Not much today apart from applying for jobs and seeing the doctor for some medications.
Also spent my first social night without drinking any alcohol and I have reduced my cigarettes consumption from one packet to three cigarettes.
PillowDrifter's progress log
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating :
- homemade quick sport (pumps, hips and abdominals)
- went to a Hinge date. We had a very good chemistry and ended up sleeping at my place. It's the shortest person I ever dated and for the first time there was a problem of penis size in the bedroom. Nevertheless we went with long preliminary and had our fun.
- She is bisexual and up to meet other girls together so I'll build on that.
Jobs and independence:
-applied for two jobs
-continue sending applications for flats
Mental health:
-reading and three cigarettes
-only drank one cocktail at the date but no alcohol elsewhere
- homemade quick sport (pumps, hips and abdominals)
- went to a Hinge date. We had a very good chemistry and ended up sleeping at my place. It's the shortest person I ever dated and for the first time there was a problem of penis size in the bedroom. Nevertheless we went with long preliminary and had our fun.
- She is bisexual and up to meet other girls together so I'll build on that.
Jobs and independence:
-applied for two jobs
-continue sending applications for flats
Mental health:
-reading and three cigarettes
-only drank one cocktail at the date but no alcohol elsewhere
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Today was a good day
Jobs:
-is employed for 6 months
Dating and social:
-matches and organized two dates for the end of the week.
Jobs:
-is employed for 6 months
Dating and social:
-matches and organized two dates for the end of the week.
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Today things begins to start again slowly but surely
Dating:
- the date of tonight got sick and cancelled
- went to the gym
- 2 matches on Hinge
Mental health:
- started dance classes
- self-help books
Dating:
- the date of tonight got sick and cancelled
- went to the gym
- 2 matches on Hinge
Mental health:
- started dance classes
- self-help books
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Jobs:
- passed interviews I wasn't prepared for, I think at some point I'm just searching for a job and not a passion. The thing is I don't know now what I'm talented at and I don't feel that I'm passionate about something. I'll listen to some podcasts about this and think about a passion I can carry out seriously.
-searched for flats
Dating and sport:
- went jogging
- got a number on Hinge with two girls using Andy's template. One of them noticed that a message was copy pasted but sent her number anyway with a "Hey I'm in the same mood".
- Colombia girl is going to come back to my town in one month and she's up for threesomes. I'll propose to others girls in the meantime.
- passed interviews I wasn't prepared for, I think at some point I'm just searching for a job and not a passion. The thing is I don't know now what I'm talented at and I don't feel that I'm passionate about something. I'll listen to some podcasts about this and think about a passion I can carry out seriously.
-searched for flats
Dating and sport:
- went jogging
- got a number on Hinge with two girls using Andy's template. One of them noticed that a message was copy pasted but sent her number anyway with a "Hey I'm in the same mood".
- Colombia girl is going to come back to my town in one month and she's up for threesomes. I'll propose to others girls in the meantime.
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating:
-Saw Short girl again, had a nice dinner and slept in my parents house. The more we see each other the closer we becomes and the better the sex is. She said she have to think about the fact I see other girls so we will see.
-Have another date set for tomorrow
Sport:
-Went jogging and did some exercice at home
Jobs:
-trained for an interview that I have to pass later in the week
-Saw Short girl again, had a nice dinner and slept in my parents house. The more we see each other the closer we becomes and the better the sex is. She said she have to think about the fact I see other girls so we will see.
-Have another date set for tomorrow
Sport:
-Went jogging and did some exercice at home
Jobs:
-trained for an interview that I have to pass later in the week
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating and fitness:
-went to the gym: Dumbells, deadlift bar, Bulgarian split squats, adjustable pulley, rows and leg curl.
-5 matches on Bumble and Hinge but no numbers
Jobs and independence
- send some documents for the jobs
- searched for flats
-went to the gym: Dumbells, deadlift bar, Bulgarian split squats, adjustable pulley, rows and leg curl.
-5 matches on Bumble and Hinge but no numbers
Jobs and independence
- send some documents for the jobs
- searched for flats
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating and sport :
- went to the fitness for one hour
- home exercises
- practice with my DSLR camera
Mental health :
- reading "When I say no I feel guilty"
- went to the fitness for one hour
- home exercises
- practice with my DSLR camera
Mental health :
- reading "When I say no I feel guilty"
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Independence:
- went to a flat visit and sent some emails for contracts.
- carried out an interview for a second job. It didn't go well, but I'm a lot less stressed about interviews now and have a list of skills to sharpen.
Dating :
- I exercised with a friend in her flat as I was traveling.
- Have a date tonight, the fourth time we see each other. She doesn't see herself having sex with another girl but we are vibing and she's into casual relationships.
Mental health:
- "When I say no I feel guilty"
- went to a flat visit and sent some emails for contracts.
- carried out an interview for a second job. It didn't go well, but I'm a lot less stressed about interviews now and have a list of skills to sharpen.
Dating :
- I exercised with a friend in her flat as I was traveling.
