Very important insights.
If it helps at all remember that by being "selfish" and focusing on what you want and your pleasure you'll be giving a lot of women one of the things they love most, which is to be used by a top man for his pleasure.
Very important insights.
Brilliant, contemplative posts like this are why I keep coming back to your logs. If nothing else, I enjoy reading your story, but I always come out with a lot of my own internal insight. I have had similar issues of denying myself a lot of things throughout my life to my detriment, and it certainly has not helped me. Being super individualistic yet successful after a while becomes very lonely and unfulfilling.Bman wrote: ↑Thu Mar 30, 2023 10:15 pm...
For those unfamiliar with the WOC, taking means you are taking an action for your own benefit, done to another person who is willingly allowing it. Accepting means you are accepting a benefit from another person who is giving it to you from their actions. I've almost always put myself in the serving square. I've been afraid of taking and accepting because *gasp* I'd have to admit I'm human, I have needs, and be vulnerable enough to express that to others. I've been afraid of looking weak for having needs and afraid of them never getting met. So I became hyper self sufficient and indivualistic.
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Exactly the point my man.
Well said 🫡
Yup, that hits home.
And exactly what I'm working on.
You did dodge a bullet. I tell girls to wear high heels all the time. If they give me attitude like that girl did, I just cancel.
You did.
I've been giving my value away freely, without asking if they ever have the money to pay for it.
My man! You made the step.