PillowDrifter's progress log
- MILFandCookies
- Posts: 1207 | Thanks: 588
- Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
- Name: Joe
- Goal: $10k+/month
- Age: 31
- Motto: Unchain your Passion & Live Life on Your Own Terms
- Location: Austin, TX/World
- Contact:
Keep going man. It can be hard on the path to greatness. If you just don't quit you're guaranteed to win.
I've helped > 100 guys get laid on dating apps.
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Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸
P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)
Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating
Attempts on week 1 day 7 of AA program: talked to 15 strangers today. I spent two hours outside decided to not come back until I asked time and directions to 15 person's.
I was very shy with a closed posture at first. But when one girl smiled when I asked the time, I realized that doing these exercices can actually make other people happy. Ended up talking to the last 4 person's with a confident posture and a grin.
It's kind of funny to think that the person I talked to (with and without rejection) were unknowingly helping me becoming a better version of myself and I'm grateful for them.
Jobs
-Sent 2 jobs applications
-Created a profile on efinancialcareers
Addiction and Mental health
-no cigarette and alcohol (fell much better)
-guitar and journaling
Thanks @MILFandCookies ! I'll give my best shot.
Attempts on week 1 day 7 of AA program: talked to 15 strangers today. I spent two hours outside decided to not come back until I asked time and directions to 15 person's.
I was very shy with a closed posture at first. But when one girl smiled when I asked the time, I realized that doing these exercices can actually make other people happy. Ended up talking to the last 4 person's with a confident posture and a grin.
It's kind of funny to think that the person I talked to (with and without rejection) were unknowingly helping me becoming a better version of myself and I'm grateful for them.
Jobs
-Sent 2 jobs applications
-Created a profile on efinancialcareers
Addiction and Mental health
-no cigarette and alcohol (fell much better)
-guitar and journaling
Thanks @MILFandCookies ! I'll give my best shot.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Just another day
Dating:
- Took back a pass for the gym and followed the day one of Jeff Nippard minimalist workout:
-Used a boost and matched with 3 girls, only one responded. Have to continue taking better pictures
Jobs:
-Send applications
-Organized a meeting with a research group
Addictions
-No cigarettes
-Journaling
Dating:
- Took back a pass for the gym and followed the day one of Jeff Nippard minimalist workout:
-Used a boost and matched with 3 girls, only one responded. Have to continue taking better pictures
Jobs:
-Send applications
-Organized a meeting with a research group
Addictions
-No cigarettes
-Journaling
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Went to a party, had a lot of social anxiety and got super drunk.
On the way back home I went under depressive relapse and hurt myself with a knive.
The next morning, I looked in the mirror and had the impression that it was a some kind of bully looking back. This moment I understood that being angry against myself was currently my only way to deal with anxiety and frustration.
Seeing now a psychiatrist and having also a loving parental support. I will set mental health as a #1 priority (the others goals will suffers but I have to fix this first). Currently the plan is :
-Have another meeting with a psychiatrist to try EMDR to deal with social anxiety and fear of rejection.
- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
- Fix my sleep habits to get a good dopamine balance (as pointed out in Huberman Lab podcast). Meditation before sleeping usually improve recuperation.
- Train on memory retention so that I can remebers the actionable takeaways from various self-help books I'm currently reading. Currently watching a great YouTube channel by Elizabeth Filips that treat this subject.
So yeah that's a start and I'll do what I can do each day to make my mind a nice place to live.
On the way back home I went under depressive relapse and hurt myself with a knive.
The next morning, I looked in the mirror and had the impression that it was a some kind of bully looking back. This moment I understood that being angry against myself was currently my only way to deal with anxiety and frustration.
Seeing now a psychiatrist and having also a loving parental support. I will set mental health as a #1 priority (the others goals will suffers but I have to fix this first). Currently the plan is :
-Have another meeting with a psychiatrist to try EMDR to deal with social anxiety and fear of rejection.
- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
- Fix my sleep habits to get a good dopamine balance (as pointed out in Huberman Lab podcast). Meditation before sleeping usually improve recuperation.
- Train on memory retention so that I can remebers the actionable takeaways from various self-help books I'm currently reading. Currently watching a great YouTube channel by Elizabeth Filips that treat this subject.
So yeah that's a start and I'll do what I can do each day to make my mind a nice place to live.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Mental health:
- Applied asertives methods from "When I say no I feel guilty" to conversation with strangers and friends. Conversation felt more real and nice.
- Set up a routine to work and read self-help book more efficiently
Jobs:
- Applied for 2 jobs
- Applied asertives methods from "When I say no I feel guilty" to conversation with strangers and friends. Conversation felt more real and nice.
- Set up a routine to work and read self-help book more efficiently
Jobs:
- Applied for 2 jobs
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Mental health:
-went on a trip to see a friend in the country side, we pushed each other in applying for jobs.
-continue reading self-help books.
Jobs:
-Got an interview and waiting for answers.
Dating:
-Train to use my DSLR camera with friends for better pictures.
-went on a trip to see a friend in the country side, we pushed each other in applying for jobs.
-continue reading self-help books.
Jobs:
-Got an interview and waiting for answers.
Dating:
-Train to use my DSLR camera with friends for better pictures.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Today:
-Programmed with a friend for a challenge and increased coding skills for jobs.
- Went for jogging (sport is back and it has a very positive impact on my mind).
- Used the DSLR for training. Will follow lecture and post on how to take good pics.
- I have cutoff all dating apps except for Tinder and Hinge to give me some space.
