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D4vidDG
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Fri May 06, 2022 3:08 am

Squilliam wrote:
Fri May 06, 2022 2:57 am
My biggest piece of advice is to record some of your dates and send it to @pancakemouse. He found many mistakes from one 30 minute recording of a pretty mediocre date of mine.
Sounds cool. Idk if he'll understand spanish. I can translate them if necessary
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Btw, a married woman said she's looking for an adventure with an open-minded guy. She seems DTF. Should I give it a go? I'm afraid I might get in trouble
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Fri May 06, 2022 3:17 am

Squilliam wrote:
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My biggest piece of advice is to record some of your dates
Btw, any recommendation on how to record my dates? I have never done anything like that before.
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Fri May 06, 2022 4:20 am

D4vidDG wrote:
Fri May 06, 2022 3:08 am
Squilliam wrote:
Fri May 06, 2022 2:57 am
My biggest piece of advice is to record some of your dates and send it to @pancakemouse. He found many mistakes from one 30 minute recording of a pretty mediocre date of mine.
Sounds cool. Idk if he'll understand spanish. I can translate them if necessary
en español 'ta bien parce :)

record on your phone, mute any notifications so the girl can't tell you're recording.

easiest thing to start with would be by recording a few of your approaches and sending them over. but if you want to do a date that's fine too.
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Sat May 07, 2022 3:38 am

pancakemouse wrote:
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en español 'ta bien parce
Hahaha thanks man. I'll be posting some audios this weekend. I recorded them today.
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Sat May 07, 2022 3:45 am

Approaching

Dates

Both girls flaked. Unfortunate.

Approaching

I approached 7 girls today, I got 4 numbers and 1 instagram.

One of them was a model. She paints and she's also a voice actress. Looks like a girl of really high-value. I hope she agrees to have a date.

Goal

8/30 times I say "Hey, you're sexy" when approaching a girl.

Selling a game

I started writing the code of the main game loop. I worked 2 hours on this.
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Wed May 11, 2022 2:03 am

Approaching

Date

I met a girl on a mall on Satuday. We talked for a while and we had a coffee. I saw on Facebook that she might have a kid, but she didn't mention anything. She was cute. Before we left, we kissed. I asked her to come to my place. She said she wasn't sure. I insisted but she couldn't make up her mind. I didn't want to look needy so I said it was ok. I didn't want to rush things. We kissed again and she took the public bus.

She said she would come near my house the next time. She seems to be working all day and I'm busy with university too, so I'll invite her on Saturday or Sunday again.

I hope I get laid.

Audios

@pancakemouse

Here's some audios of some approaches:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing

They are in Spanish.

I'll be recording more tomorrow.

Texting

Sometimes I'll inevitably be forced to schedule dates for a week later. I generally don't keep the conversation going after that until the day of the date arrives. And girls tend to cancel after I text them again to confirm the date. That made me think that it might be important to keep texting them while I wait for the date. Should I do that, or is it better not to force the interaction? Because sometimes is just talking for the sake of being there so she doesn't forget about me. Is that a wrong mindset? Should I mantain the interaction with another perspective in mind?

Selling a game

I worked 3 hours on the project on Saturday. No progress since then.
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Wed May 11, 2022 4:28 am

D4vidDG wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:03 am
Sometimes I'll inevitably be forced to schedule dates for a week later. I generally don't keep the conversation going after that until the day of the date arrives. And girls tend to cancel after I text them again to confirm the date. That made me think that it might be important to keep texting them while I wait for the date. Should I do that, or is it better not to force the interaction? Because sometimes is just talking for the sake of being there so she doesn't forget about me. Is that a wrong mindset? Should I mantain the interaction with another perspective in mind?
You should always strive for the date to be within 2-4 days of the interaction. If you can't do that you're inevitably going to lose more than you would otherwise would have. Personally I would keep in touch with her every other day leading to the meetup (maybe more, maybe less, there's no hard rule), but it's your judgement call.
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Wed May 11, 2022 4:29 am

D4vidDG wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:03 am
Sometimes I'll inevitably be forced to schedule dates for a week later. I generally don't keep the conversation going after that until the day of the date arrives. And girls tend to cancel after I text them again to confirm the date. That made me think that it might be important to keep texting them while I wait for the date. Should I do that, or is it better not to force the interaction? Because sometimes is just talking for the sake of being there so she doesn't forget about me. Is that a wrong mindset? Should I maintain the interaction with another perspective in mind?
I think you're doing the right thing. Girls flaking will just happen a lot. Texting her definitely does not lower the chances she will flake.

