R2s Serious Action Log: Pulling Gurls from the Club

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Crisis_Overcomer
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Sun May 23, 2021 8:39 am

Man got mixed feelings about the entire thing.

On one hand I'm happy you bedded a complete stunner.

On the other hand, it seems that getting a Hot escort would have costed less, financially, emotionally, mentally and physically. You deserve a better girl.
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Radical
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Sun May 23, 2021 10:28 am

Sounds like the worst sorta bullshit dude. Sorry you got treated like this
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Holden
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Sun May 23, 2021 12:54 pm

I don't know how rich you are, but $10k on a girl sounds crazy to me. Especially if you're dealing with bullshit like language barriers -- can't even have a normal conversation?

It's not that I'm opposed to spending money on girls on principle, but for $10k you could pay two escorts to be your sex slaves for a week.

With the wallet-scam it also sounds like they were just using you.

I'm also not sure why you started spending money on her. Did she ask? Or did you do it because you think you had no other choice to bed a girl like this?
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Sun May 23, 2021 1:49 pm

Yo! Props my man. Sounds like a roller coaster adventure of excitement. Props for writing it all out here.

Mad respect for diving in and experimenting way out of your comfort zone! You do deserve more - you deserve girls who are excited about you, with your money being a nice bonus.

Part of that will be qualifying her, and drawing boundaries early in your interactions... Having standards for a girl will force her to respect you, which will prevent a lot of the weirdness she did here. The only way you learn how important it is though, is to make mistakes so mad props for going for it!
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
This girl (I'll call her B) worked as a model in Colombia
My man discovered how awesome Colombians are!

RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
I spent a total of something like $10k in the three weeks I was dating her.
Daaang. You can spend as much money as you want on girls, but if you spend a ton super quick then you're going to attract girls who want you for your money.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
Uploaded an epic photo taken by @joe_ronimo from my Austin trip the next morning and she's down (I later learn that's the photo she sent to friends and family to introduce me).
Yeee boi. Happy to help ;)
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
Haggled it down to 50%
My man.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
So when B finally shows up with her friend chaperoning her
I think this is a Colombian thing. I've had that happen a few times here in the states and in Colombia. It's weird for sure...
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
We chat a bit on whatsapp during the week
Everyone but us in America love WhatsApp... it's weird.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
I was wondering the whole time if she was a pure gold digger and would peace out on me at any moment.
Yeah man... you attracted her with your money. Of course you'd be nervous that's all she wanted. Good lesson to learn.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
"Dami leche! Leche! Leche!" (which is cum/milk in spanish) and I cum all over her perfect tits, which she's super into.
Hehe. I love the things Spanish speaking girls say during sex. I once heard "que rico! que rico!" which means "how rich! how rich!" ("rich" like "decadent" not like "stacked")
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
I have to cancel our first uber since B is wishy washy about staying after she can't find S at first and then I help her find him - big mistake as it turns out.
Good lesson to learn... You're on a date with this girl, letting her involve another guy - even a friend - distracts from the chemistry you're trying to build, and makes logistics so much more complicated. I only do one-on-one dates. Period. Full stop.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
I just try to enjoy the music but after a few hours (I realize now I got super dehydrated) my ears start hurting, my feet start hurting, my head starts hurting, my shoulders start hurting, my stomach starts hurting - not feeling good. But they all want to stick around and hit up an after party after.
Bring a water bottle - or even better, ask the bartender for water! It's free. Water in any civilized country is everywhere.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
She comes back with S's newly ex-gf saying they want to go get food (do these people never sleep???) so I say she can take her bags with her.
Yee boi. Setting boundaries!
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
She's messaged me a few times saying it's cultural differences and we can work things out.
"Cultural differences" yes and no. I've spent 2 months in Colombia, went on at least 10 dates while I was there (probably more) and dated a few Colombians in the states. She's right that this happens with some girls, but most Colombian girls I dated didn't do this. This is 75% her and 25% cultural.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
Overall, I would say it was worth it: I didn't break the bank and accomplished a few of my life goals shortly after I had a different kind of mental breakdown getting turned down by a girl below my league.
Lots of lessons learned and some fun times and good memories. 1000000% a win here man, respect!
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
This again goes to show that there's always someone looking to buy higher (fat girl turned me down) and always some willing to sell low (Colombian barbie girl).
You've got interesting things going for you man! Your PhD, your ambitions, your travels etc... Why is her getting with you a low sell? Give yourself some credit.
RogerRoger wrote:
Sun May 23, 2021 5:23 am
In other news, I have a pretty hot Hinge prospect that should help me forget my Colombian beauty.
This whole experience also has lit a fire in my pants to make my 10 million way sooner than later and start living that Mr Yotta lifestyle.
Yeah man! Props on moving on.
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Sun May 23, 2021 5:45 pm

