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MakingAComeback
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Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 31
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Thu Jul 07, 2022 11:27 am

Keep working champ

MAC
YouTube: IronWill: https://www.youtube.com/@IronWillTribe/

GOALS 2023:
(1) MONEY: £3k Per Month W/ My Passion Biz, IronWill Accountability & High Performance Coaching
(2) Muscles: Building Physique Towards Adonis Ratio
(3) Mindset: Develop My Mentality & Inner Being
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Thu Jul 07, 2022 11:03 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Thu Jul 07, 2022 11:27 am
Keep working champ

MAC
Thanks man! Will never stop
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Fri Jul 08, 2022 10:30 pm

OLD:
Tinder is still generating a bunch of matches and when I'm not mass-swiping I've started to be a bit more choosy.
Had a trans straight up ask to fuck but I'm not down- said thanks for the compliment though.
Bumble has no new matches but I'm getting likes. (On free version so can't see them)
Hinge: been putting this off till I get new photos

I'm mostly using the template messages but sometimes I'll get drawn into talking about random stuff, screening seems increasingly valuable as my current profile is good at getting convos going but not numbers. I'm talking to about 15 different girls rn and it feels like hard work lol, Until I loose more weight it feels like I'll be spinning my wheels for a while. Got to be content with small victories.

Looksmaxxing:
Workout done
Diet done- gonna have to watch it though, theres so much good food down here!
Dermatologist booked for Aug 3rd- want to try to find one sooner so will keep looking- I also wear sun block now.
Bought black jeans, grey jeans, 2 slim fit black t-shirts, also got some shades. Keeping it simple as I am retarded when it comes to fashion. Want to get a bracelet, some rings and an ear piercing for more edge.

Brighton is so nice in the summer, I've never wanted to be rich so much before but looking at the penthouse flats walking back from the beach makes me feel like I'm missing out.

Found a bar crawl on Meetup tm so looking forwards to that.
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Mon Jul 11, 2022 3:46 pm

Got back from Brighton:
Weekend started well but ended on a sad note - we've got to get my gran into a home and it's going to be really difficult driving back and forth to sort out all the legal shit ect. No use whining though just got to step up and get her the care she needs.

OLD:
Took a bunch of new photos and found a decent one where I'm not making a double-chin and have good lighting- also tried to upgrade my style but early days yet. This feels like an uphill battle until I loose more weight for better pics
Tinder: I've got about 90 matches over the weekend, about 20 being not overweight or too far away. Of those 20 none of them agreed to go for a drink before I left - Need to stick to the template, screen hard for time wasters and aim straight for getting their number. (Why do so many girls just want to have aimless conversations that go nowhere lmao)
Bumble: swiped but no matches, got new likes but doubt they're attractive haha
Hinge: Account is up but failed messaging

Looksmaxxing:
Gym: Lost deadlift strength but I think I can get it back, everything else is ok
Cardio: Going really well, did a lot of swimming in the sea
Weight loss: only down by half a kilo but I now have a 2-pac, will be training hard this week so 108kg is in sight (I was actually up at 120 in Feb)
Diet: Has been fairly healthy, still need more greens though
Skincare: I've been using some retinol- want to get my hands on tretinoin as that's supposed to be stronger
Will keep using saunas and cold showers too for general health

My biggest challenge right now is location. To solve this I must a)find a job in a big city b)build a skill-set/business that will let me move around and be financially independent. I don't have a degree and my work experience is basically from working in a lab - honestly its going to be really hard leaving a stable job where I work with good people and am really valued by my department, but its going to be worse having no women and it's going to be even worse being older and in the same situation.
My best skills right now are being good enough at guitar to teach people and being knowledgeable enough in the gym to train people so I can always do this for more money if I have to take a pay cut.