But Mark is right. You should be aiming to schedule the date within 72 hours if possible. Strike while the iron is hot. Interest will wane the longer you wait.
check out my blog: https://squilzpursuit.wordpress.com/

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Thu May 12, 2022 3:16 am

Approaching

Approaching

8 approaches. Got 4 numbers.

Goal

11/30 times I say "Hey, you're sexy" when approaching a girl.

Most reactions were positive, so I really shouldn't be afraid of saying sexy.

Selling a game

I worked 1 hour on the project today. I developed the code of the Game Loop.
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Mon May 16, 2022 1:33 am

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Date

I had a date on Saturday with a cute chick. She laughed a lot and she was really talkative. We had a really good time. I went for the kiss but she rejected it. After that, she seemed uncomfortable with my attempts to touch her. Anyway, I'll invite her again near her house and try to bang in her house. Not ideal, but I think it's the best gameplan.

Selling a game

I worked 4 hours on the project this weekend. I completed the code for the Game Loop. Now, I just need to do a few tweeks. Then I need to create the whole content: 3D models, puzzles, music and FX's.
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Mon May 16, 2022 3:42 am

D4vidDG wrote:
Wed May 11, 2022 2:03 am
Audios

@pancakemouse

Here's some audios of some approaches:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing

They are in Spanish.

I'll be recording more tomorrow.
Audio 1:
- Asking too many questions without having any compliance from the girl. "Where are you going? Where do you live? What do you study?"
- This doesn't feel flirtatious really. It's boring.

Audio 2:
- You deliver your opener is wayyy too fast, the girl even says "what?"
- Try to make assumptions instead of asking questions
- All you are doing is either complimenting her or asking questions. There is no sexual tension here

Audio 3:
- Again, opener is way too fast and the girl doesn't understand at first
- Platonic boring conversation

Audio 4:
- She seems interested right away
- Decent flirting here seemingly with nonverbals even thought he subject matter is menial chitchat
- This was the best set out of all of them

You really need to look at some daygame content on YouTube and study structure and "how to run a good daygame set". You are going after it which is great, but you are doing a lot of work for nothing because you have no structure and are missing key elements to get a solid number.

Next time if you edit these down to just the set itself (like the fourth audio) I will be much more motivated to critique any future recordings!
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Wed May 18, 2022 4:03 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 3:42 am
Next time if you edit these down to just the set itself (like the fourth audio) I will be much more motivated to critique any future recordings!
Yeah, I actually edit them. I don't know what happened. Maybe I uploaded the incorrect ones. I'm sorry.

Your help means a lot to me man. Thanks.
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Mon May 16, 2022 3:42 am
Audio 1:
- Asking too many questions without having any compliance from the girl. "Where are you going? Where do you live? What do you study?"
- This doesn't feel flirtatious really. It's boring.

Audio 2:
- You deliver your opener is wayyy too fast, the girl even says "what?"
- Try to make assumptions instead of asking questions
- All you are doing is either complimenting her or asking questions. There is no sexual tension here

Audio 3:
- Again, opener is way too fast and the girl doesn't understand at first
- Platonic boring conversation
I get it. All I've been trying to do is following Andy's advice. You know, start the approach saying right away "you're sexy/cute", having small talk before asking for the number, and generally not worrying too much about what I say during the approach.

I don't want to discredit Andy's word. He's been the person that motivated me to try to get laid and I owe him everything I've accomplished. But all these feedback makes me think KYIL''s advice is outdated nowadays; or maybe it's not applicable in my region; or maybe it is useful for beginners that have AA, but not useful if you're on an intermediate level like me. I believe the last reason is my case. I believe I need to put more effort on my game and the strategy I follow when I approach.
pancakemouse wrote:
Mon May 16, 2022 3:42 am
You really need to look at some daygame content on YouTube and study structure and "how to run a good daygame set". You are going after it which is great, but you are doing a lot of work for nothing because you have no structure and are missing key elements to get a solid number.
Any recommended channels? I saw on a recent KYIL article that PlayingWithFire might be a good reference.

Thanks again.
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Wed May 18, 2022 4:12 am

Here is a decent approach framework I found that makes sense to me, never paid for any of his content but the free 20 minute video does a good job giving you a framework to start with.

https://danielwhitedating.clickfunnels. ... qlp2RJfyls
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Wed May 18, 2022 4:16 am

Approaching

Approach

I approached 6 girls today. No numbers.

Goal

12/30 times I say "Hey, you're sexy" when approaching a girl.

Date

I'm having a date tomorrow.

Selling a game

So I've been working 3 hours on the project since Saturday. Thursday is my deadline to finish it, so I'll be working on it tomorrow during all day. I won't sleep if I haven't finished.
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