Toast's Japan CA log - Reflecting on 6 Months of living in Japan

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Sat May 21, 2022 10:37 am

Hey bro, you gonna stay in Japan for good now? Just curious.
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Sat May 21, 2022 11:01 am

SIGMA_1234 wrote:
Sat May 21, 2022 10:37 am
Hey bro, you gonna stay in Japan for good now? Just curious.
That's the plan. Just gotta figure out how to do it now. USA sucks lol
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Sat May 21, 2022 12:52 pm

Oh shit. So you are gonna move there. How are you gonna make money? I heard Japanese work & corporate culture sucks tho
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Sat May 21, 2022 2:27 pm

@SIGMA_1234 Im here now for 1 year on a student visa. I can get a part time job in the mean time but i have enough money for now to live comfortable without working. Yah work culture sucks, but im not planning on becoming a traditional business man. so hopefully I wont get stuck at a shit company. Ill figure something out tho. I always make whatever i wanna do work in the end
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Mon May 23, 2022 12:03 pm

Went out tonight with a buddy and approached for an hour
went like 2/15 or so

Most approaches i was just completely ignored.
One notable chick was super hot. my buddy told me to go for it and if i wasn't he was so i approached.
She was receptive. Was on the phone initially but as i approached she hung up. Was waiting for a friend to go meet for dinner
Told her i was a Japanese language student
she told me the typical. Wow your Japanese is so good
Asked her to exchange line and she agreed
Got a call as we were exchanging
Once she was done she still went on to exchange which was a surprise to me
Texted he and she responded already which is a decent sign

Other notable chick was a short chick in a skin tight purple dress with a Phat ass
Super cute
Caught up to her as she descended into the station
told her that he dress was very pretty
asked where she was going
said to work
asked what she did
said she was going to dance
asked if she was a dancer in a club
said she was an idol
i was like "oh wow, are you famous"
she said not really, maybe a little bit
b4 she got onto the train i said lets exchange
and then we did

Everything was said in Japanese.
Definitely trying to break out of my English speaking shell
Need to specifically stop saying rehearsed lines that i know in Japanese and be more fluid with my conversations
Those types of convos seem to have the best outcomes
Good night over all.

Have a date on Wednesday with a chick i met a couple weeks ago
Have a date this weekend with a chick from bumble
And another date scheduled for the 31st with a chick i met 4/17 lol. Had to reschedule this date and we finally agreed on a day. Bet she will ghost tho 🤣
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Wed May 25, 2022 4:38 pm

Had a date tonight with the 39yo girl.

Nice date, she showed me a really famous/delicious sushi place and paid for the dinner. I tried to split the bill but she said it was fine.

Didn't try to pull cuz shes not really my type, but as the date went on i guess i became a bit more attracted to her.
I think she has a really nice body. Seems like she has a nice ass and shes got some nice tits as well.

On the fence if i should keep seeing her or not. Shes nice and ive never been with someone 10 years older then me.
Ill probably see her again some other time as she seems interested in me.
As well as having someone older who will pay for dates is nice.

After the dinner we went to a cafe and got a coffee and chatted for a while longer.

Will see how this plays out. Still have to decide what i want to do
During our date she was talking about how shes going to Okinawa during summer and asked if i wanted to go as well. Or rather she asked if i wanted to go alone or with friends and i said with friends.

________________

Have a date tomorrow with a chick i met from CA like a few weeks ago.
She's Wayyyyy hotter then tonight's date.

Hopefully she doesn't flake. But she probably will lol
Asked her tonight if she wanted to go to a bar cuz i told her my friend showed me a cool place to drink.
We shall see if she responds tomorrow

Also have my 2nd date with the chick from bumble on sunday
I think this chick is DTF so i will see how that goes

Potentially could have 2 lays in 1 week
and 1 lay last week

Chick i smashed last week seems to have ghosted me, but ill ping her again with another message to see whats up.
asked if she wants to hang out again some time and no response.
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Fri May 27, 2022 9:04 am

Date from Thursday flaked kinda. I guess the day we set wasn't sent in stone and the time either. I asked her if she wanted to meet Thursday but I didn't specifically say this is past Thursday. So she hit me back up and said next Thursday. So idk if that counts as a ghost or just bad planning on my part lol.

Not much action in the CA department this week.
Just relying on previous chicks to come out for dates.

Bumble date is on Sunday now. Definitely going to try and smash. We have been texting pretty much every day, and get along quite well.
Plan is to go to an aquarium, maybe get a bite to eat, and then ill try and bring her home to watch anime or something lol.