This week:
Keep loosing weight 1kg per week while maintaining muscle
Use new photo and hit OLD numbers
Build guitar skills
Go to 2 social events and talk to women
Gym *4 Cardio*2
Incorporate greens into diet
Go to London on Fri to get new passport
Re-do CV and talk to more recruiters
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Mon Jul 11, 2022 5:56 pm

New tinder pic, may try growing the beard out and trying some more in 2 weeks when I'm leaner
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pancakemouse
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Joined: Sun Nov 14, 2021 4:14 pm
Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Mon Jul 11, 2022 6:27 pm

I don't think this photo is an improvement over your current ones. The lighting isn't great and we can't see your eyes. Try to take photos in cloudy conditions or at golden hour after the sun has gone behind buildings/trees for better diffuse lighting.
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Sewerdog
Posts: 158 | Thanks: 165
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Tue Jul 12, 2022 11:05 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Mon Jul 11, 2022 6:27 pm
I don't think this photo is an improvement over your current ones. The lighting isn't great and we can't see your eyes. Try to take photos in cloudy conditions or at golden hour after the sun has gone behind buildings/trees for better diffuse lighting.
Thanks for the feedback, I'll relegate this one and try for better pics when it's cloudy
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 3293 | Thanks: 3562
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 31
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Tue Jul 12, 2022 11:08 am

Good work

KEEP HAMMERING
MAC
YouTube: IronWill: https://www.youtube.com/@IronWillTribe/

GOALS 2023:
(1) MONEY: £3k Per Month W/ My Passion Biz, IronWill Accountability & High Performance Coaching
(2) Muscles: Building Physique Towards Adonis Ratio
(3) Mindset: Develop My Mentality & Inner Being
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Sewerdog
Posts: 158 | Thanks: 165
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Tue Jul 12, 2022 10:20 pm

OLD:
Tinder: almost had a date today but she flaked, sais she's free tm so fingers crossed. Met my swiping target but it's died down to few matches with unattractive women
Bumble: 1 match, no message, swipes used
Hinge: Sent 50 likes

Looksmaxxing:
Diet on point, (added fish and greens into weekly shop) getting some compliments about looking slimmer too. Weight will be down to 108kg by Sunday
Workout done
Got another dermatologist booking on the 28th which is a week sooner than the other one
Mewing update: My airways feel way more open and I think I've got proper tongue posture now

Had a great guitar practice and tidied my room while listening to some motivational podcasts

Tomorrow:
Workout- lower
Hopefully date
Read AA program
Hit OLD numbers
Guitar practice- start working on a teaching website
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Sewerdog
Posts: 158 | Thanks: 165
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Wed Jul 13, 2022 9:29 pm

Went on my tinder date today. She was a little overweight and 35 but I made myself go just for experience and actually had a pretty good time talking and connecting. She also seemed pretty into me which was very validating even though I politely tried to friendzone her lol. This is a big win for me and proof of concept that even with my shit logistics and crude profile I can at least get on the ladder, a low rung but its a start. This makes 2 dates in a week and a half for me which is unprecedented. I'm also pleased to know that I can socialise and click with women, overcome my bullshit thoughts- I was honestly thinking of flaking and put myself out there. We ended on a hug and I hope I can recreate this success with women I actually want to fuck.

OLD:
Tinder: 200 swipes, got some matches and sent some template messages, I'm getting a few message me first which is cool
Bumble: Got a match, no message yet, all swipes used
Hinge: 50 likes sent, 3 matches, 2 conversations, asked one for a coffee- waiting for response

Looksmaxxing:
Diet is pretty fucking impeccable at this point: Today I ate free-range local eggs, wholemeal bread. Dinner was salmon fillet, broccoli green beans and tomatos, had some satsumas and an apple post workout
Hit a good lower body day and clawed back my precious deadlift strength
Also maintaining my skincare routine

Had a great guitar practice but haven't started on my website yet
Didn't read the AA program - wasted time on Tik-tok like a butthead

Tomorrow:
OLD quota, send messages, ask out for drinks ect
Maintain good diet
Upper body then 5k run in evening
Sort out passport stuff for Friday
Guitar practice - start website
Read AA program
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Sun Jul 17, 2022 9:01 pm

Been feeling quite stagnant and overwhelmed the last few days so I will focus on weekly and monthly goals and try to take consistent small steps.

OLD:
Tinder: didn't boost on Saturday as i got loads of matches thurs/fri and found it hard to wade through all the messages, I'm getting some attractive girs match with me.
Bumble: all swipes used, 1 match, no message
Hinge: 50 likes a day gets me about 5 matches but the convos dont seem to go as far as on Tinder right now, will up to 100
I might have a few dates lined up through my efforts: there could be one on Tues when i'm back down in Brighton and hopefully a couple next weekend. Will try using boosts weds/thurs to line something up for the weekend too.

