Thanks for sharing your story. The great news is you're in a very typical position that a lot of guys are when they find out about communities like these, which is that they're a very attractive guy, but their personality is stuck in "nice guy" mode which makes it hard for them to be attractive to women.
Three things I would recommend immediately:
1. Reading the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and following the steps within.
2. Reading the book "The Rational Male".
3. Edit your story to add paragraphs as it makes it easier to read ;-)
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
7 June 2022 To-do list
Put away dishes:
Clean artist studio:
Vacuum floor:
Tidy up bedroom:
Wipe down kitchen:
Dust down rooms:
Go for a 2 mile run:
Buy S-tier Pitt Artist Pen:
Cold Approach at least 1 girl:
Put Notes from Financial Book into Evernote:
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
7 June 2022 To-do list
Put away dishes: Complete
Clean artist studio: Complete
Vacuum floor: Complete
Tidy up bedroom: Complete
Wipe down kitchen: Complete
Dust down rooms: Complete
Go for a 2 mile run: Complete
Buy S-tier Pitt Artist Pen: Complete
Cold Approach at least 1 girl: Complete
Put Notes from Financial Book into Evernote: Complete
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
Just one approach today, on a pair of girls that walked past me but I walked back to find them in another aisle. I honestly just bailed because the girl was not as attractive as I initially thought.
Last edited by Noself on Wed Jun 08, 2022 2:43 am, edited 1 time in total.
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
Week 1: Day 3/3
Piss easy honestly but the hardest is definitely the eye contact with the girls because it's so hard to get them to look at you. One guy named Dan was talking to me the whole time while I was at the bar.
Ask the doorman/bouncer "how are you tonight?" before going into the bar. (1) (Complete)
Look or slowly walk around the room and make eye contact with any 3 girls. (3) (3/3 girls)
(2-3 seconds of eye contact)
Ask a bartender or server for a napkin. (1) (Complete)
(even if napkins are in arms distance)
Ask a bartender or server for a cup of water. (1) (Complete)
Ask anyone where the bathroom is. (1) (Complete)
Ask anyone what time it is. (1) (Complete)
Ask the bartender what kind of Tequila they have. (1) (Complete)
Ask any member of the staff when they stop serving food. (1) (Complete)
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
8 June 2022 To-do list:
Finish drawing assignment and submit:
Clean back of car:
Wash dishes:
Cold approach at least one girl:
Put notes from The Writer's Journey into Evernote:
Call my friend:
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
8 June 2022 To-do list:
Finish drawing assignment and submit: Complete
Clean back of car: Complete
Wash dishes: Complete
Cold approach at least one girl: Complete
Put notes from The Writer's Journey into Evernote: Complete
Call my friend: Complete
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
9 June 2022 To-do list:
Finish watching drawing lessons:
Put notes from Financial book into Evernote:
Wash dishes:
Wash car:
Cold approach at least one girl:
Go for a 2-mile run:
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
9 June 2022 To-do list:
Finish watching drawing lessons: Complete
Put notes from Financial book into Evernote: Complete
Wash dishes: Complete
Wash car: Incomplete
Cold approach at least one girl: Complete
Go for a 2-mile run: Complete
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
Got two numbers from approaching, the first time in awhile that I've felt social momentum. I have to keep up the consistency, my town is not the best in terms of volume so I'll give myself some slack but still we gotta put in the numbers. Got a date planned on Sunday with one of the numbers today, so we'll see what happens.
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)
10 June 2022 To-do list:
Wash car:
Get a haircut:
Watch drawing lessons:
Read about how to change air filter:
Tidy up bedroom:
Cold approach at least one girl:
How to Go to Bars Alone 1st Month Week 2 Day 1/3:
✅ Complete the AA Program
✅ Meditate everyday for a year
✅ 100 cold approaches
⬜️ 250 cold approaches (235/250)
⬜️ 500 cold approaches
⬜️ 1,000 cold approaches
⬜️ Complete the "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" Program (Week 2, Day 2/3)
( ) Get below 15% BF
( ) Get up to 180lbs (153/180)