My dude!

What an epic fucking story! I tend to agree. It was worth it for the experience. I think about how I lost 42k in a mere fortnight and speculate how much better losing it to a situation/experience like this might have been. Well 10k isn't 42k but still.

Man I can tell you one thing. The only true '9's A-classes I have banged were hookers and each set me back £150/hour each. Money well spent. But of course we want to bang A-class girls by virtue of who we are, not cash transactions. Getting such girls is outrageously difficult, so we expect to need to 'go all in' (in whatever context) in order to make a perceived 'once in a lifetime' experience come true.

Despite the rollercoaster of an adventure that this was, you lived bro. You really did. When you are on your death-bed (hopefully in your billion dollar palace surrounded by chambermaids), you will smile about this.

This heart of darkness is a classic albeit extreme case of 'oneitis.' Only girls of her level can make us feel this deadly cocktail of emotions. And this is mostly because of a lack of abundance mindset. The only known cure is being able to bang more girls on her level with an acceptable level of effort. Once you reach that stage, you won't settle for harpy personalities. Because you will have options.

The heart of darkness sucks ass. But it will make you very, very, VERY strong.
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Mon May 24, 2021 2:51 am

Awesome story man, completely unbelievable to what I would have read 3 years ago. You have a healthy amount of entitlement but could probably use a bit more. Glad you had that experience but as.many have said, she was acting badly towards you.

I doubt she was doing it on purpose, that just might be the type of person she is. You deserve her hotness but with a girl who is going to put you as her #1 priority. Although it does take time to build that bind, so I won't judge her harshly for having options.

People are saying $10k but a fair bit of that was on yourself right? The S guy made the whole thing crap, should have been just you and her at Disney land. Still, you got the lay.
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RogerRoger
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Goal: $$$$$
Age: 30
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 3:51 am

First of all, cheers for all the feedback mates! Definitely cheered me up a bit. Although I've been in a funk since Orlando, this past weekend in Miami hanging with a bro definitely helped.

But now the time is clearly to go all-in on ONE goal at a time. I only have ~31 days left to submit my thesis and I haven't written it yet. More importantly I have to submit two articles (which then become chapters in the thesis) and then I just need to write like 10 pages apparently and the thesis is done.

This is my following day routine:
7am - 8am: wake up, shower etc.
8am - 12pm: work
12pm - 1pm: lunch
1pm - 6pm: work
6pm - 7pm: gym
7pm - 8pm: dinner
8pm - 10pm: work
10pm - 11pm: free
11pm - 7am: sleep

Today I did a fairly good job being self-complaint: I ended up doing dinner 7pm - 9pm so only 10 hours work today. Also I just realized I only have 11 hours work/day scheduled whereas I was planning on 12 hours/day to get to 84 hours / week. So I'll have to drop gym to 3 days per week. That sucks. But I take ~3 minute breaks every 20 minutes so I'll just do a better job of exercising during those breaks. Which I was planning on anyway but didn't do today.

