3some2024 log

[3some2024]

0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 6 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (5/6; 5 day streak; incidental no porn 6 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent more than for the week already...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (5/7)

My tracking of time is off somehow. Anyway easy no fap since I’m in a bunk bed. Budget is tough while traveling. Hopefully I stay within my budget for the month.

Photoshoot today was pretty bad. Still got fun photos for IG and was only $80 so fair enough that it was meh since was bottom of the barrel price. Cute black girl was there too but turned out not single. Would be fun to hit on girls mid photoshoot in the future. Also thinking I might as well make money doing photoshoots of other people at this point. Then I travel, get photos of me, and get paid to do it. Also meet girls. Ideal.

Date flaked today twice. 3rd and last chance tomorrow. We’ll see.

Blackhawks game was fun. Hit on an incredibly attractive blonde chick at the entrance. Astoundingly was single. Wish I was smoother. My wing hit a n a couple girls and I joined him for one. Girl was 42 and at first I was thinking no way. But she was cool and we were vibing. Decently attractive. Married tho.

Told two girls at a cocktail bar ily. They were shocked/weirded out. So I’ll have to work on the delivery or just scrap that idea.

[3some2024]

0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 7 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (6/7; 6 day streak; incidental no porn 7 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent a lot this past weekend, still need to assess...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (5/7 so far probably 6/8)

Date with Venezuelan girl this morning. Idk she's really hot enough to be that boring/annoying to text. Main thing is she doesn't go to the gym / do anything athletic anymore apparently. She's not fat but thought she had some muscle in her photos / was fit and was disappointed in person. Idk if I'll see her again.

Otherwise just drove home, bath, eating dinner now. Muscle in my leg is bothering me I think from the drive. Or maybe from all the Chicago clutching.

Was an interesting weekend. Idk for sure I want to live in a city. Wondering if the play is to live close to a metro line and in the near suburbs rather than actually live downtown.

Anyway need to do more reflection on what goals to set for this week. After I reach the 7 day streak on no fap (which I'll have to double check if that's after today or if I have to tomorrow too) I'll aim for 1-2x per week fap which I think is reasonable. One goal will definitely be related to reflecting more directly on how to achieve a 3some. Both steps to take NOW plus later. Another goal might be going swimming every day instead of the baths I've been taking.

[3some2024]

Busted no fap streak yday Bc of binging IG reels. Anyway, 6/7 not too bad. Goal is to fap only on Monday skipping today.

I’ll similarly continue with my mantra, and budget but will only continue to log about the budget.

I decided my main goal for the week is to construct a new Tinder that’s 100% focused on 3somes. Will work on other apps too.

[3some2024]

Could've sworn I posted yday but I guess it didn't go through. Made a new Tinder bio and thought I posted it here but maybe the picture was too big.

Anyway, good day today. Finally got my teeth cleaned. 2 hour home workout. Made notes for how to improve it a bit. Def need to wear shoes bc of my ankle/feet next time, bit annoying but it is what it is. Hip add/abds are going to be a game changer. And doing low range of motion calf raises / heel raises appears to be best for me.

Spent $33 today (dental appointment) and zero yesterday. One of the best things I can possibly do is prioritize working ergonomically at the office (and at home tbh) the next few days.

[ThePermanentFix]

That is some cheap teeth cleaning man. It is like $120-$170 here haha. Would be curious to see the bio, I never know what to fkn write in em.

[MILFandCookies]

Good progress man I like seeing you try new things and improve your situation. Can't wait to hear that you got your threesome

[NightRoller]

Re:nofap, if you want to make it one of or the priority in your life, you might check out some of Mark Queppet's video series or coaching options. He knows his stuff for quitting porn and fapping.

[3some2024]

Pretty good day today, got most of my grading done. Spent zero dollars today. Four hours of meetings = sitting almost in a row though which sucked. Hip started bothering me. Thankfully I eventually just stood in the back instead of sitting b/c other ppl were. I need to be less conscious and just do what I need to do to remove pain when it arises.

Home workout today was 1.5 hours, bit better than yesterday, wore shoes for it. Ankle still bit annoyed right now. Tomorrow I'll be pretty busy and going out at night. But ideally I'll do a short workout in the AM and even better if I do a round 2 before going out. Ideally will ice the ankle 1+ times too.

Set my Tinder location to Vegas for now. Also thought a bit more about where I want to live this summer when I'm 12 weeks no-job 100% 3some focused. I was originally thinking Chicago. I guess any major city should be fine but I feel like Chicago is a bit more conservative and most ideal would be somewhere girls are really sexually liberated. So maybe Paris? Or London? Berlin? Or Melbourne? I'll have to do more research on that. Also figure out which has best cost of living and figure out ideal neighborhoods for an apartment. Might also go off of where is closest to the craziest festivals / conventions etc.

it's bedtime now but tomorrow I want to look at where + when there are anime conventions in summer 2024, especially if there are any hentai/harem ones.

