Brandon’s 365 Days of Masculine, Self-affirming Action: Days 278-283

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Manly Cockfellow
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Goal: Become the men I fear
Age: 37
Motto: Mk no smll plans; thy hv no pwr to stir mens blood

Tue Mar 14, 2023 2:38 pm

Bman wrote:
Tue Mar 14, 2023 1:48 pm
I took a leap of faith
Bman wrote:
Tue Mar 14, 2023 1:48 pm
I'd rather run the experiment myself
Bman wrote:
Tue Mar 14, 2023 1:48 pm
I'd like to put it to the test myself
Love it!

We can all learn a lot from you, especially the way you learn about life 🫡
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Bman
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Name: Brandon
Goal: Get Laid
Age: 30
Motto: Pursue Purpose
Location: Austin, TX

Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:09 am

Day 99

Actions taken:
  • Affirmations
  • 2nd meditation in the afternoon
  • Call with jmand
  • Reaping what I sow from the munch
So there is a girl in my munch who has been multiple times. She's a sweet, seemingly innocent, reformed "good girl" (hello, archetype match) who a virgin with some really kinky fantasies. She's actually a data scientist for libraries and has been looking for jobs across the country after just having graduated. She's moving this weekend and time was of the essence for HER to act...

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She's pretty nervous, told me she has had terrible experiences with boys in the past, and is wanting to keep her virginity. Oh religion, why do you do this to poor girls? She is, however, pretty much down for everything else other than intercourse. That's honestly fine with me and I can still have a ton fun. Had I more time, I'm betting I could have opened her up to intercourse as well. She also mentioned she's not orgasmed during play before. We'll see what happens when she's with someone who knows what their doing and keeps escalating.

Anyways, set for Friday. Right before my birthday. Nice.

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Holden
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Goal: Rotation
Age: 28

Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:53 am

Bman wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:09 am
So there is a girl in my munch who has been multiple times.
Congrats. Exactly what you should want from social circle stuff. Very interesting to see this turn your log has taken.
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- Rotation of three girls (DONE)
- Regular threesomes (DONE)
- A foursome
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pancakemouse
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Goal: Master cold approach
Age: 33

Wed Mar 15, 2023 2:32 pm

Bman wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:09 am
So there is a girl in my munch who has been multiple times. She's a sweet, seemingly innocent, reformed "good girl" (hello, archetype match) who a virgin with some really kinky fantasies. She's actually a data scientist for libraries and has been looking for jobs across the country after just having graduated. She's moving this weekend and time was of the essence for HER to act...


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Wow! So had you picked up on her interest? If so, I'm curious what signals she displayed towards you. Would you have made a move if she didn't?
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Bman
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Wed Mar 15, 2023 9:55 pm

Holden wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:53 am
Congrats. Exactly what you should want from social circle stuff. Very interesting to see this turn your log has taken.
Thank you. It's definitely a thrill. It's also nice to diversify lead sources and expand my skillset. I look forward to leveraging it in a less sexual environment if I attempt a founder meetup and nurturing a professional social circle.

Got to say it felt pretty awesome to seemingly do little work for it, even though all the work leading up to it is what made it possible.
pancakemouse wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 2:32 pm
Wow! So had you picked up on her interest? If so, I'm curious what signals she displayed towards you. Would you have made a move if she didn't?
Sort of.

For context, at the munch there is about 20 people each week, some regular, some new. We sit at a big round table and have big discussion, share stories, laugh, ect. Every person that arrives I'm personally greeting, meeting, and welcoming into the circle. So my attention is generally occupied.

So I try to setup some passive strategies while I do all this. I'm the most "loud" dressed person there. In the circle I try to sit between a couple women. For three of my munches I've brought Psychedelic Girl with me, which she'll bring me water, hold hands and play with my leg under the table, or run her hand over my shoulders while I'm tending to the group.

We usually go around the table, each person answering a question about sex, kink, sometimes just general life stuff. So these people know I see multiple people and have heard some of my sex stories.

With this girl, I could tell she was into my stories. However, we had not interacted to the point where we had really flirted with each other. Being that I'm the one running things, everyone is giving me a lot of attention, so it's hard to discern if any single one is overtly giving me more attention than normal.