Looksmaxxing:
Diet is healthy but my weightloss has stalled, I'm getting my diet program this week though so it should start dropping again

I've procrastinated on my guitar teaching website
Also lost a few potential dates because i'm too far away - location needs to change

This week:
Loose 1kg- down to 108- priority
Hit OLD numbers
Start and finish guitar teaching site
Get new pics early on the weekend
Go to 2 social events
Apply for 5 jobs in cities
Sort out family shit in Brighton
See dermatologist on Fri

I've made a new female friend who is very good looking and talking to her makes me less nervous and should help on dates
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Sewerdog
Posts: 158 | Thanks: 165
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Thu Jul 21, 2022 8:48 pm

OLD:
Tinder: all numbers met, hopefully got a date this Saturday. Another girl seems straight up dtf but also sais she's working this weekend ffs. Ran a boost weds and today to try and get dates for the weekend- seems to be working although I definitely get less matches compared to fri/sat/sun boosts.
Hinge: numbers met but fewer responses than on Tinder
Bumble: Got a match and am talking to her but have given more attractive girls priority
I have another date lined up tomorrow, she's pretty but also a Christian so could be a prude which doesn't help when I dont know what I'm doing haha

Looksmaxxing:
Weight has fell off: been 107kg for the last two days which is great: surpassed my goal. Gonna have my diet plan consult on sat and roll down to 100kg in no time
Diet: adhered to and healthy

Tomorrow:
Work on early shift
See dermatologist at 4
Power nap
Hit OLD numbers
Date at 7 - if she flakes ill go hang out with my friends
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Sewerdog
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Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Mon Aug 01, 2022 7:08 am

August goals:
Drop weight from 107 to 104kg
New Tinder pictures
Stylemax
Keep looksmaxxing
Dickmaxxing
Hammer OLD and beat my 2 dates per month number
Find place to move out!

What I did well last month:
Lost weight
New tinder pics
Saw dietician
Saw dermatologist
Had 2 dates

What needs to improve:
Find a place to move out - stop dragging my heels on this.
I turned down a date because I was tired - this was plain lazy
More consistent posting on here - will be every day

This week:
Hammer OLD
Drop to 106kg
Maintain healthy diet and skincare routine
Pre-emptively stop hairloss
Gym ×4 Cardio ×2
8 job applications
Research side-hustle
Go to female friend's birthday party on sat- try to get a number as there's a great ratio
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MakingAComeback
Posts: 3293 | Thanks: 3562
Joined: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:17 pm
Goal: 3k Per Month Post Tax
Age: 31
Motto: POSITIVE SELF TALK

Mon Aug 01, 2022 8:27 am

Good work!

Turned down a date because you were tired - that's poor.

But you owned up and told the truth, which I respect.

Manage your energy better dude and tighten it all up.

MAC
YouTube: IronWill: https://www.youtube.com/@IronWillTribe/

GOALS 2023:
(1) MONEY: £3k Per Month W/ My Passion Biz, IronWill Accountability & High Performance Coaching
(2) Muscles: Building Physique Towards Adonis Ratio
(3) Mindset: Develop My Mentality & Inner Being
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Sewerdog
Posts: 158 | Thanks: 165
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 5:13 pm
Goal: Spin plates
Age: 28

Mon Aug 01, 2022 8:57 pm

MakingAComeback wrote:
Mon Aug 01, 2022 8:27 am

Turned down a date because you were tired - that's poor.
I needed to hear this. I thought I was too good for the process. This was retarded

OLD: Numbers hit, trying to set something up for the weekend
Ordered a cool jacket so will get more photos when it arrives.

Looksmaxxing:
Had a meeting with dietician today. Scales said I've gained muscle and no fat so body comp has improved. We will increase the defecit and keep moving the weight down
Diet is healthy too
Mewing: my palate actually seems to have expanded which is really interesting
Skincare: got a proper routine on the go so will maintain
Workouts are all good

Been using the bathmate and interested to see what will happen

Did a big meal prep today too after my workout
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