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Lusty69
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Sat May 27, 2023 11:25 pm

Training at gym is coming along with finally training legs again just lightly since my knee injury, my hamstrings have heaps of doms which is good, they are the easiest to train without any ill effects on my knee, knee flexion stuff my knee is a little clicky under load but no pain, so will just keep doing a mix of bodyweight stuff which has no clicks and rehab as I build some weight into the knee.
I had a little extra fruit and I think along with the DOMS a little extra water retention, my scales feel like they are almost trolling me as I was the exact same weight as last Sunday but my BF% was down 0.5% hence why I think it's more so water retention. My average weight for last week was 105.2kg which is down on the week before an average of 106.8kg so things are tracking in the right direction.
I do think there is a little work towards speeding up the process whilst managing emotions and hunger, yesterday was a little bit of a lower day, but I feel like today I have bounced back.
I have had a few dates flake and also some I didn't follow up from just feeling like sleeping, managed to clock 12hrs of sleep yesterday and feel way better today though. Skipped out on heading out on a Friday or Saturday for some daygame but I might try and do a session this afternoon and will see what happens
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Sun May 28, 2023 2:43 am

Lusty69 wrote:
Thu Apr 13, 2023 10:27 pm
the past 2-3 years I have been doing a lot of inner work, but have been in the pick-up self dev journey for 12 years now.
I like your no-nonsense way of writing man, I can definitely tell you have some experience under your belt.
Looking forward to seeing more from you on here.
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Goals for December 31st 2023

Paid Dating Photography - 50% attention
1st Month of 4k w/ Dating Photography
KPI: 1 Photoshoot per week

144 Sales - 25% attention
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KPI: 40-50 calls a day
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Lusty69
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Sun May 28, 2023 10:14 pm

Mindset wrote:
Sun May 28, 2023 2:43 am
Lusty69 wrote:
Thu Apr 13, 2023 10:27 pm
the past 2-3 years I have been doing a lot of inner work, but have been in the pick-up self dev journey for 12 years now.
I like your no-nonsense way of writing man, I can definitely tell you have some experience under your belt.
Looking forward to seeing more from you on here.
Thanks for dropping a comment means a lot that you took the time out to read about my journey :)

So today was a little frustrating, I think I might be overeating a little with a few things over the weekend, I finished off some cheese I had open which I put on top of some chicken meatballs I had made along with some sugar-free BBQ sauce but I think I must have eaten too much of it as it was very tasty. So not sure if it is the combination of eating a little too much fat and that I started training my legs again from my injury, I have bad hamstring DOMS, but I frustratingly have woken up today at 106.0kg that's 900g up from last week.

My average weight across the week was lower but still just an annoying start to the week, but I will just focus today on some leaner protein, keep cutting down on the vices I still use like my reduced sugar BBQ sauce. I might also try going to gym a little later and tightening up my eating window so I can spend more hours fasted, add in some tea after dinner to keep food cravings down, time to add in some habits to cut the weight.
Mornings are easy for me to not eat, likely due to the two espressos I have in the mornings, so I will also maybe try go to bed earlier, wake up earlier, go gym a touch later, try to force myself to not eat 3-4hrs before I go to bed unless for a piece of fruit.

Going to gym and training is the easy part, I don't find it hard to go 6-7 days per week, it's more sticking to the food plan.

The biggest win however for the past 2 weeks is I have not gone and had a big "cheat meal/day" filled with sugar, carbs and junk food, yes I have overeaten a little but it has been with like chicken thighs and cheese, I actually have dropped the feeling and need to eat icecream, chips, pizza and so on which is a really powerful place to be in as for the past 2-3 years I have not gone more than a week without having that sort of junk and then craving it every day until I got my next fix.
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Wed May 31, 2023 10:28 pm

Finally under 105kg again so 104.9kg this morning, feeling quite good with training and diet, only minor frustration is that I do want the weight to move a little faster, but right now this rate of weight loss seems the most sustainable for where I am at in term of managing hunger, motivation, emotions and/or pain/suck tolerance.
Training as been going well hitting the gym about 5-6x per week and then on my off days doing over 10,000 steps of walking.