I think i should set a schedule for when i approach potentially.
Cuz RN im just going to school 5x per week and gym 3x per week at like 11pm for 1 -1.5 hours
Approach is kinda just thrown in whenever and studying as well.
Maybe ill go home from school, study for an hour and then go out to approach until like 10pm.
So it could look like
School over at 345 - shoot the shit with my buddies after school.
Get home by 5ish
Study till 6 or 7
Approach for 3 - 4 hours
Gym at 11
Bed by 2am

Idk if this is ideal but ill see if it can work
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Tue May 31, 2022 3:06 pm

2nd date on saturday didnt go great.
As in i deviated from my plan and was not able to pull due to time constraints. Wont go into much detail but we didnt go where i wanted to go. Got side tracked and spent way too much time at the new location. Then she went to meet her friend afterwards so couldnt pull.

Lesson learned is to keep dates simple like i used to and always stick to the plan set from the beginning. So that you have a guideline to pull home

Went out yesterday to approach
Made tons of excuses
Took a nap cuz i was tired and didnt approach till too late
station was dead
did like 5 approaches in 30 min

Went out today with a friend
Much better
2/20-25
Both chicks were super hot
Was out for 2 hours about
Volume was decent but im finding out that the super hot chicks are more rare in Ikebukuro
Getting better at not sticking to a script of what im comfortable saying in japanese.
Being more spontaneous and quirky is better on the approach
"hey your cute" is so sommon here that basically it gets u nowhere when approaching
You gotta do funny things

One chick who was receptive but didnt exchange was listening to music with earbuds in.
So i walked up and said, hey let me listen to ur music. and motioned to take out her headphone
she laughed and said noooo
then just had normal conversation afterwards.
Was in a rush to go to work and said she had a boyfriend so she didnt exchange

Another chick was super tall and had sexy long legs
walked up and say hey
you long legs are pretty
she smiled and then we started talking
asked a bit of what she was doing and she was going to work until 9am
probably a night worker, maybe a hostess, maybe a sex worker
didn't actually understand what she said her job was lol
I think she said she washes skin or something which makes me believe she works at a soapland lol
we exchanged and she was super hot

good day of approach
Gotta focus on being driven when im alone and cant rely on approaching with a buddy
Gotta be self motivated and try to approach every day i can

Setting a schedule was a good idea so i can set limits for what i need to do in the day

So far im liking the
1245-345 school
get home by 5-530
Study till 7
approach till 11ish
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Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:17 pm

Date from CA today at 6pm
Went to a cute cafe and ate a giant parfait
really tasty
Didnt remember the chick so when i first met up with her i was a little disappointed with how her face looked lol
Went to the cafe. Had a nice chat for maybe an hour while eating our parfaits. She was giggling the whole time
Very smiley and happy girl
Wearing a loose fitting button up and a long skirt
Hard to tell what he body looked like
Wanted to smash so i figured why not bring her home and try
During the date we were talking about how I am studying japanese and she mentioned that she wanted to see my homework
Told her that i would show her at my place and she agreed
Finished our stuff and then walked to the station
when we go to the station gate she said "ok see you next time"
I was like, "nah come with me"
she agreed no resistance
got to my house
told her to sit on the bed cuz and she did
put on Truman Show and watched maybe 20 min b4 i went for the kiss
She gave no resistance after i kissed her and was kissing me back
Laid her down and started kissing and fondling her boobies. as well as rubbing her coochie
Stood her up and undid her shirt
And to my surprise she was really busty
Maybe D cup or Double D with a very thin body
so it made her boobs look even bigger
Sex was ezpz after that

Its crazy how Japanese girls actually sound the same like they do in porn lol
Kinda whining and seeming like they're in pain.
Asked her if she was ok and she said she was feeling good
Told me that my dick was big
Had sex with a condom on and then for the 2nd round b4 we started i asked if she was on the pill. She said she wasn't so i threw another condom on again. Didn't cum the 2nd time but we fucked for probably 15 or so min and i didnt cum :(
Tried to get her to keep going but she said she had to go home
Walker her to the station like a gentleman lol

She seemed way more into me then the first chick i smashed.
This one was wanting to kiss me during sex and like hold my hand while fucking
More into the sex then the first chick which was really nice

Since she was so small it was able to actually like pick her up and fuck while just holding her up with my hands under her ass. A position i was not able to do with bigger chicks in the states lol. Nice experience

Guess if theres a lesson to be learned from this experience is that the interaction is never really over until the guy decides
Had I not continued to try to set up dates with this chick i would have never smashed
Had i deleted her after her not responding for like a few weeks this wouldnt have happened
Many opportunities to not talk to her but i persisted and it worked out in the end
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Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:52 pm

Toast wrote:
Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:17 pm
Told me that my dick was big
Being born a fake Asian was a brilliant move. You fool them into thinking you're one of them during the approach, and then surprise them with your big donk.