I also went to the office for 8am - 12pm and 1pm - 6pm, which sucks since I have to wear a mask most of that time - that's another reason the few breaks an hour are ~mandatory just to get some fresh air. But I'm definitely more productive at the office so it's what I got to do.

The other bit of non-compliance is that it's now 11:30am so I'll skip GLL/KYIL tomorrow.
OR I'll only post in my log and I'm not allowed to look at other people's logs tomorrow (that's what takes up the most time - but I also have some reluctance posting in my log for some reason).

@play_time_is_over, actually I had more fun at disney at S than her - she had previously said (on our first date night) that she liked roller coasters - and then at disney said she was afraid of them / gets sick... And regarding $$$ I think the split was something like 6-7k her, 3-4k me. I definitely got a few nice items and memories out of the experience!

@Glasgow, indeed the heart of darkness was not fun. But I don't doubt I'll bang another girl as hot as her - and it's really lit a fire in my heart to make money in my 6 weeks free. I have two product ideas I believe are winners and know someone who was already developed all the skills for dropshipping - we'll be testing out something boring before my two products. I'll also go all-in on money-making in general rather than tie myself to one idea though.

@joe_ronimo, so I actually did draw out boundaries (100s dollars is okay, 1k is like once a month and 10k never) and pretty early on but I didn't stick with them. And I'm okay with it this time because I would've died of curiosity if I didn't get the lay for going cheap. Now of course I'm curious how much cheaper I could've netted her / retained her but that's a curiosity to satisfy on the next girl of her caliber. Lot of solid insights what you posted.

@Holden, actually, the fact that she spoke principally Spanish I considered a major plus since I definitely picked it up way quicker than the YEARS I've been putting into like 5m/day of Duolingo French. And I don't do escorts. I overall enjoyed spending the money. I'd say I was principally curious if "rich guy game" could work - and evidently it can. I also just felt like a boss dropping that dough - and it massively motivated me to get to my money goal which I previously had little inclination for.

@Radical, appreciate it dude! There's a better girl in every possible way out there - and I'll find her soon enough!

@Crisis_Overcomer, agreed that shortly after the Orlando trip it definitely didn't felt like an overall negative emotionally. But that's more of an indication I have to work on some mental aspects still. Definitely getting a bit better at asking for what I want - and sticking to it rather than bailing immediately - but still work to go for sure.

@Sin Silver, yeah still a bit hard for me to assess what exactly I would've ideally done. Earlier on Saturday when we went to S's soccer match, my girl seemed like she was just being courteous and I thought it was cool she was showing me off to her friends. For the night out, on the one hand I wanted to develop my night life but on the flipside I should've done a better job of taking control of the situation rather than just experiencing the moment. Failing to plan is failing to plan, and a ship without a destination is lost at sea.
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MILFandCookies
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Wed Jun 09, 2021 2:43 pm

Hold the fuck up...

Why will a girl “of that caliber” choose whether she likes you based on how much you spend?

Why won’t she like you because you’re a boss ass PhD student who travels a ton and has huge goals?

Something’s broken with how you see yourself. You’ve decided “hot girls won’t like me for me. I’m not enough so I have to pay for them with money.”

Fix that shit. You’re enough man. The money should be a cherry on top, not the reason they stick around.
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RogerRoger
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 2:47 am

@joe_ronimo, in my experience, being an academic is seen as a negative by most girls. I still recall girls saying "ew" etc. when I said I was a physics, math double major in undergrad. Not that I care.

Why is traveling a ton and having huge goals enough? You agree I would think that that's clearly not enough if I was 300 lbs of obesity with three chins. Whereas I'm still on the flipside being too skinny/weak (and apparently nevertheless somewhat fat).

We don't tell guys on here - nah don't worry about losing weight, just find a girl who likes your obese ass. So what's wrong with the money equivalent? I think it's pretty interesting seeing what the high life is like.

In any case, it's true I have self-confidence/esteem/mental issues. Banging that colombian girl definitely helped, and banging other hot girls will help too. I'll also work on living anachronistically - living like all my goals are already achieved. But anyway, I just try to get a little bit better every day.