Had a few dates set up this week from online, 3 flaked and 1 I meet up with but I didn't like, had a few flakes of late but I think it's just part of online dating really.
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Wed May 31, 2023 11:29 pm

Lusty69 wrote:
Wed May 31, 2023 10:28 pm
right now this rate of weight loss seems the most sustainable for where I am at in term of managing hunger, motivation, emotions and/or pain/suck tolerance.
I got really bogged down at this point, I couldn't really drop calories further or lift more. I didn't have the capacity to do more cardio either. Then it just kinda dawned on me...there's really no upper limit to walking. I started walking more and more and more every single day. I did 10mi a day for a couple months and started melting again. It does take a lot of time, but if you combine it with something like meaningful audiobooks or learning a new language you can get a lot out of that time.
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Thu Jun 01, 2023 1:02 am

Zug wrote:
Wed May 31, 2023 11:29 pm
Lusty69 wrote:
Wed May 31, 2023 10:28 pm
right now this rate of weight loss seems the most sustainable for where I am at in term of managing hunger, motivation, emotions and/or pain/suck tolerance.
I got really bogged down at this point, I couldn't really drop calories further or lift more. I didn't have the capacity to do more cardio either. Then it just kinda dawned on me...there's really no upper limit to walking. I started walking more and more and more every single day. I did 10mi a day for a couple months and started melting again. It does take a lot of time, but if you combine it with something like meaningful audiobooks or learning a new language you can get a lot out of that time.
Thanks man, yeah the food is the biggest issue for me I find, trying to balance increasing my volume and amount that I walk with managing hunger. Maybe I should do some slower walking to not feel as exhausted, I do listen to podcasts whilst walking, I actually have listened to at least half of Andy's podcasts between walking and gym sessions, like 1-2hrs listened per day with some days listening for 3-4 hours
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Sat Jun 03, 2023 1:57 am

Had a little cheat meal the other day, was emotionally exhausted and needed a little re-set so I allowed myself to suck and had some icecream and chips then took the night off, woke up feeling way better the next day, only annoying thing is my weight is back in the low 105kg range.

But feeling pretty good and getting back on track, will go gym today as well as I didn't go for 2 or 3 days.

Hit #71 last night with a second date straight to mine which was good fun and enjoyable, just got to set up a few new dates now, I think this one I will also try and see regularly she was fun.
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Sun Jun 04, 2023 1:01 am

Another day off the diet yesterday, just been feeling a bit of this heaviness and lack of motivation which I seem to be struggling to shift which led me down the road of some comfort food last night and also not having gone to gym the past few days. I think a lot of the cycle is from porn as well, as in watch porn then feel tired, then don't feel like going to gym, then feeling restless and spiralling down.

I think also the fact I had a few dates flake as much as I say whatever I don't care, I think I am hiding and judging the actual feelings and it is showing up in the move towards porn, I think I just need to accept that yeah being flaked on fucking sucks, not having all the dates and quality of women I want fucking sucks, feeling like shit fucking sucks, being fat fucking sucks, not having the body I want working the way I want as in injuries, my skin condition and the likes fucking sucks, life sometimes fucking sucks and I think I have denied myself from feeling this as I am like nope got to stay positive and be motivated, I know what I need to fucking do, I got the best plans, all the knowledge. It is just almost like I am chasing my tail sometimes, doing well for a week or two, or spurts of motivation and doing shit that works well then when things are not going perfect I allow a negative snowball effect.

I guess where I need to focus is to stop seeing things so black and white, stop judging myself and my days so much, what is holding me back from just making a better choice even if its not ideal or sucks, can I go to the gym and just do a shit work out after eating shit rather than laying around at home maybe, or what can I choose in these instances that is easy, what can I give to myself, do I bribe myself, well let's not fucking bribe ourself with porn though as I can now see where that ended up this week.

Anyway I don't care if anyone wanted to read this rant or not, it's my truth but it will not hold me back, I will keep fucking fighting to do one better, I will pick myself up and keep going, fuck I just want to drop this weight quickly with out all these shitty things of hunger, cravings and bs, maybe I was putting way too much pressure to go faster, to fast for 48hrs back to back because I watched something on youtube about it, yeah that will work, and I will drop weight quick, but I have not sorted out the mental game of learned hunger.

I also think there is an element of cycle of ok I am making a stand to be different, I am changing, I then achieve success yes I have a good week/few days, with ease I will eat well, go gym, smash out 20,000 steps, then on that wave or high I will also start doing other things, like being more productive at work, posting content to my business pages, then I will set that as the new benchmark and standard, keep adding to it, then when I slip one day it all falls apart and I feel like I almost go back to square one. So I guess I need to work on finding a way to just be consistent on small things and see the rest maybe as a bonus not a new standard. It is frustrating because I see it as fuck I can do it, look I did this and this and it was fucking great, I felt great, then all the shame, guilt and judgement where I am hard on myself comes in when I don't keep it up and keep doing it.

