Solid week this week.
Lessons Learned this week:
- Dates: Building a date stack based on modifying Krauser’s Daygame Mastery date model. Think it helped with the 2 lays this week, but too small a sample size to tell. For the other dates with no pulls, need to still improve ending the date when I feel I’m done or not interested.
- Beetroot powder: Works wonders for making you hard as a rock. If I take it too late in the day though it warms my body up too much and hard to sleep.
Dates
- Sunday: Rescheduled – Had work emergency
- Monday: Lay #8: Strawberry Girl: viewtopic.php?p=41635#p41635
- Tuesday: Rescheduled – On her period
- Wednesday: Lay #9: Wednesday Girl: viewtopic.php?p=41764#p41764
- Thursday: Rescheduled – she apologized by sending me nudes, how sweet
- Friday: Date; no pull – she was going to a concert right after our date. Setup 2nd date.
- Sunday: Date; no pull – was not that into her, vibe was off
- Hinge: 60 DMs, 4 Matches, 2 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 0 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0/1
- Hinge: 23 DMs, 2 Matches, 1 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 0 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
- Hinge: 35 DMs, 2 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 0 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
- Hinge: 35 DMs, 1 Matches, 1 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 3 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
- Hinge: 36 DMs, 1 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 3 Matches, 1 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
- Hinge: 36 DMs, 2 Matches, 1 Numbers, 1 Date Scheduled
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 0 Likes, 0 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
- Hinge: 38 DMs, 3 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Tinder: 0 Boosts, 1 Likes, 0 Matches, 0 Numbers
- Bumble: 0 Matches
- CA: 0
Because I was so booked from number farming last week, I did not boost or reach out to 100+ girls each day. Instead I did about a 1/3rd just to trickle in a few leads in case previous ones dry up. Still have girls I need to schedule after returning from trips and a couple to aim for FWB retention, so continuing to do low volume.
Tinder: No boosts or swiping; few matches here and there.
Hinge: Still messaged about 30 girls on averages per day which resulted in match per day.
Bumble: Rearranged/updated my picture to see if I can start to get more leads coming from here.
Dates
Monday: Tried out a date stack I’ve been building for myself based on Krauser’s Daygame Mastery model. Felt it worked out well. Lay report here: viewtopic.php?p=41635#p41635
Wednesday: Did the same stack. This girl is gets pretty anxious, but a solid 8 and very feminine which I really like. Would really like to make this one a FWB. Lay report here: viewtopic.php?p=41764#p41764
Friday: This girl was going to a concert right after which through off the escalation stack I’d been trying earlier in the week. I also didn’t really feel like trying to squeeze in a quickie with her being as I already got laid earlier this week. So I figured I would aim for locking in a 2nd date. Date went well and think there will be a 2nd date after she returns from her trip to Milan.
However, what I want to improve on is cutting the time on the date once I have had my fill. I have written about this before, but with women that are more talkative and extroverted I hesitate to interrupt to end the date. It’s horrible habit from childhood and my dad just rambling on forever and me just feeling like I had to listen. Now that I have been on several dates, I can feel at about 45 mins my energy levels start to drain. If I go over an hour I start to get more quiet, checkout, apathetic and definitely not vibing. With this date I didn’t know when to end because I was not trying to pull. I should have ended when I felt done. Don’t think it hurt my chances with this girl, just something I want to improve.
Saturday: Following from what I mentioned above, I should have ended this date way earlier.
We matched on hinge, she seemed decent looking, was poly and normally a dom but looking to be more sub. She was pretty receptive, even booking a week out.
When I got to the coffee bar and met her, I was only semi attracted to her. Decent body and face was ok. I was trying the date stack again, and in the convo in the beginning was decent. Probably 30 mins in I tried pulling, to which she replied “not today, I don’t think I have fully figured out if you’re a serial killer or not.” Just rolled it off and continued on with the conversation. Then came the a waterfall of what felt like shit tests pretty much questioning every part of the way I live my life, asking why I live a certain way, why I think I’m dominant, what my situation is with other girls. She even asked what my typical first dates are like and my pull rate.
It was really a big turn off, but I was amused by it and just answered every question straightforwardly in a matter of fact tone, practicing just being comfortable with who I am and saying that to her. Of course looking back now it would have been a good time to practice pressure flipping so she was qualifying and not me or just ending the date after the no pull.
She told me she has another partner now that is a married guy that is a sugar daddy and pays her to use a strap on and fuck him in the ass. And that she usually attracts more submissive guys. Overall she has a more masculine energy and enjoys the dom role but said she wanted to try being more submissive.
The date went for 60 mins, but I should have ended much earlier, especially after the gut feeling of only being semi attracted in the beginning. I tend to give benefit of the doubt and see if I will build more attraction as the date goes on. She seemed decent enough for ONS, but not for the energy commitment of overcoming shit tests. She said she was attracted to me and wanted to plan a second date, but honestly I’m not that interested. I clearly got the vibe check wrong here.
Dates Next Week
Date scheduled today from the girl who sent nudes as an apology for needing to reschedule. She lives far away and has a shitty work schedule so it’s been difficult to get her pinned down.
Nothing scheduled yet on other days. Need to ping the girls back from trips this week and setup retention lays from the girls this week.
Cold Approach
No approaches this week. Busy with dates.