She shared she was virgin, and planned on keeping that, at one of the early munches. So I initially wrote her off that I was not going to pursue. So if she had not reached out and made it easy for me, I wouldn't had made a move.
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Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:53 am

Day 100

Actions taken:
  • Affirmations
  • 2nd meditation in the afternoon
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bonzo34
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Location: San Antonio TX

Thu Mar 16, 2023 5:19 pm

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dating

resolve job/income

Be an Army Officer

50 lays. 1/50

The first time you quit, it's hard. The second time, it gets easier. The third time, you don't even have to think about it.
be transparent as possible. Stop setting plays. Stop playing chess with life.
you make progress when you face a fear head on
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Bman
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Location: Austin, TX

Fri Mar 17, 2023 12:27 am

Day 101

Actions taken:
  • Affirmations
  • 2nd meditation in the afternoon
Just plugging away with work today.

Have not really been using the apps that much but as usual these things come in swarms. Passive matches with girls on Tinder, Feeld, & Bumble. Already scheduled the Feel'd girl and waiting on the number drop from the Bumble one. The Tinder match is only here for tonight, so I thought I'd try to pull a fast one and do straight to the crib. She almost took it, but then wanted to grab a drink first. No biggie, but honestly I'm tired from a late night last night at another munch, I'm getting laid tomorrow, and she's decently cute but not enough for me to put in the effort for a ONS. If she lived here I would have.

Also, my full set of viking braids for both sides of my head came in today. I already know these are going to get so many comments because I usually get comments on how nice my hair is anyways. Also bought a simple 2 strand one that I can wear in more business causal settings for just a touch of rebel. Further down the archetype rabbit hole we go.

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Sat Mar 18, 2023 1:22 am

Day 102

Actions taken:
  • Affirmations
  • 2nd meditation in the afternoon
  • Did my due diligence as a Dom
Bman wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:09 am
So there is a girl in my munch who has been multiple times
Bman wrote:
Wed Mar 15, 2023 11:09 am
She's pretty nervous
Yeah... waaaaay nervous. She was bold enough to reach out because I think she was really excited and wanted to experience me as a Dom. She was nervous about doing a good job. She said it had been 3 years since she had really done anything like this. I comforted her and let her know it was ok to be nervous. Then I checked in again with her on boundaries, safe word, ect.

She wanted to do wax play so I did that with her, pleasuring her in between intervals of the wax melting. She'd not experienced that much pleasure before and got scared. She yellowed. I slowed down and asked how she was feeling. She was overwhelmed and asked if it would be alright if she wanted to go home. So I undid the restraints, let her up, and just talked and comforted her while she came down. She told me a few things that I won't share here, but this is it what happens sometimes when you're messing with kinky girls.

She kept apologizing and I told her it really was ok, I was not mad or disappointed at all, and told her she did good to ask to stop. I helped her get cleaned up and talked with her as she changed into her comfy clothes (because she really did go all out with the outfit to show up in). She was in better spirits and thanked me. When she was ready to go I walked her to her car and told her to text me when she got home and tomorrow to let me know how she was feeling.

She'll be alright. She just needs to build more trust and slow the roll with another good dom wherever she ends up.
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Bman
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Sun Mar 19, 2023 11:02 am

Day 103

Actions taken:
  • Affirmations
  • 2nd meditation in the afternoon
  • Celebrated my birthday
Yesterday was my birthday so I took it easy, watched some learning videos, read some, and took myself out to dinner. Since today is Shrine, it was nice to take my self care day yesterday. I could have planned having one of my girls with me, but it was honestly nice to just spend time with myself. However it was sweet to get texts from them. Off to Shrine this evening with Psychedelic Girl.
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Crimson
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Joined: Fri Apr 02, 2021 3:12 pm
Name: Brandon
Goal: Move out
Age: 21
Motto: TAKE ACTION
Location: Germany

Sun Mar 19, 2023 12:19 pm

Nice, happy belated birthday, keep killing it
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Red
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Goal: Get to the top 1%
Age: 23
Motto: You get what you tolerate

Sun Mar 19, 2023 12:34 pm

Happy Bday Bman!!!
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natedawg
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Goal: Social Life
Age: 35
Motto: Whatever you do, don't quit.

Sun Mar 19, 2023 4:09 pm

Happy Birthday fam!
2023-2024 Goals

Year 1: Pg 1-42

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Crisis_Overcomer
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Goal: Earn $5,000/month
Age: 33
Motto: Motion beats meditation

Sun Mar 19, 2023 6:03 pm

Happy birthday good sir.
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Manly Cockfellow
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Age: 37
Motto: Mk no smll plans; thy hv no pwr to stir mens blood

Sun Mar 19, 2023 6:14 pm

Happy Birthday @Bman!
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