Trying to balance motivation where things feels easy and carrying that through as an easy habit for longer-term consistency is where I need to work on, when I am super motivated it is easy, when I am not it feels like everything is so fucking hard.

I guess there is a lot of self hate around the word discipline as I feel like I just need to be more disciplined and it will solve all my issues, anyway I might just need to lower the bar a little around daily habits and I think I need more focus on simple things which will be

Drinking more water
Not watching porn in the morning (especially when my willpower is high)
Organise work tasks better every morning/set a better routine
Listen to music I like more rather than feeling I need to consume content 24/7
Use my tools I know that work with managing hunger later in the day (tea's, sugar free jelly, fruit, more water)
Stop pressuring myself to rapidly lose the weight through extreme fasts we are just not there yet and that is ok
Reach out to more friends and ask for support
Go to gym and just get it done even if I don't have everything lined up perfectly or the timing means the gym isn't empty
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Mon Jun 12, 2023 12:47 am

Overdue update:

Weightloss journey has been the biggest hurdle as it is a mental journey for me, I have had a few bouts of just poor mental health since posting here as my capacity was a little low with a few added stressors in life between learning and updating my knowledge for my business, some changes in my business structure and added workload. Had a massive training day as well so much info to take in with changes from the Government.
So mentally was a little stressed, I guess my comfort for all this is to numb out with more food.
Having a few girls flake on me from online dating or shifting or moving dates I have noticed has an impact on

Few wins to focus on:
I did have with one of my dynamics towards binge eating/overeating was managing to half what I set out to go buy and eat, then I was productive after the fact on Sunday which is a pattern interrupt to my usual programming of going overeating and knocking myself out on the couch/bed watching some crappy show or video game on youtube.

My massive busy day I didn't let be an excuse (9hr professional education day) I went and got a workout done in that morning so I didn't have 2 days in a row without going to the gym.

Installed Habica a habit-tracking app to assist with gamifying my habits and using a to-do list as well as having daily tasks to do with positive reinforcement to get a little dopamine hit from ticking stuff off, added to that along with watching the video on depression I added a daily task to make my bed, so I will do it and the awesome thing is this morning I almost forgot to make my bed on autopilot but I went to tick something else off on my morning routine then was like oh shit I need to make my bed so I made my bed and yeah just trusting that this is the right process.

I also lowered the bar for myself, trying to let go and release being a perfectionist and just focusing on getting back on the wagon and trying to do one better, it's tough as I want to lose weight faster and do so much more faster but I need to remind myself to slow down and take smaller steps but trying to do large leaps for short periods of time then spending the next week beating myself up when I am not perfect or carry that good week through.

Other update is I had a date with a sexy Brazilian, I realised and noticed that I need to just take a little more action on my other dates that didn't go well as this one almost was going nowhere with no physical touch and just light-hearted conversation no real sexualisation I did lead back to my place and overcome a few objections but eventually, I was like fuck it and just went in for the kiss, then we made out and had a lot of fun after. I guess that is #72

The fucked up part of getting laid is it removes pain from feeling the need to lose weight, it's like I know the quality of women I can sleep with and the number of matches and dates will be less, but at the same time it feels almost super hard and a lot of effort and shit to deal with at the moment along with having this pressing goal of losing weight, I am still getting laid in a sense which I do think is fucking with my motivation to see the weight loss as such a pressing issue.
I guess motivation, negative emotional pain vs positive enforcement and stuff is all short-lived, I am shifting to more baby steps, and sometimes I think to myself though am I just avoiding the hard work, am I just a piece of shit who isn't that good, who fucking sucks, am I just a massive fucking loser still like I was when I was a teenager, sexless binge eating porn addict with no friends.
Whilst I know that is not true, the patterns sometimes that pop up feel that way, I know I have moved well past that, I know I have way more friends now, much more money, much more success with women, but it still feels like when I am not being my perfect little self that the feelings of unworthiness, the feelings of being a loser come up, yes I am trying to allow myself to suck and be ok with that but at the same time I have different parts of me from my feelings of perfectionism, being hard on myself, parts of me that are self-parenting me like my parents did of trying to encourage me but in a way which made it seem like 1 the goal posts always moved and whenever I achieved something it was always met with a push to do more and do better using something along the lines of "that's great but you could do so much better or achieve more if you put your mind to it"
There was always a view or theme that I was inherently seen as better than what I ever did, and whenever I did hit a goal it wasn't ever met with oh fuck that would have been hard or a struggle it was met with like well you always had that ability you just decided to stop being a lazy shit and whilst that could be true, it just adds sooooooo soooo much pressure to be perfect and if I don't maintain to the things I achieved or see them as achievements but to moving the goal posts now and that achievement isn't to be celebrated but seen as the new baseline and if I fall behind or short of that new baseline I am a piece of shit who is useless because there is some magical pixie fairy dust world where I am much better than I am, but the fucking evidence is right there that oh fuck on average I do suck, I do fall short of shit, I maybe am not as good as what I have been told all my life, and maybe it actually isn't my fault because I am lazy or whatever.
What I love about listening to Andy is feeling into the energy of I am just a human being who fucking sucks and that is ok, so maybe the path forward for me isn't pushing harder, trying to achieve more and do more and be more than moving the goal posts. Maybe for the stuff I have achieved I just celebrate, the things I didn't achieve give myself grace and set the bar a touch lower and be kind to myself, be easier on myself.
Well this is why I set this habit tracker, with some habits and small things to do regularly that I can't just keep shifting in my head, I can make small promises to myself, they are set there and I can just celebrate every time I do them as a win, fuck yeah I made my bed this morning, fuck yeah I had a glass of water, fuck yeah I checked in with myself.
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Tue Jun 13, 2023 10:51 pm

