3some2024 log
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bonzo34
- Posts: 476 | Thanks: 88
- Joined: Mon Jan 10, 2022 2:33 am
- Name: Alex
- Goal: 50 "made love"
- Age: 28
- Location: San Antonio TX
Good luck
dating
resolve job/income
Be an Army Officer
50 lays. 1/50
The first time you quit, it's hard. The second time, it gets easier. The third time, you don't even have to think about it.
be transparent as possible. Stop setting plays. Stop playing chess with life.
you make progress when you face a fear head on
resolve job/income
Be an Army Officer
50 lays. 1/50
The first time you quit, it's hard. The second time, it gets easier. The third time, you don't even have to think about it.
be transparent as possible. Stop setting plays. Stop playing chess with life.
you make progress when you face a fear head on
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 3 day streak achieved.
Thoughts
1. Birdie's didn't have a hostess working. Just two dudes at the bar. Still said the line to the hotter guy at the bar. He basically ignored it haha. Just one 50/60+ chick and a family. Rather reaffirmed I'm better off waiting until I move. But maybe that's just procrastination. I should NOT go back there except MAYBE if it's a Thursday, Friday, or Saturday.
2. I should probably just try the Steakhouse with cuter workers next time.
3. I'll just say "What's cooking" to the first person I see - since I have the witty follow-up planned. Need to work on being LOUD, winking (I think I did this time but forget) and being charming/confident.
4. I NEED to get pain free.
To do so I should
I. Eat BEFORE the gym.
II. Lay in bed 8.5-9 hours consecutively and get into bed the same time each night (10pm tonight is the goal).
III. Log and improve fruit + veggie intake, make sure I'm getting enough Calories, protein, the right fats.
IV. Don't sit, nor stand in place too long.
5. Need to clean my place, build stuff, and get a bed. I can't really imagine a 3some in here right now.
6. Imagined a bit more dialog with the hostess for next time. Busy tomorrow though.
I'm pretty much ready to get married. Except for this.
Appreciate the well wishes @Olafsmash and @bonzo34.
Thoughts
1. Birdie's didn't have a hostess working. Just two dudes at the bar. Still said the line to the hotter guy at the bar. He basically ignored it haha. Just one 50/60+ chick and a family. Rather reaffirmed I'm better off waiting until I move. But maybe that's just procrastination. I should NOT go back there except MAYBE if it's a Thursday, Friday, or Saturday.
2. I should probably just try the Steakhouse with cuter workers next time.
3. I'll just say "What's cooking" to the first person I see - since I have the witty follow-up planned. Need to work on being LOUD, winking (I think I did this time but forget) and being charming/confident.
4. I NEED to get pain free.
To do so I should
I. Eat BEFORE the gym.
II. Lay in bed 8.5-9 hours consecutively and get into bed the same time each night (10pm tonight is the goal).
III. Log and improve fruit + veggie intake, make sure I'm getting enough Calories, protein, the right fats.
IV. Don't sit, nor stand in place too long.
5. Need to clean my place, build stuff, and get a bed. I can't really imagine a 3some in here right now.
6. Imagined a bit more dialog with the hostess for next time. Busy tomorrow though.
Funny, this sounds reminiscent of what someone told s3nga back in the gll days.pancakemouse wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2023 3:17 amMy suggestion would be to rename your account and log, ditch the xxx idea, and focus on an achievable goal.
Been in monk mode the past 2 years (business). Before that I banged two girls during a 10 day trip to Colombia, banged a 9.7 Colombian at disneyworld, got 6 lays in 6 months, etc.pancakemouse wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2023 3:17 amI'll echo the question again, hoping for an actual answer this time: how is your sex life, and what is your history with women?
I'm pretty much ready to get married. Except for this.
Appreciate the well wishes @Olafsmash and @bonzo34.
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 4 day streak achieved.
