ReachKid's log - Positive focus

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natedawg
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Age: 35
Motto: Whatever you do, don't quit.

Mon Oct 10, 2022 10:09 pm

jeagle63 wrote:
Mon Oct 10, 2022 10:04 pm
Just came back, got my first piercing today on my ear, after it heals I think I'm gonna get a tiny ring. Looks decent doesn't hurt too much, and tomorrow I'm going jewelry shopping for a bracelet and maybe even a necklace. God, I might be getting addicted.

Went to my gym induction at my new gym, 5 mins from my house, but didn't start my workouts yet.

After reading some other people's logs, its evident I need to start grafting. For one thing, my #1 priority should actually be buying black out curtains, cuz I can't get proper sleep, always get super motivated in the evenings but can't help waking up feeling groggy/shit pretty much every day. It's cos of the hours of my job mainly, I can't really goto bed at the same time each day. It's slightly pissing me off that I feel I have to sleep 11-12 hrs a day rather than 7-8.

Anyway, I wanted to kinda redefine my goal a bit more concisely. This will hopefully also help with my feels of inadequacy when I'm going out but come home on my own.

My consise goal is that I want to have a girl in my room 4 mondays from now. However impossible that might or might not seem and whatever I have to do. Grafting must start now.

Is it weird to have a spring of motivation at 11pm and go out to do AA drills? Probably, so I'll have to wait till tomorrow. Honestly might have to look into sleep aids, CBD oil or something.
Welcome to the piercing gang. 💪🏾 Just got mine on Friday.
2023-2024 Goals

Year 1: Pg 1-42

"As long I don't quit, I can't lose." - Alex Hormozi

**Feeling lost/unmotivated? Read this:viewtopic.php?p=48007#p48007

** Trust in the process Andy laid out for me: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/11913966
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Tue Oct 11, 2022 12:43 am

jeagle63 wrote:
Mon Oct 10, 2022 10:04 pm
Just came back, got my first piercing today on my ear
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NightRoller
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Name: Graham
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Tue Oct 11, 2022 7:28 am

natedawg wrote:
Mon Oct 10, 2022 10:09 pm
Welcome to the piercing gang. Just got mine on Friday.
Just came back, got my first piercing today on my ear
Nice going guys!
Goals: See this post
Skill-based 365 project
Laycount: 28 --- In 2023: 12 (as of May 03'23)
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jeagle63
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Goal: Build strong habits
Age: 25

Wed Oct 12, 2022 3:35 am

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jeagle63
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Fri Oct 14, 2022 5:04 am

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ytlord
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Age: 25
Location: Somewhere in Asia

Fri Oct 14, 2022 1:05 pm

Really enjoy reading your log man, you’re on the right path. If you can nights like that as encouragement, that attitude will carry you far. Judging my the selfie you posted, you look way better without a beard, stick with that look. Improve your haircut and style, probably bulk up a little, and you’ll be golden.

Above all, just keep pushing. Work on your social skills, your vibe, and I think you’ll get great results.
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jeagle63
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Sat Oct 15, 2022 1:39 pm

ytlord wrote:
Fri Oct 14, 2022 1:05 pm
Really enjoy reading your log man, you’re on the right path. If you can nights like that as encouragement, that attitude will carry you far. Judging my the selfie you posted, you look way better without a beard, stick with that look. Improve your haircut and style, probably bulk up a little, and you’ll be golden.

Above all, just keep pushing. Work on your social skills, your vibe, and I think you’ll get great results.
Thanks, I'm about to take some time off from work too so I can really focus on restarting Uni as well as my goals.

Now my gym is 5 mins away I'm going to do 4 sessions per week, and keep eating 250g of chicken and 4 eggs a day. Still below calories with this somehow despite hitting protein targets.
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jeagle63
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Sun Oct 16, 2022 11:40 pm

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Fri Oct 21, 2022 11:28 pm

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jeagle63
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Sun Oct 23, 2022 5:28 pm

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Antonio44
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Goal: Improve dating quality
Age: 30

Sun Oct 23, 2022 8:02 pm

jeagle63 wrote:
Sun Oct 23, 2022 5:28 pm
. I got 4 likes this time, which is better than last but one was a bot. I matched with 2, and I guess I messed up both conversations because they both have now stopped messaging.

One of the girls messaged me at 2am after I assume she came home from her night out, and I had gone to bed so didn't see till the morning. Now she's not replied to the text I sent her at lunch/afternoon time, so I assume I missed that one. Sucks
I assume you have one of the tinder versions that let's you see the likes? If so, it might be worth liking all the girls that like you, so you can practice talking with them online and getting there number - even if not attractive.

Just because one of them didn't reply immediately doesn't mean she's not interested, sometimes people take a week to reply because they're busy/ not in the mood for tinder. Worth trying to get them off the app and onto Whatsapp asap for this reason.
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jeagle63
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Tue Oct 25, 2022 9:52 pm

Bought my whiteboard, and have written those goals so they're right in front of me when I wake up, so I have no excuse to forget them. Also got lights for my room, 15m LEDs around my bed frame and around the walls. They're pretty dark so might get more.
Antonio44 wrote:
Sun Oct 23, 2022 8:02 pm
I assume you have one of the tinder versions that let's you see the likes? If so, it might be worth liking all the girls that like you, so you can practice talking with them online and getting there number - even if not attractive.

Just because one of them didn't reply immediately doesn't mean she's not interested, sometimes people take a week to reply because they're busy/ not in the mood for tinder. Worth trying to get them off the app and onto Whatsapp asap for this reason.
I have platinum so I always can see who likes me. I bought a year's worth to try and motivate me to give it a proper go.
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