forward so, She looked like she was ready to go (I feel like a creep: negative interaction)

Glasses:: Last approach for the day, she looked like someone I would've had a crush on back in highschool. tried not to stare for too long and kept the conversation short. fairly positive interaction when I told her to have a nice day (positive interaction)

It took three hours to finish the jog, I could have done better, could've talked to more people. maybe next time I'll introduce myself or get a number. I played it too safe, but then again my goal was not to get laid but to only get a gist on how to talk to strangers again, especially women. there was also this woman who I can't put my finger on it but I think she tried to race me while jogging, being clueless I obliged and I didn't see her again. I also met my old college classmate, some small talk happened.

This was good experience, to stop me from worrying if my thesis will be accepted now... I'm really scared of not graduating this year, but God willing this is the year. wish me luck

Raph

[MakingAComeback]

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

GOOD WORK

THIS IS IT

MAC

[MakingAComeback]

When I was your age I was getting blown out 4 x a week in the clubs. Now I'm clapping cheeks. FWB coming Monday, we're unboxing our BDSM starter kit together. Tues a hottie is scheduled for a date, Wed a hottie is scheduled for a date, Thur same thing, and Friday either I get a chick who has been DTF for a while to come straight over and we get that over and done with, or I see my plate and have a great night & following day in the park hiking with her. Flakes are always gonna happen but point being: my reality became one I didn't even know was possible because I did the work, and honestly had a LOT of help. A LOT.

The harder you work, the more these guys will help you. And when you are a success and a total baller, you pay them back, you contribute to them and open doors for them. It's a cycle. We win together.

Thank you, Man!
Bro, ever since I've been lurking on Andy's website and youtube since last year, You're one of the guys who made me move my ass to get something done in my life and after reading your logs, damn, you come a long way. I wish you the best with the dates.

What are your actions this weekend?

I helped with the renovations in our house today and also took care of my grandmother, I had a plan to go out today but was canceled when no one else is left in the house. Not really sure how can to make some momentum with this situation

Thank you for your kind words here man I appreciate it.

I'm starting to find success now its great. As you know the work I put in was intense, every day, for a year straight just improving myself.

I'm hungry AF and have inhuman levels of drive so this is just the start for me.

And you too. We're all gonna do big things if we just follow the principles Andy teaches and keep working.

BTW, there are little things that can help create momentum. Reading, self reflection, meditation, content, working out, breathwork, letting go, shit there's a lot.

Success is about small actions taken daily which seem insignificant but add up over months and years

MAC

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

Thank you for your kind words here man I appreciate it.

I'm starting to find success now its great. As you know the work I put in was intense, every day, for a year straight just improving myself.

I'm hungry AF and have inhuman levels of a drive so this is just the start for me.

And you too. We're all gonna do big things if we just follow the principles Andy teaches and keep working.

BTW, there are little things that can help create momentum. Reading, self reflection, meditation, content, working out, breathwork, letting go, shit there's a lot.

Success is about small actions taken daily which seem insignificant but add up over months and years

MAC

SLIGHT EDGE! YEAH!, I have that written on the wall of my home gym. I only took self-improvement seriously this year. I only read/ listened to self-improvement books last December!, my progress is very slow but it's something, I'll get there eventually

I can now do more than 5 pull-ups and can out-jog some of the athletes in the park but, letting go has always been difficult for me, some scary crap happens when I do.

Self-reflection for today

To stop hiring another escort, Do I have to go back to using dating apps to find a FWB?, I'm not sure if it's my proclivity to have "one-nitis" but I don't see myself as a "one night stand" kind of guy maybe I have to try to find out. or maybe start drawing more? If I have a hobby I'll have less time to think about escorts haha. but back to dating apps.

So far I have only used dating apps last year only for 3 months, I had a girl who accused me of being the boyfriend of her friend ( I'm Asian, I get that, but I don't look the same as the other Asians, do I?), A LOT of flakes and people who won't even reply even though we matched, then my respite came in the friendliest woman in bumble. I got a chubby FWB, but she was very far from the city that I live in. So nothing happened aside from the occasional nude pics. and after she told me that her ex-boyfriend is trying to get back with her I decided to slowly ghost her. I regret that decision. I got so depressed from using dating apps that I even considered buying a sex doll to settle in my lonely life and surrendering to never having any connections in my life.

But here I am trying to have another chance to live, following the tinder guide I feel like I'm nowhere near complete with part 1 so, maybe I'll focus on having a life instead

[MakingAComeback]

Keep working bro.

Get on the online dating hustle. Build a profile and use Andy's templates for messaging. Start sliding deep, deep inside.

Approaching.

Style, gym.

And of course a lot of inner healing and self improvement study.

Just keep working you'll get there.

MAC

[MakingAComeback]

What ya got for me today?

MAC

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

My workout felt great today, the pump felt great and when I inhale hard, I can see some upper abs showing haha, it could be better, but the weights in my home gym are limited so adding calisthenics to my routine seems to be the best option.

Also tried preparing my own food for breakfast! I'm a really good cook but the recipes that I know are not the ones that you would usually see to see in a good meal plan. today were oats. I'll gradually prepare my own meals

After listening to Viktor Frankl's audiobook " A man's search for meaning". I did some gratitude meditation and decided to throw away everything that doesn't help my growth. An emotional Marie Kondo, if you will.