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Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:59 pm

Toast wrote:
Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:17 pm
Its crazy how Japanese girls actually sound the same like they do in porn lol
Kinda whining and seeming like they're in pain.
😂 😂 😂
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Thu Jun 02, 2022 2:41 pm

Crisis_Overcomer wrote:
Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:52 pm
Toast wrote:
Thu Jun 02, 2022 1:17 pm
Told me that my dick was big
Being born a fake Asian was a brilliant move. You fool them into thinking you're one of them during the approach, and then surprise them with your big donk.

Omedeto aniki.
a blessing in disguise for sure
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Sat Jun 04, 2022 6:31 am

Went out to a party with friends from school yesterday night. All u can drink and a like 6 course meal for 3000yen. Pretty cheap.
Probably had like 6-8 drinks in 2 hours so i was feelin good. 22 ppl came out and after dinner was over it was myself and 1 chick and 5 other dudes.
We went to a bar that was also all u can drink all night for 3000yen. Never been to a bar like that but it was fun
The chick that came was drinking a lot and actually keeping up with the guys. One of my friends who is also an advisor from school got so drunk that he fell asleep outside of the bar lol.
During the night the chick and i were talking a lot and she was talking about sexual things like having one nipple piercing.
When i asked about it i poked one of her boobs and said this one is pierced and then touched the other and said this one isnt.
She was fine with that. All night she was also fine with me putting my arm around her and touching so that was a good sign
Come 5am for the first train everyone went home. Myself, her and my friend all took the same train. She had a job interview at 10am
We helped her take the train home
when we go to my station i said how about u just sleep at my place so u can get a bit more sleep. She agreed
Brought her to my house
Told her we could share the bed
She laid down with all her clothes on so i told her to get a bit more comfortable and take her pants off. She said ok so i helped her take her pants off
After maybe 1 min of cuddling I rolled her over and kissed her and she started making out with me.
took her top and bra off no problem and then started fucking.


She was definitely being a sexual person all night
talking about her nipple piercing
talking about how she's gone on 6 dates from tinder
Talking about how one of the japanese guys she hooked up with came super fast lol
So the indicators for her to be down were pretty positive all night
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Sun Jun 05, 2022 2:22 am

Had a bumble date last night
She was a bit heavier then in her pictures but still had a cute face and some nice tits so i figured why not just go through with the date
Went to a bar that was super cool. Very cute little side street tucked away from the main area. My friend recommended it so it was a very nice spot. 80s themed bar where the bartender played different old-school records. Had a drink and then afterwards went to smoke some shisha. Chilled at the shisha bar for like an hour.
The chick is a Japanese girl who was born only 30 min away from where i lived in California. Small world lol
Was hesitant to pull cuz she was a little bit fat but whatever. I wanted to smash and this would be the 3rd chick in 3 days i hooked up with.
After shisha it was like 1030 so i asked if she wanted to come to my place to watch a movie. She agreed
Got back to my place and put on shaolin soccer. Really funny movie so she was like laughing the whole time
After maybe 30 min or so of watching i went for the kiss and she was down from there.
Started making out. She pulled her top down and then i started sucking on her tits
She seems like a girl whos very sensitive. She came from me fingering her for like 5 min
After we had sex and she was super into it
Round 2 of sex happened maybe about an hour later after cuddling more
She came like 5 times while i was fucking her from behind. Asked me to choke her a bit as well and that made her cum somemore
She spent the night and we also had sex in the morning

This is actually my first hookup from online
During sex she was like omg your soo deep, your dick is so thick
never heard this from chicks in the states so maybe asian chicks really do have smaller tighter pussies
pretty awesome to hear this from a couple girls now lol
Strokes my ego :)
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Sun Jun 05, 2022 4:39 am

Toast wrote:
Sun Jun 05, 2022 2:22 am
never heard this from chicks in the states so maybe asian chicks really do have smaller tighter pussies
I also imagine that guys in Japan have much smaller dicks on average, lol.

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