Aye, I definitely get the adventure part. I’ll have to go look for water based lube, I got the rest already. Thanks for the detailed input!colgate wrote: ↑Tue Aug 16, 2022 12:27 pmi was talking about this with some others and every guy goes through their own journey discovering what random things they need in the room as they invite girls over with each subsequent girl they have. here's been my list so far:Crimson wrote: ↑Mon Aug 15, 2022 10:55 pmI have a question. I’m probably going to have sex either in my room or my parents spare apartment in the next couple of days, so my question is:
How do I prepare my room so that everything’s „ready“ for when the girls come over?
-Condoms
-Clean sheets
-Room is cleaned and organized (obviously)
Is there something else I’m forgetting?
Crimson
- water based lube. godsend for when you have trouble getting it in, have it right by your bedstand and not somewhere else so you don't have to run over with your dick hanging out and go get it
- buy 2 sets of sheets. you never know when you'll randomly just have another girl come over immediately after the next and washing+drying the sheets will take too long
- bottles of water for the girls. you don't need to leave the room to go prepare her a glass, and she won't randomly knock over the glass on the floor and spill water everywhere. plus she can take the water with her. also if you explode!!! in an inexperienced girl's mouth, you can quickly hand her a bottle of water so she can swallow everything
- a few hand towels strategically placed under the bed for cleanup. found it a bit nicer than tissues/toilet paper haha
that's just my list so far of items i specifically bought/placed because of girls coming over.
but basically how this works is you'll never know what new thing you'll need until you have a new girl over and she asks for x thing that you don't have and now you know what you need for next time. it's honestly a fun adventure
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Haha, wouldn’t have thought of those, thanks.Manly Cockfellow wrote: ↑Tue Aug 16, 2022 1:18 pmI'd like to second Colgate's excellent list, while recommending one addition:
- something to snack on
(doesn't matter what as long as it's tasty - chips, cookies, crackers and cheese, or hell even a banana is nice and it will help with any muscle cramps if you get into a marathon session)
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I‘m pretty sure my parents have dimmed lights in their room, I’ll go and find out, thanks.PinchePendejo wrote: ↑Tue Aug 16, 2022 4:16 pmGet lighting that you can dim. It helps set the mood. Can be fairy lights, LED strips, or just a lamp with a smart bulb.
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Quick update post:
First, update on the bus girl (the one I approached yesterday):
-Turns out she’s 16, which is too young.
Secondary, update on 1st date ever girl:
-She’s coming over to my parents house on Saturday. Like I said, we‘ll probably have a spare apartment to ourselves. My mother will most likely not be in the house (may God be on my side), I don’t know about my father, though. He’s chill about me bringing girls over anyways.
I asked my mum if I could bring in different girls regularly, she doesn’t seem to like it. She says that I should be „moving slowly“ and shouldn’t be dating multiple girls. My little sister said she hopes I don’t turn into a fuckboy, lol.
So I’ll have to see wether I can make bringing girls over to my parents house a regular thing, if not I might have to look into apartments with roommates in my city.
Crimson
First, update on the bus girl (the one I approached yesterday):
-Turns out she’s 16, which is too young.
Secondary, update on 1st date ever girl:
-She’s coming over to my parents house on Saturday. Like I said, we‘ll probably have a spare apartment to ourselves. My mother will most likely not be in the house (may God be on my side), I don’t know about my father, though. He’s chill about me bringing girls over anyways.
I asked my mum if I could bring in different girls regularly, she doesn’t seem to like it. She says that I should be „moving slowly“ and shouldn’t be dating multiple girls. My little sister said she hopes I don’t turn into a fuckboy, lol.
So I’ll have to see wether I can make bringing girls over to my parents house a regular thing, if not I might have to look into apartments with roommates in my city.
Crimson
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Makes sense, you need a different name. @Manganiello struggled for months to get laid while using this exact name. He switched to something else and boom - he was getting laid left and right
(I'm joking, just teasing Manga)
Great job on your progress so far. Hope you get laid in the next few days man
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Damn, just read it, you sure did some catching up with your „childhood friend“, haha.
