Actions taken:
- Affirmations
- 2nd meditation in the afternoon
- 0/1 cold approach
Great idea to start recording your interactions. The cringe you will get from listening to your voice and your mistakes will make you more aware of them and also not want to do them again (it did for me and I'll continue to do it). Also to discuss anything cold approach related I'm always game (pun intended).
Holy shit that is awesome af!Bman wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 2:50 amPhotoshoot with Spiritual Girl
Had a lot of fun and excited to keep getting better at shooting with girls. Its been awhile since I shot, so I was a bit rusty with directing poses. But there were a few gems in there. Will post later after I edit them. Ever since I picked up a camera many years ago and shot with some models, I have always wanted to do this. Was so turned on I fucked her for multiple rounds.
Andy did a video on this.
Well I did that yesterday. I was actually a bit nervous about it because my brain started worrying about being embarrassed if no one came, looking foolish, etc. Reality is, none of that matters. Just try it. See if it works. If it doesn't, well try it a different way. I'm not expecting dozens of people the first time. Just a few would be cool because it will grow from word of mouth afterwards. Of course I'm actively trying to promote it to other munches/groups. Worse case, zero people show but at least I did something that scared me.
I love this. I especially love how you had to remind yourself "be selfish" while you were texting her.Bman wrote: ↑Sun Jan 29, 2023 2:50 amDay 54
Seems small, but as I was texting this girl I was just thinking...either make this easy or I'm going to blow you off till I have time. Didn't want to do late Monday because selfishly I want to go to bed early. When she said no to Wednesday I was like...Ok, Ill just text this girl later. Then she gave a time, which I had available, so it was an easy yes for me. Then she thanked me. Which I laughed at because I was just being selfish the whole time. Then she asked me how I liked to communicate. Honestly, at first that kind of shocked me. Duh B, you lead the whole interaction. You told her exactly what you wanted. And were ready to just next her if she wasn't on board.
Very well done, you have the skills to handle something like this when not Kink related, so why you don't feel the same confidence?Bman wrote: ↑Wed Feb 01, 2023 11:59 amDay 57
Actions taken:
- Affirmations
- 2nd meditation in the afternoon
- Scheduled the first munch for next Monday
Well I did that yesterday. I was actually a bit nervous about it because my brain started worrying about being embarrassed if no one came, looking foolish, etc. Reality is, none of that matters. Just try it. See if it works. If it doesn't, well try it a different way. I'm not expecting dozens of people the first time. Just a few would be cool because it will grow from word of mouth afterwards. Of course I'm actively trying to promote it to other munches/groups. Worse case, zero people show but at least I did something that scared me.
Actually I am pretty confident about running it and getting it going. Just had that initial knee jerk fear when you start something new. Not that I ever let that stop me before.
Yeah I've been looking at peerspace too for music events. One trick is that you can figure out the location (if it's a bar or something), then contact or visit them directly. In that way you evade the peerspace fees.Bman wrote: ↑Tue Jan 31, 2023 12:49 amI also perused the site Peerspace which is basically AirBnB for commercial space owners to rent out spaces for events. Being that its Austin, there are some pretty eclectic spaces. A few around my part of town could work for an event and only cost $100-200/hr. Was just curious to know in case the munch grows and the group wants to do an event.