Actions taken:
- Affirmations
- 2nd meditation in the afternoon
Sounds pretty sweet mate. Good for you on being good about saying no in general. It took me a while to get there (and I'm still not great at it). I have a minion now to defer people to jobs I don't want to take (and my mate gives me a referral / consulting fee) which helps a ton.Bman wrote: ↑Tue Jan 10, 2023 1:52 amDay 35
Right now I'm working on selling my ad inventory for the year on my startup's courses. Been cold emailing potential sponsors every work day. Today I warmed up two leads, scheduling one for a sales call tomorrow. Then applied for an opprituntity to be a learning facilitator and run live learning sessions for another education company at $350/hr. Then in the afternoon I had another inbound consulting lead and did a sales call with them. I was originally going to tell them no because their budget was too small and they couldn't afford me. Because I only do these as supplementary income for the startup, I'm pretty adamant about saying no. But they were a non profit and I liked their mission (educating entrepreneurs) so I said what the hell, I can give them 30 mins of my time. On the call I told them time is highly valued resource right now so they would have to simplify the project if I did work for them. They were totally ok with that. It so happens though that they often help founders get sponsorships. So I told them if they are able to land me a sponsor for one of my courses, I'd do their project for half my quoted price. Why? Because the sponsor will be worth more than the 50% on this project.
It's taken a long time for me as well. Getting over the scarcity of "I have to do this because other money is not going to come". It will and when I turn down a mediocre opprituntity I make room for myself to fill it with a great one.RogerRoger wrote: ↑Tue Jan 10, 2023 7:45 amGood for you on being good about saying no in general. It took me a while to get there (and I'm still not great at it).
I've observed the same thing about a majority being low value. So I tend to skip out on most of them. This one however is run by the people that run the club, so 180 people RSVP'd going or maybe going. Felt like worth the effort.Holden wrote: ↑Thu Jan 12, 2023 12:09 pmI've considered going to one of those munches too but when I took a peek at people who RSVP'd, it seemed to be exclusively pretty low value men and women. I'm sure it's different for every city.
I've always found that those kink communities tend to attract people with low social skills or just generally low value people. Maybe I'm stereotyping though.
There is definitely a "Fetlife Elite", I've come across a few such profiles. Guys in their late 30s-40s who seem to be killing it with VYW. But they run on social proof (photography is always involved) and don't come to these public munches.
Like all good things in life, it seems that they have their private circles, and the key is getting access to those.
Interesting because I'd say go for option 3, ask her. It's an innocent question. Not sure why you don't even know already. You're in a hypersexual environment and don't ask attractive women about the nature of their relationship?