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I thought you were serious for a second there, haha. Shoutout to Manga, the AA Program Slayer. And thanks man, I’ll try my best to get laid this week.Crisis_Overcomer wrote: ↑Tue Aug 16, 2022 8:44 pmMakes sense, you need a different name. @Manganiello struggled for months to get laid while using this exact name. He switched to something else and boom - he was getting laid left and right
(I'm joking, just teasing Manga)
Great job on your progress so far. Hope you get laid in the next few days man
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Quick update:
Lined up a date with a girl from Tantan (dating app) for Friday. First ever date from online, cute black girl.
Shitty logistics though, I’ll have to go there by train (it takes 1h 30 min) and she doesn’t even have her own apartment (she lives with her aunty). It is what it is though, as newbie, all experience is good experience. I need to do everything in my power to get laid.
Lined up a date with a girl from Tantan (dating app) for Friday. First ever date from online, cute black girl.
Shitty logistics though, I’ll have to go there by train (it takes 1h 30 min) and she doesn’t even have her own apartment (she lives with her aunty). It is what it is though, as newbie, all experience is good experience. I need to do everything in my power to get laid.
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So this what I did today:
-Talked with my mum about bringing girls over (she’s opposed to me dating multiple girls)
-Spent like 3+ hours (still going btw, haha) messaging girls on all of my dating apps
-Lined up a date with a cute black girl for Friday
Pretty decent day. Skipped going to the gym though, I’ll be going tomorrow.
I appreciate everybody's support btw! This is truly a great community.
Crimson
-Talked with my mum about bringing girls over (she’s opposed to me dating multiple girls)
-Spent like 3+ hours (still going btw, haha) messaging girls on all of my dating apps
-Lined up a date with a cute black girl for Friday
Pretty decent day. Skipped going to the gym though, I’ll be going tomorrow.
I appreciate everybody's support btw! This is truly a great community.
Crimson
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Here’s what I did today:
-Messaged/ matched with a couple girls online, nothing came out of it yet.
-Went to gym
Quick note: The girl that’s coming over Saturday offered me a ride home from school today unprompted. We talked in the car and after we arrived I kissed her goodbye.
Quite a lazy day, I know. I’m feeling like I can slow down now that I’m seeing a little bit of success, which is obviously absurd. I’ll bounce back tomorrow.
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-Messaged/ matched with a couple girls online, nothing came out of it yet.
-Went to gym
Quick note: The girl that’s coming over Saturday offered me a ride home from school today unprompted. We talked in the car and after we arrived I kissed her goodbye.
Quite a lazy day, I know. I’m feeling like I can slow down now that I’m seeing a little bit of success, which is obviously absurd. I’ll bounce back tomorrow.
Crimson
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Hey Crimson,
Some days you're gonna be less productive than others which is totally normal.
Good to see you introspect and call yourself out on being complacent.
Keep up the awesome work and great things will be in store for you!
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Yeah you’re right, Andy even has a article about it (Bad Days are are Ok.). Welcome to the forums btw, I saw that you just joined! Great things will be in store for you as well! (As long as you never give up )Black Dynamite wrote: ↑Wed Aug 17, 2022 10:05 pmHey Crimson,
Some days you're gonna be less productive than others which is totally normal.
Good to see you introspect and call yourself out on being complacent.
Keep up the awesome work and great things will be in store for you!
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Here’s what I did today (had to help my father take care of the garden, so couldn’t get too much done):
-Messaged girls online for 3+ hours
-Added sexually-themed (BDSM girl blindfold) picture as first photo to my dating profile
I’ll be showing my pictures tomorrow. I’m aware that I have no experience in BDSM, but Andy said that it would skyrocket your results online, so I’m going to do it.
Update (cute black girl):
First date from online still scheduled for tomorrow.
Like I said before she’s a cute black girl and I’ll be going to her city by train. She asked me today if I still wanted to meet up and I confirmed, so it seems like she really wants to meet me. We’ll see what happens.
Crimson
-Messaged girls online for 3+ hours
-Added sexually-themed (BDSM girl blindfold) picture as first photo to my dating profile
I’ll be showing my pictures tomorrow. I’m aware that I have no experience in BDSM, but Andy said that it would skyrocket your results online, so I’m going to do it.
Update (cute black girl):
First date from online still scheduled for tomorrow.
Like I said before she’s a cute black girl and I’ll be going to her city by train. She asked me today if I still wanted to meet up and I confirmed, so it seems like she really wants to meet me. We’ll see what happens.
Crimson