Honestly, I didn't think I'd keep it up today. I've been in pain all week and today was possibly the worst. Used to be just my left ankle and hips but now I feel it in my right ankle too and my right knee. I think that's from the limping / compensating. When I got home I took a bath which I haven't done in probably 20 years. Felt amazing though. Started with hot water and it felt good. Then I ran out of hot water but cold water also felt good. I had to get out after a while though. Maybe within 15 minutes of getting out the pain came back. I've been crawling around my apartment to try to stay off of it. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and I'm going to ask them to check for nutrient and vitamin deficiencies. Also thyroid, testosterone etc. hormone levels. Even if that stuff is normal it'd be good to get a baseline in. Ideal if they can check cortisol too. Idk if there are tests for that though. I have appointments with orthopedics next week, one for the ankle one for the hips. Idk how much that'll cost though so might cancel based on the primary care visit tomorrow. Also wondering if it's lyme disease. I actually do have a bump on my left ankle, although I thought it was a pimple. And behind my ear.
The main thing I reflected on was how I could figure out what's wrong, without ending up in massive debt. I feel like building a muon / cosmic-ray detector would be ideal replacement for x-rays (if they're not too high energy anyway). And ultrasound would be ideal for more detailed modeling.
It'd probably be tough for me to actually make that stuff in my current state and it would take a while. So I'll probably just deal with whatever debt I accrue. Maybe my health insurance will cover it, but I'm not super hopeful.
Honestly, I didn't think I'd keep it up today. I've been in pain all week and today was possibly the worst. Used to be just my left ankle and hips but now I feel it in my right ankle too and my right knee. I think that's from the limping / compensating. When I got home I took a bath which I haven't done in probably 20 years. Felt amazing though. Started with hot water and it felt good. Then I ran out of hot water but cold water also felt good. I had to get out after a while though. Maybe within 15 minutes of getting out the pain came back. I've been crawling around my apartment to try to stay off of it. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow and I'm going to ask them to check for nutrient and vitamin deficiencies. Also thyroid, testosterone etc. hormone levels. Even if that stuff is normal it'd be good to get a baseline in. Ideal if they can check cortisol too. Idk if there are tests for that though. I have appointments with orthopedics next week, one for the ankle one for the hips. Idk how much that'll cost though so might cancel based on the primary care visit tomorrow. Also wondering if it's lyme disease. I actually do have a bump on my left ankle, although I thought it was a pimple. And behind my ear.
The main thing I reflected on was how I could figure out what's wrong, without ending up in massive debt. I feel like building a muon / cosmic-ray detector would be ideal replacement for x-rays (if they're not too high energy anyway). And ultrasound would be ideal for more detailed modeling.
It'd probably be tough for me to actually make that stuff in my current state and it would take a while. So I'll probably just deal with whatever debt I accrue. Maybe my health insurance will cover it, but I'm not super hopeful.
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 5 day streak achieved.
Went to the doctor today. She basically said I wasn't dying so take pain meds, problem solved. Fuck I hate doctors. She didn't even mention icing just straight to painkillers. Told her I wanted blood work done to check vitamin/nutrient deficiencies, thyroid, testosterone and general male hormonal panel, and STI tests. What she ended up doing was just vitamin B12, TSH, Free Test, and I think the STIs... when I give blood they check iron for fuck's sake.
Anyway, I've at least found dehydration is not the issue I have right now. My current working hypothesis is that I have some sort of vitamin deficiency. Had an orange juice so I'm at 100+% vitamin C now. Also took an adult male vitamin, drank an ensure, took fish oil (that one was a mistake imo), had a banana, clove of garlic, blackberries, blueberries, and raspberries.
The vitamin C felt divine but that was also the first thing I had after fasting so it might also have been the sugar. The berries also felt great and huge jump in energy. I'm going to start using berries as a caffeine replacement I think. Going back to the grocery store tomorrow to add eggs, milk, onion, and pepper to the mix tomorrow. There was one chick at the grocery store who was maybe okay. I'm feeling a decent bit better now, maybe because I've been taking short (8 hour) work days. Going to hit the sauna then take another bath. Going to try listening to comedy and then go to bed early and I'm going to try to max out vitamins + nutrients tomorrow as across the board as possible. Also going to try cryo therapy and a massage.
I have two orthopedist appointments next week (one ankle, one hip), which I'll go to if diet doesn't fix things this weekend.
And admittedly this reflection was 99% health so perhaps procrastination. But my #1 overall goal is to feel happy and I guess I should clarify my goal is not to have a 3some at any costs (no more whales) but to enjoy a 3some. So getting pain free has to come first.