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Today I worked 10 hours. Had physical therapy for an hour and my last personal training session for a while that took up 3 hours. Great compliance - only downside is I overworked 0.5 hours so no time to get groceries. Will do so tomorrow. Should be good for 12ish hours work tomorrow.
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 3:57 am

Not saying you can't enjoy spending money on girls. It just can't be the reason she stays.

You're wicked smart which is why you rationalized your mindset very very well.

Sure, maybe girls are attracted to you because you're well-off, just like I'm sure girls look at me for my muscles, physique and comedian-busting humor ;)

There's a key difference between qualities like physique/humor and money though.

If I have muscles and humor, I can have fun with a girl and feel like we connect because of ME. She wanted to fuck me because of ME... Sure maybe because of qualities I BUILT that I wasn't BORN WITH, but it's still something I did.

If the only value I think I have is money, there's no connection. Any guy with money would get her too. She fucked me because of my cash, not because of my humor or body. I may as well be hiring a prostitute... and heck. I probably should have. I could get much more for $10,000 with much less drama.

No judgement at all if you want to hire a prostitute, go right ahead!

I just don't think it's what you're truly looking for. Even for purely casual flings it's much more fun and validating if you feel like YOU attracted her, even if you had to practice joking around or work on your body for years.

Except for prostitutes, let the money be the cherry on top, not the main dish.

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P.S. "being an academic" will appeal to some girls, and not to others... but your intellect? Your discipline? Your passion about your research? THAT will be attractive to almost any girl! You need to give yourself more credit!!! IT takes so much discipline and passion to pursue a PHD! That's impressive as fuck and attractive.

Why did you phrase it in the worst possible way? Do you not deserve to love yourself? To focus on your strengths? To feel like you're attractive?
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Thu Jun 10, 2021 6:22 am

joe_ronimo wrote:
Thu Jun 10, 2021 3:57 am
@joe_ronimo, in my experience, being an academic is seen as a negative by most girls. I still recall girls saying "ew" etc. when I said I was a physics, math double major in undergrad. Not that I care
To be fair, I've never had a girl react badly when revealing that I study IT science at university of technology. And I like to make fun a lot of the stereotypical IT nerds. The opposite in fact.
I suppose if the girl reacts 'ew' to your academic background, then she likely does not like you in the first place.
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Fri Jun 11, 2021 2:48 am

12 hours work today.

I got a lot done. I thought I was on the track of something pretty interesting but after a meeting with my supervisor, I have to re-write most of that section. So that kinda hurt.

Behind schedule with two targets, but I expect I'll recover those plus my target for tomorrow by Monday if I keep the work up.
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Sat Jun 12, 2021 1:27 am

9.75 hours work done today.

Messed up my alarm! Set it for PM instead of AM...
But might've been a good thing! Felt super well rested and got a ton done today.
Didn't waste more than about an hour ago on something that stumped me - MUCH better than usual.

Going to flunk off a lil tonight and play hockey - but I should get 10+ hours work done tomorrow. Just got to keep this up and I'll be done with these two projects and my thesis soon enough. On my way up!
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Sun Jun 13, 2021 2:29 am

8 hours work done today.

Well, I was up until 1am from the adrenaline playing hockey. We won and I made some great plays including defensively but bummed none of my shots hit net. Anyway, that's all to say I sleeped in - and pretty hardcore - all the way to 10am.

Still, I got a ton done where I'm technically ahead of schedule. But I'm not letting up yet! Going to bed in ~30 minutes and this time I WILL get back to 7am wake up and get 12 hours work done tomorrow. Let's go!
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Mon Jun 14, 2021 2:19 am

12 hours work done today.

Read 6 papers in the last 9 hours. Average is 1 per 3 hours so definitely sped up! I definitely could keep working but going to keep up my routine - go to bed soon, wake up early and crush it again tomorrow!
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