september wrote: ↑Sun Oct 15, 2023 12:57 pm
Why are you on the forums if you're going to ask the most basic, low-investment questions ever like "how do I talk to women"?
hint: look at literally any of the logs or any of the website articles
rohanp wrote: ↑Sun Oct 15, 2023 12:38 pm
almost 50 girls have ghosted me in the last three weeks
don't post the screenshots of your texting or anything, there's no need to improve the controllable factors of your dating pipeline at all, this website is solely for complaining and acting like everything is out of our control
and definitely don't consider that this is literally everyone else's experience. unless you're under the delusion that we convert 100% of matches into dates or something. you understand that by definition, the matches that don't turn into dates ghost us right (or waste our time texting but never meeting).
I've probably been ghosted by 50000 women at this point, including 100s that I had to physically approach in person, guess I'll fucking detonate the vest, speaking of which
rohanp wrote: ↑Sun Oct 15, 2023 12:38 pm
i need to cut myself 10 more times to punish myself for failing again.
writing like this is absurdly disrespectful of the forums and my official response, since this is a self-harm threat, is: go down the wrists and tell the hospital I sent you.
if you want to ask for help, actually ask for help. plenty of guys here have gone through depression or self harm or whatever and have a lot to offer people who want to change.
like what are you expecting? mommy to come in and be like no booboo dont cut yourself
heres the attention you want
it's a self improvement forum. the point is to change.
and I'm seeing 0 intent of that when you post that you "need" to cut yourself without any reflection whatsoever on how absurd it is to write that here.
what do i say here? i do a better job of being able to escalate to a date but not further
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here’s an example of how bad i mess up and totally froze
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Also- have been in the gym for almost two weeks now plus therapy. My mental state was far worse two weeks ago. I go outside more, and am making more friends at my gym and in uni.
However, the feeling of inadequacy still pops up because my mind self consciously compares myself to people i know. I do need newer friends it does seem and i am on the verse of it.
I don’t and will never blame outside factors like race or whatever, also worth mentioning i know two folks my height and shorter and indian who kill it with women. Unfortunately i lost contact through im trying to re-establish connection via instagram. What i will blame is-
1. pictures which give me only 1-4 matches a day instead of 5-10. However, i’ve managed to create a semi respectable hinge profile which i’m proud of over the weeks. Gonna get some natural photos as well and hire a photographer using PWF guide.
2. My unsatisfactory style which is getting better and better as i find inspiration online and from a friend of mine who’s currently helping me through this dark time.
3. My text game
Also, i did not know that most matches do not convert to dates. But thank you for letting me now.
Yesterday and friday night were too bad times in my life. I got a massive anxiety attack. But, i will say after being a bit productive this morning and meditating, i am feeling much, much better. In fact, I would honestly like to apologize and request the above posts to be deleted. I will go get myself some sunlight and catch-up on some studies as well now. It was my fault.
I am here to improve and there is no doubt in my mind that only great things await me if i keep hitting the gym and keep meditating twice every day.
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