Went to the doctor today. She basically said I wasn't dying so take pain meds, problem solved. Fuck I hate doctors. She didn't even mention icing just straight to painkillers. Told her I wanted blood work done to check vitamin/nutrient deficiencies, thyroid, testosterone and general male hormonal panel, and STI tests. What she ended up doing was just vitamin B12, TSH, Free Test, and I think the STIs... when I give blood they check iron for fuck's sake.
Anyway, I've at least found dehydration is not the issue I have right now. My current working hypothesis is that I have some sort of vitamin deficiency. Had an orange juice so I'm at 100+% vitamin C now. Also took an adult male vitamin, drank an ensure, took fish oil (that one was a mistake imo), had a banana, clove of garlic, blackberries, blueberries, and raspberries.
The vitamin C felt divine but that was also the first thing I had after fasting so it might also have been the sugar. The berries also felt great and huge jump in energy. I'm going to start using berries as a caffeine replacement I think. Going back to the grocery store tomorrow to add eggs, milk, onion, and pepper to the mix tomorrow. There was one chick at the grocery store who was maybe okay. I'm feeling a decent bit better now, maybe because I've been taking short (8 hour) work days. Going to hit the sauna then take another bath. Going to try listening to comedy and then go to bed early and I'm going to try to max out vitamins + nutrients tomorrow as across the board as possible. Also going to try cryo therapy and a massage.
I have two orthopedist appointments next week (one ankle, one hip), which I'll go to if diet doesn't fix things this weekend.
And admittedly this reflection was 99% health so perhaps procrastination. But my #1 overall goal is to feel happy and I guess I should clarify my goal is not to have a 3some at any costs (no more whales) but to enjoy a 3some. So getting pain free has to come first.
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ThePermanentFix
- Posts: 182 | Thanks: 34
- Joined: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:31 am
- Goal: Financial Laidom
- Age: 32
Doctors there sound so cooked sometimes. I've heard so many horror stories, sucks yours wasn't as cooperative. Hopefully you find a solution to your ankle and hips bro
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 6 day streak achieved.
Went to a massage therapist / bodybuilder today. Also included cupping which I've never had before. Looks like an octopus attacked me lol. My left rotator cuff is straight purple. Paid for an hour but it ran 1h40m. Think it was really good. She worked on my hip a bit too and I thought it was questionable but it felt pretty good after. My ankle also was fine afterwards for a bit.
Ate a lot healthier today. Had a glass of orange juice, steak, 2 eggs, green beans, carrots, corn, 3 cloves garlic, a yellow pepper, yogurt, berries.
Tomorrow I'm going to have all that (except chicken or fish instead of steak) and add some onion to the mix.
Also, I matched with one of those "Top Pick" girls on Tinder and she's been messaging me so far. So I think I'll visit Chicago next weekend. I'll do a massage / spa day while I'm there too.
Going out tonight, just hope it doesn't mess my sleep up too much.
Cheers @ThePermanentFix - yeah I think I'll have to try a homeopathic doctor at some point. US doctors (at least general practitioners) just want you off their hands.
Went to a massage therapist / bodybuilder today. Also included cupping which I've never had before. Looks like an octopus attacked me lol. My left rotator cuff is straight purple. Paid for an hour but it ran 1h40m. Think it was really good. She worked on my hip a bit too and I thought it was questionable but it felt pretty good after. My ankle also was fine afterwards for a bit.
Ate a lot healthier today. Had a glass of orange juice, steak, 2 eggs, green beans, carrots, corn, 3 cloves garlic, a yellow pepper, yogurt, berries.
Tomorrow I'm going to have all that (except chicken or fish instead of steak) and add some onion to the mix.
Also, I matched with one of those "Top Pick" girls on Tinder and she's been messaging me so far. So I think I'll visit Chicago next weekend. I'll do a massage / spa day while I'm there too.
Going out tonight, just hope it doesn't mess my sleep up too much.
Cheers @ThePermanentFix - yeah I think I'll have to try a homeopathic doctor at some point. US doctors (at least general practitioners) just want you off their hands.
