OnTheComeUp's Progress Log

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OnTheComeUp
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2022 2:54 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Just Fucking DO IT!
Location: DC

Thu Nov 10, 2022 3:35 am

Hi everyone, I'm Jack from DC. Im here to focus on improving my sex life. I am currently unemployed living with my parents waiting to get this written offer for this remote software engineering job. I am focused on getting big, getting laid, and catching up to speed with this new job.

Most Important Goal (Must be done) - Move out Immediately (0/1)

Current goals:
Get from 128 lbs to 150lbs (0/1) by 12/31/2023
Get Laid (2/3) by 12/31/2023
Catch up to speed with my new job (0/1)
Complete “Go out alone to the bars” program (0/1)
Complete "Approach Anxiety" program (0/1)
Last edited by OnTheComeUp on Tue Dec 06, 2022 10:30 pm, edited 6 times in total.
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OnTheComeUp
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2022 2:54 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Just Fucking DO IT!
Location: DC

Sat Nov 19, 2022 7:48 am

I just started the Good Looking Loser "How to go out alone to bars."

Week 1 - Night 1

Ask the doorman/bouncer "how are you tonight?" before going into the bar. (1/1)
Look or slowly walk around the room and make eye contact with any 3 girls. (5/3)
(2-3 seconds of eye contact)
Ask a bartender or server for a napkin. (1/1)
(even if napkins are in arms distance)
Ask a bartender or server for a cup of water. (1/1)
Ask anyone where the bathroom is. (11/1)
Ask anyone what time it is. (1/1)
Ask the bartender what kind of Tequila they have. (0/1) forgot
Ask any member of the staff when they stop serving food. (1/1)

Thoughts.
I had fun. I arrived at the bar at midnight and left at 2am. I have not gone out alone before. I felt nervous getting ready for the night. I forgot to do my usual stretch to calm myself. I willl make sure to do that next time to reduce my anxiety. I felt a little weird when this started, but I said fuck it, I can just say I am waiting on a friend if someone asks if why Im by myself. I tried to make sure to focus on the first couple of goals when I got through the door. Having a structured game plan was so much more helpful than just "go pick up girls." I eventually starting dancing like 10 mins in and got the crowds to join in with me. I am a good dancer, so I usually just dance for a good while then meet people throughout the night. I talked to two girls. One was into me and wanted to grind on me, but Im retarded, and didnt make a move. I do not have the killer instinct that chris from gll talks about all the time in his blog. I am hoping to develop that killer instinct through the program. Anyway the girl looked at me and said, "I like your jacket" so I grabbed her hand and held it for a few secs. There was no resistance, but I did not push further. I only realized 15 mins later that she was waiting for me to make a move, but oh well, I will make sure to keep this interaction in my mind for the future. I like the bar, but I didn't realize how much of a sausage fest it was. I also brought back my tinder, bumble, and hinges accounts back up. I matched with this girl, and got here number. I am hoping to schedule a date/hookup tomorrow.
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OnTheComeUp
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Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2022 2:54 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Just Fucking DO IT!
Location: DC

Sun Nov 20, 2022 3:17 am

I don’t know if I will be able to fully complete the program. I am competing for my time by doing the program and getting OLD matches. This seems like a good problem to have.

After improving my OLD pics, I now have a lot more matches with a couple of girls down to hookup. This is way more matches than I expected. I have a couple of numbers today, I scheduled two dates, and hooked up with the first date. I canceled the second date because the first hookup took a lot longer to finish up.

I don’t if I have the energy to goto the bar today. I didn’t get enough sleep today. I came back from the bar pretty late, slept late and woke up early. I needed to get some errands done and get a haircut. I need to manage my time better if I want to complete the program, because the way things are going now, I will not have enough stamina to go to the bars 3 times a week.

Today, I finger banged a girl in my car while driving back to my parents house. I found out I’m super sensitive to blowjobs (Any advice would be greatly appreciated). I also cannot keep my cock hard enough for sex (Any advice would be greatly appreciated). I might not be able to feel enough sensation in my penis through the condom to keep my cock rock hard. Also, my cock might be to short to fuck some girls. If a girl is too thick, I don’t think I can’t penetrate her. I’m okay with this for the time, because I fingerbang the girls till they orgasm and they love it.
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OnTheComeUp
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2022 2:54 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Just Fucking DO IT!
Location: DC

Thu Nov 24, 2022 5:24 am

My parents found out I had a one night stand tonight. They are kicking me out of the house. They are giving me a few weeks to at least get my job, then I must get out. I will be making $90,000 a year with this job. It will be "fully remote." I need to make sure to clarify if there will still be any in person meetings at all during orientation week. If so, I will be leaving the dc area. I am currently waiting for my pre-employment papers to get finished processing before starting work. The processing should finish between 12/2/22-12/9/22. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, Thank you!
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OnTheComeUp
Posts: 7 | Thanks: 6
Joined: Thu Nov 10, 2022 2:54 am
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 24
Motto: Just Fucking DO IT!
Location: DC

Fri Dec 02, 2022 1:01 am

Quick update, I start work on Monday. I am currently looking at apartments in a nearby area where I took girls out on dates to. I'm looking for a 6 month lease, because Im planning to save up some money and move out the area since my job is full remote.
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Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2021 9:23 pm
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Goal: japanese lay
Age: 26
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Location: japan
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Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:59 am

getting kicked out of your parents' house because you banged some chick?

HELL YEA BROTHER!!!!

time to move!
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