Still not 100% with everything, sort of eaten ice cream 3 nights in a row and I feel like beating myself with a stick.
But I need to remember me being super hard on myself is the cycle, me judging myself is the cycle to then getting to the end of the day feeling like shit and wanting comfort in icecream.

I am just focusing on my habits and ticking off things/adding things to my todo list as I have been feeling very overwhelmed, end of the financial year in the Australian business world here has increased my workload a lot and I am finding the extra pressure and stress gets to me a little so I self medicate with icecream.

But also the flip side is having a bunch of stuff to do with no coherent list or path adds to the overwhelm so it's why I have started writing important tasks down more and putting due dates on them using Habitica so that way I also get rewarded for ticking them off.

I guess motivation sometimes is short-lived once stress and life pressures take over, but motivation is also great to get back on track, however right now I am just trying to build small daily habits for the longer term and working with not judging and beating myself up everytime I watch porn or have icecream.

I guess I also need to try find a balance of doing something to relax after work but not being stuck in this itch that I can't scratch until I go have some sweet food, even though I have eaten plenty for lunch and dinner. I know having a sweet tea was helping I should do that again as a habit at night so on days it's harder it's automatic to go relax with a tea.

Maybe I also need a wind down routine to separate the work day from time to switch off
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Thu Jun 15, 2023 6:58 am

Sort of figured out what was causing some of the distress for me, feeling much better. Ultimately it is around me talking my truth and speaking up. When I don't and just leave things to foster but I sort of feel something is off then it persists as emotional eating then can lead to the cycles of self-hate, guilt and stuff.
Yesterday managed to speak my truth in a situation I felt I didn't have the space to do so and feel way way better today, still not 100% but much better.

I think also doing the regular habits of like making my bed and stuff might also be helping out.
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Fri Jun 16, 2023 5:30 am

Back to 105.0kg after a few bad days, back on track with diet and training, been making my bed and stuff.

Noticed I had a date with a really fit really good looking woman and I had so much self-doubt around it all, but I was like fuck it and went for it anyway, so we ended up back at mine, the sexy was epic with her petite little body I just played with her for ages and really really enjoyed her and her body. I guess that's #73

Pretty cool this whole dating thing how it can push me to reflect and grow, been sitting with the feelings of insecurity and being like why the fuck does she like me/is with me/is still talking to me. I think it's the fear of meeting my equal or someone who might have more shit together, she has her own place, a really good job, likely makes just as much if not more than me, is fit works out and very good looking. I guess taking a chance, being completely honest and being good at sex whilst having a nice clean apartment, dressing well and grooming well all helps.

Whilst I did build momentum in that got some other shit in my business adding stress, sometimes feels like sweet massive shift, massive wins, then life throws another curve ball at me, sort of watched much more porn than I should and been unproductive today from it but it is what it is, I guess it's time like this to reflect and see what I can do to sooth and what I can give to myself to not keep turning to my comforts of food and porn, or maybe I just allow myself to be shit, accept I feel like shit, watch that porn then do something good like I went to gym after, maybe I go eat a bunch of food and then focus on smashing some work goals. I don't know exactly but the easy way right now would be to just relax the rest of tonight and have some comfort food, the good thing is I am not feeling into the whole massive need to smash a huge amount of food, I might see if a can make a better decision of like a low carb/calorie icecream, see how that sits and try some other stuff to release these shitty emotions
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Sun Jun 18, 2023 2:34 am

Still a little all over the place when it comes to my weight, diet and porn. Carb load from yesterday I'm 108kg today 2.5kg water weight gain in 1 day, I felt very much like beating myself up and judging myself this morning, but I decided to just journal a bunch on here.

