I've gotten pretty solid responses with the chess one you told me to use.pancakemouse wrote: ↑Thu Sep 07, 2023 2:26 amLike one of the prompts, any one of them, and move on. Send a custom message only when there is something EXTREMELY specific you have in common (maybe 1/200).
As many likes as possible.
Three prompts: @Zug has good advice on this <cue Zug!>
"Don't hate me if I spank you at chess"
girls often message me first, sometimes like:
"i've never played chess, you'd probably win"
OR, sometimes they're even like
"You're going to do WHAT to me in chess?"
OR, more rarely:
"I don't know how to play chess so you can just spank me"
I love it. The innuendo is subtle enough to give plausible deniability but it's overt enough that it's not frequently misinterpreted.
I think using a buzzword like "spank" along with a non-sexual topic/hobby tends to work well. But I guess OP's mileage may vary depending on profile/archetype etc.