PillowDrifter's progress log

The main purpose of this forum; tell us what goals you're working on.
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MILFandCookies
Posts: 1207 | Thanks: 588
Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
Name: Joe
Goal: $10k+/month
Age: 31
Motto: Unchain your Passion & Live Life on Your Own Terms
Location: Austin, TX/World
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Mon Feb 27, 2023 11:30 pm

Keep going man. It can be hard on the path to greatness. If you just don't quit you're guaranteed to win.
I've helped > 100 guys get laid on dating apps.
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸

P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)

Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month

Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Mon Feb 27, 2023 11:51 pm

Dating
Attempts on week 1 day 7 of AA program: talked to 15 strangers today. I spent two hours outside decided to not come back until I asked time and directions to 15 person's.

I was very shy with a closed posture at first. But when one girl smiled when I asked the time, I realized that doing these exercices can actually make other people happy. Ended up talking to the last 4 person's with a confident posture and a grin.
It's kind of funny to think that the person I talked to (with and without rejection) were unknowingly helping me becoming a better version of myself and I'm grateful for them.

Jobs
-Sent 2 jobs applications
-Created a profile on efinancialcareers

Addiction and Mental health
-no cigarette and alcohol (fell much better)
-guitar and journaling

Thanks @MILFandCookies ! I'll give my best shot.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Wed Mar 01, 2023 12:47 am

Just another day

Dating:
- Took back a pass for the gym and followed the day one of Jeff Nippard minimalist workout:


-Used a boost and matched with 3 girls, only one responded. Have to continue taking better pictures

Jobs:
-Send applications
-Organized a meeting with a research group

Addictions
-No cigarettes
-Journaling
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:15 pm

Went to a party, had a lot of social anxiety and got super drunk.
On the way back home I went under depressive relapse and hurt myself with a knive.
The next morning, I looked in the mirror and had the impression that it was a some kind of bully looking back. This moment I understood that being angry against myself was currently my only way to deal with anxiety and frustration.

Seeing now a psychiatrist and having also a loving parental support. I will set mental health as a #1 priority (the others goals will suffers but I have to fix this first). Currently the plan is :

-Have another meeting with a psychiatrist to try EMDR to deal with social anxiety and fear of rejection.

- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.

- Fix my sleep habits to get a good dopamine balance (as pointed out in Huberman Lab podcast). Meditation before sleeping usually improve recuperation.

- Train on memory retention so that I can remebers the actionable takeaways from various self-help books I'm currently reading. Currently watching a great YouTube channel by Elizabeth Filips that treat this subject.

So yeah that's a start and I'll do what I can do each day to make my mind a nice place to live.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Tue Mar 07, 2023 10:13 am

Mental health:
- Applied asertives methods from "When I say no I feel guilty" to conversation with strangers and friends. Conversation felt more real and nice.

- Set up a routine to work and read self-help book more efficiently

Jobs:

- Applied for 2 jobs
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Fri Mar 10, 2023 11:21 pm

Mental health:
-went on a trip to see a friend in the country side, we pushed each other in applying for jobs.
-continue reading self-help books.

Jobs:
-Got an interview and waiting for answers.

Dating:
-Train to use my DSLR camera with friends for better pictures.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:59 pm

Today:

-Programmed with a friend for a challenge and increased coding skills for jobs.
- Went for jogging (sport is back and it has a very positive impact on my mind).
- Used the DSLR for training. Will follow lecture and post on how to take good pics.
- I have cutoff all dating apps except for Tinder and Hinge to give me some space.
-Prepared for a job interview tomorrow
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Hedon
Posts: 54 | Thanks: 37
Joined: Sat Jan 08, 2022 7:21 pm
Goal: Lays + Income
Age: 27
Motto: Make your own luck...

Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:11 pm

PillowDrifter wrote:
Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:59 pm
- I have cutoff all dating apps except for Tinder and Hinge to give me some space.
Probably a good move, tbh I've found the time v results ratio isn't ideal on most other dating apps apart from Tinder, Hinge and also Raya.

Pareto principle wise it's better worth putting all the time/effort into the things giving the majority of the results rather than spreading that time/attention across 7-8 dating apps.
2023 GOALS

- 40 new hookups (Current 50/40)
- Scale Service biz (Done)
- 83kg 12% Bodyfat
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MILFandCookies
Posts: 1207 | Thanks: 588
Joined: Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:29 am
Name: Joe
Goal: $10k+/month
Age: 31
Motto: Unchain your Passion & Live Life on Your Own Terms
Location: Austin, TX/World
Contact:

Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:32 pm

PillowDrifter wrote:
Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:15 pm
- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
Where do you live? I've been wanting to do legit therapy with psychadelics.
I've helped > 100 guys get laid on dating apps.
📸🔥 Dating App Photographer - I'll get you laid, click here: https://www.DatingUnchained.com/ 🔥📸

P.S. I don't like MILFs, just the name ;)

Goal 1:
• Build + maintain $10k+ profit/month

Goal 2:
• Cut some fat to get abs again
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Wed Mar 15, 2023 1:12 am

Jobs:
-apply for a PhD
-scheduled meeting for an interview
-followed lecture on 'achine learning

Mental health:
-spent some times with friends, I tend to practice more and more direct honesty with them and it works very well.
-saw a psychiatrist and she is up to ask for a treatment on LSD
-read about negative inquiry and applied it.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Wed Mar 15, 2023 1:27 am

MILFandCookies wrote:
Mon Mar 13, 2023 4:32 pm
PillowDrifter wrote:
Sat Mar 04, 2023 10:15 pm
- Will apply to try LSD therapy, as it is now something you can legally do with the rights prescriptions.
Where do you live? I've been wanting to do legit therapy with psychadelics.
I hear you, the testimonials are really promising ! Currently living in Switzerland. Apparently its been a time since the hospital experiment with drugs and now you can apply for this kind of treatment if you have a psychiatrist to back you up.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Fri Mar 17, 2023 8:59 am

Mental health:
-reading
-meditation and learn some sleep management techniques
- went to see my psychiatrist

Jobs:
-applied for 2 jobs and got an interview for the next week
- took some lectures online

Dating:
-started fitness again
- went on a tinder date, she was super nice but very shy and closed, in the end I accompanied her to her tram stop and set her on her way.
-went to a party and ask a cute girl for her number, messaged her and set a date for the next week.
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Tue Mar 21, 2023 12:12 am

Alright today:

Mental health:
-Reading
-Journaling
-Saw a therapist, LSD therapy requires that I take more than two types of anti-depressant during the last year so I'm not eligible. Nevertheless, there are some experienced friends that can help me try it safely.

Jobs and independence:
-Applied to one job
-Subscribe to a student housing agency

Dating:
-Two matches on Hinge and a date for tomorrow
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Fri Mar 24, 2023 1:19 am

Dating and social:
- Went on a hinge date, it was a good time but she wasn't up to go back to my place on the first date.
-Went to a party and approach two cute girls by telling them a dumb jokes. Positive reaction and we discussed but pussied out before asking for their number to see some friends.

Fitness:
- one hour of fitness
- got back on fitness pal app
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PillowDrifter
Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
Name: Damien
Goal: Have a threesome
Age: 26
Motto: Dont be sorry, be better

Tue Mar 28, 2023 10:17 pm

Fitness and dating:
-went to the fitness for one hour, it's a small one so I go late to have access to the gear.
-several matches on hinges and organising a date, I had a lot of flakes lately but I'll continue improving the pictures and the conversation skills.

Financial independence:
- Still waiting for the document to sign for my first job as an intern.
- First round of interviews for a second job went well. Preparing for the test
- visited a flat near my first job location
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