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@ThePermanentFix, I have dental insurance through my work otherwise it'd be $250+
It could've been free but I paid for the fluoride (would've been +$50 w/o insurance), which I probably should've skipped tbh.

@MILFandCookies, cheers, appreciate the positivity mate.

@NightRoller, appreciate the help. I'm good though. I hit 6/7 days no fap and I went 7 days no porn twice in the past three-four weeks now. I don't actually want to zero fap. I'm more of shooting for 1-3x per week.

[bonzo34]

dumb question but are you using the 3some guide?
hope you get it

[3some2024]

Didn't post yesterday as I worked, ate, went out, then pretty much straight to bed. Wish I had more time for a full workout bc my hip was killing me last night. I still did a few exercises here and there so better than nothing.

Spent $30 so still within my budget. Cancelled UberOne. Realized I'm getting charged for AWS monthly and need to figure out which account I used to cancel that.

Revised my Tinder bio a bit. Will post the latest one here in a bit.
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Yeah I just started leafing through Andy's 3some guide, cheers @bonzo34. Hope you get the 50 lays.

[3some2024]

Here’s my latest Tinder bio

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Idk if it’s just my phone but that looks hard to read. So I’ll also just paste it here:

When I was young, girls hated when I pulled their hair. Funny how some things change.

Visiting Vegas monthly 2024. Looking for a pair of tall blondes to blow on my…dice. For luck

If you’re not a tall blonde, but into magic tricks, I can teach you how to pick up a pair and how to tie up those hogs until they’re squealing with excitement

Runner ups may be entered to join the mile high club, if you ask nicely
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This is V4. Goal is to make it more subtle while still being upfront about my intentions. Basically more clever/innuendo

[Red]

When I was young, girls hated when I pulled their hair. Funny how some things change.

Literally every 2nd dude has this in his bio.

If you want something “dominant”. Keep it short and to the point

Avoid stuff like

EDIT:
Reading it again. Sorry to be the one to reveal this to you but…

It is cringe af.

You are probably better off deleting everything honestly

Think about this:
How does the dominant cool guy behave?

Do you think he gives two fucks about some tinder bio. Does he even have time for constructing some elaborate one?

Probably not.

He keeps it short cos he does not have time and let’s his pics speak for itself.

Same applies for texting.

[3some2024]

Spent $29 yday, zero today.

Week-in-review: started home workouts and been feeling massively better since.

Goal for this week is to spend 15+ minutes on a written reflection related to how to accomplish my goals in 2024 and beyond.

[3some2024]

Okay so a quick overall review.

Week 1: no porn. Achieved. Have watched since then but not much and I'm probably on a week plus streak now.
Week 2: how-to-have-a-3some written reflections. Achieved. Stopped after that week though.
Week 3: I had four goals: mantra, no fap, budget, anime cap. Did well on all them, have kept all in mind since.
Week 4: new Tinder + other apps. Tinder bio achieved. Need to work on photos + other apps.

Week 5 (this one): 15 minute written reflection. Achieved today. It's perhaps disappointing that this is basically the same goal as week 2, but I did additionally start home workouts in week 4.

So this week I'll broaden the goals to:
#1: 15 minute written reflection on 2024+ goals
#2: exercise / heal ankle/hip/shoulder etc and ideally progress physical goals
#3: 15 minutes research per day (starting tomorrow)

I should also start tracking nutrition per day. I'm eating pretty healthy overall but I could be too low on calcium or iron etc.

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Today I had a massage for my hip. Might've slightly made it worse, particularly the ankle. Not majorly though. And definitely didn't do anything major to fix it. Main interesting notes in terms of her diagnosis: said I have an obliquity (left hip is too high and right one is too low or vice versa) and I have 3 ligaments in my left ankle that are fucked as well as a tendon sheath.

I think both are getting slowly better with time. Biggest deal being minimal computer time and the exercises I'm doing. I've been refining day-day but def need to look up additional exercises to mix things up. Trying acupuncture Thursday, so hopefully that helps or at least doesn't fuck things up worse.

[ThePermanentFix]

Sucks your hips and legs are giving you so much trouble bro. I'm not sure if it would help in your case, but Kit Laughlin has some really good stretches and movements in general. Though I'd avoid stretching the ankle if you have cooked ligaments in it and focus on strengthening it. My left ankle is pretty weak due to two big injuries on it when I was younger.