On my road to a happy sexual life

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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Tue Aug 02, 2022 5:44 pm

Hi mates,

Only interesting element about yesterday was the fact that I'm starting to have few likes on Tinder. Let's see what they give ( I also ripped my t shirt at the end of my tennis session of anger but, is it relly important ? :v)

Light and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Thu Aug 04, 2022 12:41 am

Hello mates !

Damn me I didn't take the time to post !
Nothing alarming to say, I started the calisthenics routine wich is a bit hard but I feel this will make me stronger.

I'm also starting to plan my first solo week end trip. I'll tell you the place when I'm there;)
Let's keep working!

Light and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Thu Aug 04, 2022 3:33 pm

Hello gentlemen,

Since Tuesday a new coworker came to our team. She's not my type but she's a pretty lady so it's a good opportunity to work my passiv game.

Let's keep looking for my first sexfriend.

Light and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Fri Aug 05, 2022 9:04 pm

Hey hey men, what's up ?
On my side nothing epic, the work is going on.

Don't hesitate to ask me questions about any topic I talk about here it would be a pleasure to talk with you !

Light and Peace and you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Sat Aug 06, 2022 11:17 pm

Helloo there

I need go get mire disciplined about the post as I forget them sometimes

Nothing new to relate however mates

Light and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Sun Aug 07, 2022 10:30 pm

Hello men,

Nothing more to relate the routines and work keep going on.

@MattsCrib I'll try to set up some concerning my work, but yeah se fundamental goal is to have one or more FWB.
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Mon Aug 08, 2022 5:36 pm

Hello men,

What's up ? On my side nothing to notice

I'll try think of a way to track my progress, feel free to ask anything youd like to know !

Llight and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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Crimson
Posts: 698 | Thanks: 702
Joined: Fri Apr 02, 2021 3:12 pm
Name: Brandon
Goal: Move out
Age: 21
Motto: TAKE ACTION
Location: Germany

Mon Aug 08, 2022 5:48 pm

Keep going bro, you’ll definitely be able to get a fuckbuddy. French women have the hottest accent, I swear lmao. Would you say that French women are more conservative or sexually open-minded?
My Progress Log: viewtopic.php?f=42&t=1564

My Mental Health Log: viewtopic.php?f=18&t=1416
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Mon Aug 08, 2022 8:02 pm

Crimson wrote:
Mon Aug 08, 2022 5:48 pm
Keep going bro, you’ll definitely be able to get a fuckbuddy. French women have the hottest accent, I swear lmao. Would you say that French women are more conservative or sexually open-minded?
Hey mate, nice to see someone else there !

Haha every accent has his public ! Where you from ?
Your question is hard to answer, by more conservative do you mean more interested by unique partners and relashionship ?
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Tue Aug 09, 2022 3:56 pm

Hello hello

Okay so to make a tracking effort, I'll setup weekly objectives regarding my goals (@KillYourInnerLoser if you want to follow my progress for another review, it's over here)

FWB weekly goal : having at least two "hunting" session a week where I go out to have fun AND to seduce women.

Side project goal : by the end of this week I need to have my interview and form documents finished and ordered (bonus : continue filling the design document)

Let's fo go for it !!

About yesterday, while I went out to feed my friend's cat I saw this young busty brunette so I had to try a thing. Despite it was 11.pm and I was dressed in sportswear I went talking to her. She was afraid at first but her stress went off progressively. This time I managed to not ASK her to stop her, I simply started talking. She told me she was engaged so nothing more with her but the filling of doing this and going over my bad thoughts is amazing and boosting me to continue.

I'll keep working, whatever it takes !
Light and Peace on you all !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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hush
Posts: 193 | Thanks: 81
Joined: Thu Aug 04, 2022 4:18 pm
Goal: build my physique
Age: 29

Tue Aug 09, 2022 4:20 pm

You have a strong masculine face + you know how to dance, you can only succeed in Paris

Regarding your last report: your game was too aggressive! The girl was into you but didn't want to appear slutty in front of her friends. In those cases you must understand that, accept that you won't fuck her tonight, get her number/instagram and see her later. Make plans with her during the night ("I'll take your number, we'll go at [whichever cool place you talked about together'], something like that)

Also I'm not sure telling her you want her is a good idea
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Wed Aug 10, 2022 9:18 pm

hush wrote:
Tue Aug 09, 2022 4:20 pm
You have a strong masculine face + you know how to dance, you can only succeed in Paris

Regarding your last report: your game was too aggressive! The girl was into you but didn't want to appear slutty in front of her friends. In those cases you must understand that, accept that you won't fuck her tonight, get her number/instagram and see her later. Make plans with her during the night ("I'll take your number, we'll go at [whichever cool place you talked about together'], something like that)

Also I'm not sure telling her you want her is a good idea
I can agree with you, one of my biggest problems is to calibrate my game. I sometimes go not enough hard, sometimes too hard (lost of the cases I go too hard I admit haha). It comes from the facr that I was too kice before, now I'm often too honest on my intentions, I need to find a balance between connecting, assertive and sexual energies.

I'm trying to work on that.

Nothing to relate about yesterday except another goal that is to read at least 50 pages of a book each week. Actually I red 20 pages of a design book I should have ended times ago !

Light and Peace on you mates !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Thu Aug 11, 2022 3:12 pm

Hello hello mates, what's up today ?

Nothing impactful to relate, can't wait for my tennis our today. I'll maybe go on my first session of the week tonight but nothing sure.

Let's keep in touch!

Light and Peace on you all
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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hush
Posts: 193 | Thanks: 81
Joined: Thu Aug 04, 2022 4:18 pm
Goal: build my physique
Age: 29

Thu Aug 11, 2022 3:33 pm

The thing is, if she's with friends, there's less chance she'll go home with a stranger that night. Her friends want her to go home safe, they'd never let her go with a stranger, it only happens if her friends trust you.
In general, if she's out with female friends, they tend to either all go home with a stranger or none of them do.

The exception would be when it's a kinda slutty group of girls that encourage each others to meet as many men as possible

Out of curiosity, how did you learn to dance?
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GentleBlack
Posts: 122 | Thanks: 51
Joined: Mon Jun 20, 2022 1:29 pm
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 29
Motto: I may be a candle now. One day, I'll be a Sun

Fri Aug 12, 2022 7:10 pm

hush wrote:
Thu Aug 11, 2022 3:33 pm
The thing is, if she's with friends, there's less chance she'll go home with a stranger that night. Her friends want her to go home safe, they'd never let her go with a stranger, it only happens if her friends trust you.
In general, if she's out with female friends, they tend to either all go home with a stranger or none of them do.

The exception would be when it's a kinda slutty group of girls that encourage each others to meet as many men as possible

Out of curiosity, how did you learn to dance?
You're totally right, the group pressure is a true element to take in consideration.

What do you mean by "slutty" that's a term I use only use under certain conditions !

I made one year of hip hop and some initiations of latin dances but it didn't help that much. I mainly learnt by going into parties, watching others do and let my body do the work. I think I have the luck to have a natural affinity with music and dance

To hold the progress, yesterday was a good day about my tennis session, I felt more in control of my strokes. Tonight will be the first 'hunting' session of the week, let's have some fun.

Light and Peace mates !
Goals :
  • Find a new job
  • Finish my driving licence
  • Find a FWB
  • 0/3 lays with different ladies until July 2023
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