Yesterday, I forgot to mention, I had a heart-to-heart talk with my sister, who I always thought was a "traitor" to me, but I decided to talk to her properly, We cried a little in the restaurant where we were in, I feel like I can trust my sister again. sappy crap I know, but this is important to me

Thanks for checking on me @MakingAComeback

Raph

[SIGMA_1234]

I like the consistency, but the real gains are made on the long run. Hope this is still what I see months from now.

If you're tracking habits, I recommend you make a spreadsheet with checkboxes to tick off for the day. Maybe you can:

• See if you followed your cals for the day

• Did exercise for the day

• Track how many girls you cold approached

• How many hours you studied for your thesis

• Quality of hours worked on thesis

• Sleep start

• Sleep end

That way, you have a high level overview of how well you are keeping things consistent. If you want a template of what I use, you can DM me.

[MakingAComeback]

YESSS

The big game changer will be TIME. Stay in the gym. You really must gain muscle. This will transform you like crazy.

Otherwise it will be a lot of head work. I listened to Andy obsessively for months before I even joined, and I read his shit WAY back in the day when he was just a newbie coming up. I used to read him and sometimes break down crying. Years later he became my mentor. Crazy.

ANYWAY

@SIGMA_1234 you're a legend on the forum and have been in self improvement for a minute, do you have room for 1 more accountability partner? If so, this young lion could do with a guy with some exp talking to him every week

I would do it but I am shockingly busy: have a group in person, have the coaching group, have weekly calls with accountability partners and forming a new group.

If Sigma can't do it, ask on the forum bro. You are here working hard and provided you do it daily and work ur fuckin butt off, you will get help and be a success

MAC DADDY
A FATHER TO THE YOUNG BLOODS

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

Brothers, I have failed you today.

I went out and approached 5 women, I felt like I was on a roll. then I decided to have a massage. one thing led to another and I paid for sex again. I feel dirty, I feel like I'm dependent on those massage parlors for intimacy. I need to be accountable for my actions today, and I regret them deeply. I couldn't even look my Grandmother in the eye.

Fuck

Raph

[MakingAComeback]

Good accountability

Think about this. Reflect. What is the lesson learned? What contributed to this outcome?

Ponder.

Then what is the game plan to ensure you're working on this?

Keep hammering,
MAC

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

What I learned
-"A woman who can be bought is not worth having". - Wilson Fisk, Dare Devil
-I still have fear and guilt during and after sex, and some of the trauma just resurfaces like a bad dream
-I trusted myself too much and I played too dumb

Plan:
-Keep myself occupied with learning new things.
-Delete the numbers of the massage therapists on my phone. and stop looking for them on FB.
-I'll learn to say "NO" to dumb shit, in a gentle but firm manner
-Meet more people

I feel I betrayed this forum today. I'll clean up some mental shit I have right now and I'll finish my approaches tomorrow, Hopefully, I can sleep tonight

Raph

[ovnidos]

I feel I betrayed this forum today

You only betrayed your own words, we're here for taking you accountable not for blaming you, we all got our life, we all got our past traumas and struggles. Your goal in your profile is to have a Stoic mindset, go read the Marcus Aurelius rn.

Feel free to send a pm or call me if you feel the need

[Lonely_Rottweiler]

Today I tried to pick up where I left off yesterday. I guess whatever happened yesterday will be my lesson and that there's no point carrying it with me. Today was great although tiring as I had to juggle myself in the middle of a busy mall and on the streets. (note to self: Stick with the parks. people are looks like they are always in a hurry in the center of the city)

5 Approaches

Pregnant Lady: I didn't notice that she was pregnant until she turned to her side but I still went along with my "small talk" routine. After the conversation, I told her "good luck" with the baby.

Striped lady: I noticed a watch store and being a watch enthusiast myself, I browsed her store and I asked her for some directions to a place that I wasn't familiar with, I thanked her and moved on.

Groupie: I asked a group of three girls for some directions, but none of them knew so as to not waste time as they looked like they were going somewhere I thanked them and promptly left.

Security guard lady: In our school, a gate was left open and I closed it before the guard reached it, as I looked at her I noticed that she had a ponytail. no words were exchanged but a non-verbal acknowledgment was shown... does that count??

Store owner: After walking for two hours and only getting 4 approaches, I bought a bottle of water in a store and when I was paying I heard that she was listening to the news on her phone. I asked her "what's new?". I thanked her for the bottle of water

What I discovered:
-I find it hard to approach a woman who shows cleavage. It feels like a status symbol of confidence for the woman
-Women who remind me of my Ex scare me
-My clothes are unflattering this time, like baggy pants and a loose jacket. So in a way, I didn't feel as confident as I could have.
-I wish I had a wingman
-There are cues and signs that are noticed when approaching women, like women with earphones can be approached and in busy streets, people are only looking in front of them. not like the park where people's eyes wander like they're enjoying the atmosphere

"Should' s"
-Should approach strangers with a genuinely positive note, not like a salesperson or a guy looking to get laid
-Should start introducing myself, or exchange numbers


Anything else I should be aware of?

Raph