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ThePermanentFix
- Posts: 182 | Thanks: 34
- Joined: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:31 am
- Goal: Financial Laidom
- Age: 32
Yeah it is becoming a bit hit and miss here in Aus at times as well. Just trying to churn through to keep the income high. I am lucky I've had my doctor since I was a kid so they take their time and explore all options.
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| 102kg | 100kg | 98kg | 96kg | 94kg | 92kg |
Level 0 - Chump
No Zero Days. The momentum will come later
Procrastination - The action of ruining your own life for no apparent reason
| 102kg | 100kg | 98kg | 96kg | 94kg | 92kg |
Level 0 - Chump
No Zero Days. The momentum will come later
Procrastination - The action of ruining your own life for no apparent reason
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
Reply to TPF: Yeah my pediatrician was really good too. Really went downhill after I moved + he retired.
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How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 7 day streak achieved, weekly goal accomplished.
Admittedly much of this week was more of a reflection than truly how-to-have-a-3some.
I think the general reflections have been quite useful. But I also want to spend more time, working backwards so to say to really picture success.
New goal(s) for the week:
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day.
1. no fap (therefore also no porn)
i) I don't want to be ~dependent to fall asleep like I am now.
ii) my expectation is this will increase my testosterone and improve recovery: help with ankle/hip recovery.
iii) I'll also get more desperate/lower standards when I'm out whereas yesterday night I could've tried more twice.
2. Budget: $64/day on average. Chicago this weekend will be more expensive but at least M-Th I want to spend that much or less. Tomorrow I should buy a fruit peeler, floor mats, and beef. Don't need anything else.
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day
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How-to-have-a-3some reflection: 7 day streak achieved, weekly goal accomplished.
Admittedly much of this week was more of a reflection than truly how-to-have-a-3some.
I think the general reflections have been quite useful. But I also want to spend more time, working backwards so to say to really picture success.
New goal(s) for the week:
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day.
1. no fap (therefore also no porn)
i) I don't want to be ~dependent to fall asleep like I am now.
ii) my expectation is this will increase my testosterone and improve recovery: help with ankle/hip recovery.
iii) I'll also get more desperate/lower standards when I'm out whereas yesterday night I could've tried more twice.
2. Budget: $64/day on average. Chicago this weekend will be more expensive but at least M-Th I want to spend that much or less. Tomorrow I should buy a fruit peeler, floor mats, and beef. Don't need anything else.
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
Goals for this week:
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 1 day streak)
1. no fap, didn't achieve it yesterday. I CAN today though.
No porn, did achive, 1 day streak.
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $3 today (achieved, 1 day streak).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved yesterday, not today, 1/2).
Had an awesome day yesterday - but then I had wayyy too much energy when I went to bed. Couldn't sleep a wink. I did kegels earlier in the day to insta reels and stupidly I decided to continue that and grabbed my phone. Still couldn't sleep after the fap - so I fap'd again
Finally got to sleep sometime after 2:30am and had to get up at 9am - but I wake up daily at 8am from habit. Was a rather painful day so I nursed on anime. 2 episodes so not bad overall. Anyway, time for bed now.
I KNOW that I have the ability to not fap tonight. Onwards to that one day streak.
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 1 day streak)
1. no fap, didn't achieve it yesterday. I CAN today though.
No porn, did achive, 1 day streak.
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $3 today (achieved, 1 day streak).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved yesterday, not today, 1/2).
Had an awesome day yesterday - but then I had wayyy too much energy when I went to bed. Couldn't sleep a wink. I did kegels earlier in the day to insta reels and stupidly I decided to continue that and grabbed my phone. Still couldn't sleep after the fap - so I fap'd again
Finally got to sleep sometime after 2:30am and had to get up at 9am - but I wake up daily at 8am from habit. Was a rather painful day so I nursed on anime. 2 episodes so not bad overall. Anyway, time for bed now.
I KNOW that I have the ability to not fap tonight. Onwards to that one day streak.
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colgate
- Posts: 971 | Thanks: 1870
- Joined: Thu Aug 05, 2021 9:23 pm
- Name: bulldog
- Goal: BANG!! japanese chicks!