Kind of realised for me right now, getting laid is the easy part of life, like there is always improvements to be made but it's actually not that hard even though I am 5'4 and obease which actually fucking sucks, and the reason is that I have hacked the system, yes it has taken work, yes I have been doing this self improvement stuff for 10 years and I do need to work on being kinder on myself, I do have a lot more sexual experience than most people, but I feel like I really don't deserve to be finding it so easy right now. I am currently really over weight, porn addict, full of being hard on myself, negative self talk (working on it though) yet still some how managing to get a bunch of dates and get laid and it's not like it has been with really ugly girls by any means yes I am not with like really stunning women but still decently looking ones, like compared to me I would say better looking than myself. I guess having a good looking face helps carry me.
I guess a big part of me feeling a little inspired to write the above was just having an off day yesterday when it comes to diet, just need to learn to work through stuff better with time as it pops up. Was good an old friend I had not seen in ages invited me over whilst I was feeling like staying at home and just binge eating was good to get out of the house. His also single a little older than me, much more in shape and taller than myself, and a bunch of other positive qualities and what triggered me a little is just feeling of being a fraud and what I mean by that is if I look at my online dating profile I am getting regular matches on a free account, he has the premium on multiple online dating sites and has close to no matches, I did help him out a little with re-doing his bio and a few other things but still fuck I never knew it was that brutal out there, and I am here thinking my profiles are not that great, I even don't have tinder installed as I am afraid of fucking the algorythem and getting a shit score and not having many matches until I lose weight and get better photos, but with Bumble I still am getting at least 1-3 matches per day.
I have also been super slack with anything outside of online game hence why I think I am putting in very little effort and getting results I don't even deserve. Even last time I did daygame I approached only 3 girls and got a really attractive girls number and went on a date with her a week later and only didn't invite her back to mine because I had a different girl coming over for a sex date.

Getting laid is fucking great, meeting women is amazing, women are amazing I love them.

I just need to really keep chipping away at my inner deamons, I have been through a lot of shit, I still face tough shit, the cycle I feel I need to break is the peaks and vally of emotions, have some fucking amazing shit happen and I feel high as fuck, then get cut down with some shit news, or something crappy happening.
I guess I just need to be there for myself more and find strategies to deal with and sooth myself when the shit happens which isn't self soothing through junk food and porn, I guess face it rather than disasocite and run away.

I must say though I am happy I started using Habitica, I find it helps me stick to new habits much better as they pop off and I tick them off for my daily stuff I set up.
Right now on it I am just building a massive list of positive habits in my habit list, I don't need to do them, but I get rewarded in the app when I do them and I am purely using it as a ok what can I do right now rather than turn to porn or binge eating and I can get the reward of seeing my character level up, get streaks in certain activities.
Been on a really good streak of making my bed every day
Been hitting my morning routine 100%
Been checking in with my parts (IFS therapy concept) I may start using the language of my parts more as I post on here, it's powerful stuff
Pretty decent on the gym streak I do enjoy working out and getting stronger, feeling strong, fuck being strong is always so good, even if I am fat as fuck I am glad I can still crush a workout and move some decent weights, makes sex fun too when you can pick up a girl with extreme ease throw her around, I can overhead press over 60kg so that means pretty much all the girls I sleep with I have the ability to throw over my head.
Getting into meditating each day, aiming for 10mins but if it is just like 2-3mins of breathing that is a win and I can tick it off

Trying to work on allowing myself to suck, but balance that with getting things done and not holding onto it as an excuse when things get tough but also not beating myself up for not performing when things get tough, I guess habitica is my way of gamifying doing one better
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Sun Jun 18, 2023 6:50 am

MattsCrib wrote:
Sun Jun 18, 2023 6:47 am
What do you truly think is the reason you're getting matches? Is it purely facial asthetics?

3 mathes A DAY is insane.
Good face, decent bio, most of my photos are headshots, different locations in different cities and I am very active on the app, always swiping daily and replying to all messages I get

A good day is 3 matches, on average it's 1-3 although I have had days where I got more and have had a day or two with none
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