- Have a date tonight, the fourth time we see each other. She doesn't see herself having sex with another girl but we are vibing and she's into casual relationships.
Mental health:
- "When I say no I feel guilty"
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Jobs :
- worked on a challenge question sent for an interview
- leetcode
Dating:
- matches on Hinge
- continue to practice with the DSLR
- date of tonight flaked
Mental health:
- finished "When I say no I feel guilty"
- learned and applied the "5 seconds" method for combatting procrastination.
- worked on a challenge question sent for an interview
- leetcode
Dating:
- matches on Hinge
- continue to practice with the DSLR
- date of tonight flaked
Mental health:
- finished "When I say no I feel guilty"
- learned and applied the "5 seconds" method for combatting procrastination.
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Not so much today:
- Hit the gym with a friend.
- Arranged a date for next week.
- Received an answer concerning a flat I'm looking to.
I do feel I'm not consistent with my goals, I'll see tmwr what I can do.
- Hit the gym with a friend.
- Arranged a date for next week.
- Received an answer concerning a flat I'm looking to.
I do feel I'm not consistent with my goals, I'll see tmwr what I can do.
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Today was hectic :
Financial independence:
- sent flat applications
- followed lectures in prevision of my first job
Dating and Fitness:
- jogging and fitness pal
-set two dates for the next week from a girl I approached during a party and another long-lost date who happen to be back in town.
Mental health:
- finished "the subtle art of not giving a fuck"
- guitar
Financial independence:
- sent flat applications
- followed lectures in prevision of my first job
Dating and Fitness:
- jogging and fitness pal
-set two dates for the next week from a girl I approached during a party and another long-lost date who happen to be back in town.
Mental health:
- finished "the subtle art of not giving a fuck"
- guitar
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating :
- Went jogging for 1 hour
- Date of tonight went super well. We went out for some drinks and got back to her place. She was first into staying friends but after prompting her to give more information about what she meant by that and what she was looking for in dating, we agreed to take some time to see where things will go between us.
After some nice chatting, she suddenly leaned forward, we kissed and ended up hooking up.
For me the reason we got conformable and close with each other that quickly was that we made our needs clear and found together a workable compromise as a team (and stuck with it for an hour lol).
She is a bunch of fun and I'll propose her to date again this week.
Mental health:
- Meditation
- Practiced guitar
- Went jogging for 1 hour
- Date of tonight went super well. We went out for some drinks and got back to her place. She was first into staying friends but after prompting her to give more information about what she meant by that and what she was looking for in dating, we agreed to take some time to see where things will go between us.
After some nice chatting, she suddenly leaned forward, we kissed and ended up hooking up.
For me the reason we got conformable and close with each other that quickly was that we made our needs clear and found together a workable compromise as a team (and stuck with it for an hour lol).
She is a bunch of fun and I'll propose her to date again this week.
Mental health:
- Meditation
- Practiced guitar
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Dating and fitness:
- jogging for 1 hour
- Approached a cute girl in a bar and said "Hey it may sound direct but I find you cute, are you up to take a drink?". She said she was with a friend and proposed we exchanged numbers. We chatted for a bit and I went back to my mates.
- matches on Hinge
- have organized dates for today and tomorrow but the girls flaked
Jobs and independence:
- leetcode
- continue to work on code lectures for the work
- sent 3 flats contract requests
- jogging for 1 hour
- Approached a cute girl in a bar and said "Hey it may sound direct but I find you cute, are you up to take a drink?". She said she was with a friend and proposed we exchanged numbers. We chatted for a bit and I went back to my mates.
- matches on Hinge
- have organized dates for today and tomorrow but the girls flaked
Jobs and independence:
- leetcode
- continue to work on code lectures for the work
- sent 3 flats contract requests
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PillowDrifter
- Posts: 77 | Thanks: 16
- Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2022 11:02 pm
- Name: Damien
- Goal: Have a threesome
- Age: 26
- Motto: Dont be sorry, be better
Spent some days out of town with a friend, and now back to business:
Job and independence:
- planned some flats visits to have my place
- prepared to start working tomorrow
Dating :
- matches on Hinges and organized some dates for this week
- going to have a date tomorrow with the girl I approached at the bar.
- had an in-depth about how feelings and seriousness with a girl I saw for a long time (almost a year now). I begin to like her but we have different dating goals and I don't know how much time we can share if I'm going to see other people. She's not into dating other girls together but she is up that we see other people separately.
Mental health:
- going through the second chapter of "Loving what is"
Job and independence:
- planned some flats visits to have my place
- prepared to start working tomorrow
Dating :
- matches on Hinges and organized some dates for this week
- going to have a date tomorrow with the girl I approached at the bar.
- had an in-depth about how feelings and seriousness with a girl I saw for a long time (almost a year now). I begin to like her but we have different dating goals and I don't know how much time we can share if I'm going to see other people. She's not into dating other girls together but she is up that we see other people separately.
Mental health:
- going through the second chapter of "Loving what is"