- Age: 27
- Location: japan
- Contact:
if you want to watch a bunch of anime, just do it in pure japanese, it will no longer become a "bad habit to break" and will definitely help you feel "happy most of the time" according to your main goal lol
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5'5" indian in 🇺🇸→🇯🇵
ACCOUNTABILITY THREAD, 🤑 TAKE SOME ACTION 🤑
📖 My Story
🥰 dating log
💪🏾 training log
see my interview!
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ThePermanentFix
- Posts: 182 | Thanks: 34
- Joined: Tue Nov 21, 2023 2:31 am
- Goal: Financial Laidom
- Age: 32
Worst feeling when the fap doesn't put you to sleep man. Sleep issues in general just cause a cascading effect of fuckery over everything.
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| 102kg | 100kg | 98kg | 96kg | 94kg | 92kg |
Level 0 - Chump
No Zero Days. The momentum will come later
Procrastination - The action of ruining your own life for no apparent reason
| 102kg | 100kg | 98kg | 96kg | 94kg | 92kg |
Level 0 - Chump
No Zero Days. The momentum will come later
Procrastination - The action of ruining your own life for no apparent reason
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
Goals for this week:
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 2 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (1/2, 1 day streak; incidental no porn 2 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $260 today, largely related to my trip this weekend (hostel, photoshoot). $263 so far this week ($448 weekly budget still okay).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved so far tentative 2/3).
Ankle felt a bit worse after my drum lesson today but overall feels better I think than last week. Went to ortho today and X-rays showed nothing broken. Not suprised but still a good thing I guess. If it doesn't get better in 1-2 months he said he'll order an MRI to see what's going on. He seemed like a good guy. Was a long wait for a pretty short appointment though. Ortho appointment for the hip tomorrow morning, GN all!
@colgate, yeah that is a boss idea, cheers mate. Would be fun to learn Japanese by immersion that way.
@ThePermanentFix, yeah it's the absolute worst. Just goes to show it doesn't even help me get to sleep as much as I thought.
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 2 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (1/2, 1 day streak; incidental no porn 2 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $260 today, largely related to my trip this weekend (hostel, photoshoot). $263 so far this week ($448 weekly budget still okay).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved so far tentative 2/3).
Ankle felt a bit worse after my drum lesson today but overall feels better I think than last week. Went to ortho today and X-rays showed nothing broken. Not suprised but still a good thing I guess. If it doesn't get better in 1-2 months he said he'll order an MRI to see what's going on. He seemed like a good guy. Was a long wait for a pretty short appointment though. Ortho appointment for the hip tomorrow morning, GN all!
@colgate, yeah that is a boss idea, cheers mate. Would be fun to learn Japanese by immersion that way.
@ThePermanentFix, yeah it's the absolute worst. Just goes to show it doesn't even help me get to sleep as much as I thought.
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
Goals for this week:
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 2 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (2/3, 2 day streak; incidental no porn 3 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $113.50 today. Lunch wasn't necessary but the groceries and ortho was. $376.60 so far this week ($448 weekly budget still ~okay).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved 3/4).
Ortho thinks it's my SI joint. Wants me to take an anti-inflammatory. Will plan to pick it up after the gym tomorrow if the pharmacy is still open, otherwise Friday. Hip felt better today when I switched chairs in the office -- but this chair fucks my shoulders. Since I just did the change the shoulders aren't too bad but it's really pretty frustrating. I probably just need to buy myself a desk to really fix this.
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 2 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (2/3, 2 day streak; incidental no porn 3 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent $113.50 today. Lunch wasn't necessary but the groceries and ortho was. $376.60 so far this week ($448 weekly budget still ~okay).
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (achieved 3/4).
Ortho thinks it's my SI joint. Wants me to take an anti-inflammatory. Will plan to pick it up after the gym tomorrow if the pharmacy is still open, otherwise Friday. Hip felt better today when I switched chairs in the office -- but this chair fucks my shoulders. Since I just did the change the shoulders aren't too bad but it's really pretty frustrating. I probably just need to buy myself a desk to really fix this.
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 4 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (3/4, 3 day streak; incidental no porn 4 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent more than for the week already...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (not 3/5).