-Prepared for a job interview tomorrow
-Programmed with a friend for a challenge and increased coding skills for jobs.
- Went for jogging (sport is back and it has a very positive impact on my mind).
- Used the DSLR for training. Will follow lecture and post on how to take good pics.
- I have cutoff all dating apps except for Tinder and Hinge to give me some space.
-Prepared for a job interview tomorrow
- Hedon
- Posts: 54 | Thanks: 37
- Joined: Sat Jan 08, 2022 7:21 pm
- Goal: Lays + Income
- Age: 27
- Motto: Make your own luck...
Probably a good move, tbh I've found the time v results ratio isn't ideal on most other dating apps apart from Tinder, Hinge and also Raya.PillowDrifter wrote: ↑Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:59 pm- I have cutoff all dating apps except for Tinder and Hinge to give me some space.
Pareto principle wise it's better worth putting all the time/effort into the things giving the majority of the results rather than spreading that time/attention across 7-8 dating apps.
2023 GOALS
- 40 new hookups (Current 50/40)
- Scale Service biz (Done)
- 83kg 12% Bodyfat
- 40 new hookups (Current 50/40)
- Scale Service biz (Done)
- 83kg 12% Bodyfat
- MILFandCookies
- Posts: 1207 | Thanks: 588
- Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
- Name: Joe
- Goal: $10k+/month
- Age: 31
- Motto: Unchain your Passion & Live Life on Your Own Terms
- Location: Austin, TX/World
- Contact:
Where do you live? I've been wanting to do legit therapy with psychadelics.PillowDrifter wrote: ↑Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:15 pm- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
I've helped > 100 guys get laid on dating apps.
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸
P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)
Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸
P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)
Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month
Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Jobs:
-apply for a PhD
-scheduled meeting for an interview
-followed lecture on 'achine learning
Mental health:
-spent some times with friends, I tend to practice more and more direct honesty with them and it works very well.
-saw a psychiatrist and she is up to ask for a treatment on LSD
-read about negative inquiry and applied it.
-apply for a PhD
-scheduled meeting for an interview
-followed lecture on 'achine learning
Mental health:
-spent some times with friends, I tend to practice more and more direct honesty with them and it works very well.
-saw a psychiatrist and she is up to ask for a treatment on LSD
-read about negative inquiry and applied it.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
I hear you, the testimonials are really promising ! Currently living in Switzerland. Apparently its been a time since the hospital experiment with drugs and now you can apply for this kind of treatment if you have a psychiatrist to back you up.MILFandCookies wrote: ↑Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:32 pmWhere do you live? I've been wanting to do legit therapy with psychadelics.PillowDrifter wrote: ↑Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:15 pm- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Mental health:
-reading
-meditation and learn some sleep management techniques
- went to see my psychiatrist
Jobs:
-applied for 2 jobs and got an interview for the next week
- took some lectures online
Dating:
-started fitness again
- went on a tinder date, she was super nice but very shy and closed, in the end I accompanied her to her tram stop and set her on her way.
-went to a party and ask a cute girl for her number, messaged her and set a date for the next week.
-reading
-meditation and learn some sleep management techniques
- went to see my psychiatrist
Jobs:
-applied for 2 jobs and got an interview for the next week
- took some lectures online
Dating:
-started fitness again
- went on a tinder date, she was super nice but very shy and closed, in the end I accompanied her to her tram stop and set her on her way.
-went to a party and ask a cute girl for her number, messaged her and set a date for the next week.
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Alright today:
Mental health:
-Reading
-Journaling
-Saw a therapist, LSD therapy requires that I take more than two types of anti-depressant during the last year so I'm not eligible. Nevertheless, there are some experienced friends that can help me try it safely.
Jobs and independence:
-Applied to one job
-Subscribe to a student housing agency
Dating:
-Two matches on Hinge and a date for tomorrow
Mental health:
-Reading
-Journaling
-Saw a therapist, LSD therapy requires that I take more than two types of anti-depressant during the last year so I'm not eligible. Nevertheless, there are some experienced friends that can help me try it safely.
Jobs and independence:
-Applied to one job
-Subscribe to a student housing agency
Dating:
-Two matches on Hinge and a date for tomorrow
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating and social:
- Went on a hinge date, it was a good time but she wasn't up to go back to my place on the first date.
-Went to a party and approach two cute girls by telling them a dumb jokes. Positive reaction and we discussed but pussied out before asking for their number to see some friends.
Fitness:
- one hour of fitness
- got back on fitness pal app
- Went on a hinge date, it was a good time but she wasn't up to go back to my place on the first date.
-Went to a party and approach two cute girls by telling them a dumb jokes. Positive reaction and we discussed but pussied out before asking for their number to see some friends.
Fitness:
- one hour of fitness
- got back on fitness pal app
- PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Fitness and dating:
-went to the fitness for one hour, it's a small one so I go late to have access to the gear.
-several matches on hinges and organising a date, I had a lot of flakes lately but I'll continue improving the pictures and the conversation skills.
Financial independence:
- Still waiting for the document to sign for my first job as an intern.
- First round of interviews for a second job went well. Preparing for the test
- visited a flat near my first job location
-went to the fitness for one hour, it's a small one so I go late to have access to the gear.
-several matches on hinges and organising a date, I had a lot of flakes lately but I'll continue improving the pictures and the conversation skills.
Financial independence:
- Still waiting for the document to sign for my first job as an intern.
- First round of interviews for a second job went well. Preparing for the test
- visited a flat near my first job location