Watched all the new shows that released today. Guess it makes sense that the top priorities I'm taking more seriously than the lower priorities. Also I'm thinking the bigger deal is to focus more on positives next week (written reflections again) than on not doing stuff. Because I tend to just be bored trying to just eat. So we'll see how that goes next week.
Got the number of a venezuelan girl from Tinder. I'm pretty busy this weekend but we worked on Saturday morning at a spot close to her place.
Main life-sucks moment today was the gym. At least 50% of the sessions I've had with this trainer I've hurt something in an entirely new/unexpected way. I'm not going tough out the rest of the sessions. I'm going to start swimming to recover / hopefully stay in shape. When I'm feeling better I'm going to just do calisthenics and powerlifting at first. No more of these bullshit machines until I'm not as fucked up.
Regarding my budget, my main takeaway is I might need to think about my budget for the month instead of the week. Good news is no more personal training so an extra $360/mo there. And I'm probably going to have to start meal-prepping / figure out how to cut down food costs. And I guess just one trip per month. Will have to think of other ways to cut down costs.
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (3/4, 3 day streak; incidental no porn 4 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent more than for the week already...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (not 3/5).
Watched all the new shows that released today. Guess it makes sense that the top priorities I'm taking more seriously than the lower priorities. Also I'm thinking the bigger deal is to focus more on positives next week (written reflections again) than on not doing stuff. Because I tend to just be bored trying to just eat. So we'll see how that goes next week.
Got the number of a venezuelan girl from Tinder. I'm pretty busy this weekend but we worked on Saturday morning at a spot close to her place.
Main life-sucks moment today was the gym. At least 50% of the sessions I've had with this trainer I've hurt something in an entirely new/unexpected way. I'm not going tough out the rest of the sessions. I'm going to start swimming to recover / hopefully stay in shape. When I'm feeling better I'm going to just do calisthenics and powerlifting at first. No more of these bullshit machines until I'm not as fucked up.
Regarding my budget, my main takeaway is I might need to think about my budget for the month instead of the week. Good news is no more personal training so an extra $360/mo there. And I'm probably going to have to start meal-prepping / figure out how to cut down food costs. And I guess just one trip per month. Will have to think of other ways to cut down costs.
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3some2024
- Posts: 89 | Thanks: 41
- Joined: Mon Nov 20, 2023 1:07 am
- Goal: 3some
- Age: 30
0. mantra: my #1 goal is to feel happy most of the time. Say this at least twice a day (achieved, 5 day streak)
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (4/5; 4 day streak; incidental no porn 4 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent more than for the week already...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (4/6)
Didn’t watch any anime. Drove to Chiraq. Took 4 hours and was exhausted. Still went out with my wing. Could’ve sworn he said he was 40 but on Bumble he’s 46. I guess age is just a number but I don’t like his demeanor either.
Anyway, lot of pairs of girls (3some pull opps). I was wearing a Rudolph sweater. Was decent but would’ve been better with a light up hat. Anyway I disqualified my self a few times opening (“sorry to interrupt”). Something for me to work on for sure. One girl was down and chatted me up first but ugly af. Somewhat main takeaway is I need more $$$. I’m sure that’s not totally true but I did have like 4 drinks tonight so at least $64 in addition to dinner etc….
1. no fap, achieved yesterday. I CAN achieve today too (4/5; 4 day streak; incidental no porn 4 day streak)
2. Budget: $64/day average. Spent more than for the week already...
3. Max 1 episode of anime per day (4/6)
Didn’t watch any anime. Drove to Chiraq. Took 4 hours and was exhausted. Still went out with my wing. Could’ve sworn he said he was 40 but on Bumble he’s 46. I guess age is just a number but I don’t like his demeanor either.
Anyway, lot of pairs of girls (3some pull opps). I was wearing a Rudolph sweater. Was decent but would’ve been better with a light up hat. Anyway I disqualified my self a few times opening (“sorry to interrupt”). Something for me to work on for sure. One girl was down and chatted me up first but ugly af. Somewhat main takeaway is I need more $$$. I’m sure that’s not totally true but I did have like 4 drinks tonight so at least $64 in addition to dinner etc….