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- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 1:30 pm
- Name: Ben
- Goal: Get laid
- Motto: Humble&aggressive
I've been where you're at that's it. Only that I was way more afraid than you are and I made it really hard for myself... It took me years to do what you are doing from 2 weeks.
I know how easy it is and how quick it can be when you are decided to.
You are doing the work and giving what you have so mega props to you mate.
As for you RN, keep doing what you do : warm up, talk to 5 girls a day, when they look open ask for number in 5 minutes max. The conversation doesn't need to be long and deep. You can get emotional connection if you want to but RN your goal is to get laid and you want sex.
So it's small talk, you're cute, you seem cool I want to hang out with you further vibe.
Then when you have number it is to be used as a means to meet her and spend time with her IRL.
You can talk with her a little small talk further, you are respectful and your goal again is the screening mindset : you find out what she's really up to, if she does want to meet up or not.
Don't be afraid to loose her or wonder if you Will do smth wrong or what.
If she's hesitative you can reassure her and so, and try further to arrange the date.
If she shows too much resistance or begins to bullshit or doesn't answer properly... Forget about her.
I know some may say I lack patience but they don't talk to minimum 5 new girls a day.
There was a legend on goodlookingloser Who was somewhat the co founder of the website, Scotty.
Here are his talks.
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/reject ... ast-1-2014
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/bathro ... -rejection
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-3
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-4
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-5
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-br ... laid-in-5-
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-br ... 6-w-scotty
He's hardcore. You have to find out and develop your own resonance but this man is real inspiration and speaks Truth.
Wise and experienced in the get laid department. He has a very emotionally mature philosophy.
Do not accept everything he says as truth but lots of it is really good.
As long as you talk to 5 girls a day you can listen to these podcasts.
These are great but don't use them as an excuse to procrastinate. Use it as added support.
As for the date do as you like for now with the intention to bring her back home.
Show her you like her, enjoy her and let her enjoy you.
Again, screening : you can initiate physically, she likes you she'll comply.
If she doesn't, you can try later if she's still in. Physical contact is not a necessity so no need to pressure yourself about it.
Try and bring her home that's what matters.
Later when you have lost the V-card there are other cool things, all about speed... But rn the priority is to get the first girl out of the way.
So keep doing what you're doing because you are doing great, really.
I know how easy it is and how quick it can be when you are decided to.
You are doing the work and giving what you have so mega props to you mate.
As for you RN, keep doing what you do : warm up, talk to 5 girls a day, when they look open ask for number in 5 minutes max. The conversation doesn't need to be long and deep. You can get emotional connection if you want to but RN your goal is to get laid and you want sex.
So it's small talk, you're cute, you seem cool I want to hang out with you further vibe.
Then when you have number it is to be used as a means to meet her and spend time with her IRL.
You can talk with her a little small talk further, you are respectful and your goal again is the screening mindset : you find out what she's really up to, if she does want to meet up or not.
Don't be afraid to loose her or wonder if you Will do smth wrong or what.
If she's hesitative you can reassure her and so, and try further to arrange the date.
If she shows too much resistance or begins to bullshit or doesn't answer properly... Forget about her.
I know some may say I lack patience but they don't talk to minimum 5 new girls a day.
There was a legend on goodlookingloser Who was somewhat the co founder of the website, Scotty.
Here are his talks.
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/reject ... ast-1-2014
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/bathro ... -rejection
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-3
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-4
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/podcast-5
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-br ... laid-in-5-
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-br ... 6-w-scotty
He's hardcore. You have to find out and develop your own resonance but this man is real inspiration and speaks Truth.
Wise and experienced in the get laid department. He has a very emotionally mature philosophy.
Do not accept everything he says as truth but lots of it is really good.
As long as you talk to 5 girls a day you can listen to these podcasts.
These are great but don't use them as an excuse to procrastinate. Use it as added support.
As for the date do as you like for now with the intention to bring her back home.
Show her you like her, enjoy her and let her enjoy you.
Again, screening : you can initiate physically, she likes you she'll comply.
If she doesn't, you can try later if she's still in. Physical contact is not a necessity so no need to pressure yourself about it.
Try and bring her home that's what matters.
Later when you have lost the V-card there are other cool things, all about speed... But rn the priority is to get the first girl out of the way.
So keep doing what you're doing because you are doing great, really.
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- Name: Ariel
- Goal: Get laid
- Age: 20
- Motto: What time is it? Time to get laid
@Wifty so met the girl I was talking to,tried kissing her she didn't want to kiss because of covid, damn man the covid is the perfect excuse for these girls two already have told me of covid. She told me we could hangout another time if I want, I was like wtf? You didn't want to kiss me and want to meet another time..
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- Joined: Sat May 30, 2020 1:30 pm
- Name: Ben
- Goal: Get laid
- Motto: Humble&aggressive
Very good.
Meet her again, she knows your intention and wants further.
It's good for 2 reasons :
You get more experience as you spend more time with women, look at this date as added experience.
Second is if she likes you, she may simply want to feel better/reassured around you.
And tell her with words you like her and everything's fine.
And again, the goal is to bring her home.
She may not be down for the kiss -doesn't matter- but she May be down to "hangout at your place...
Last point, don't take her reactions too personal, it won't serve you right. You feel frustrated that's ok.
Don't project it onto her or other women.
How many girls did you talk to today ?
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If she bullshits further still on 3rd date, if There's one, you can Forget about her.
Meet her again, she knows your intention and wants further.
It's good for 2 reasons :
You get more experience as you spend more time with women, look at this date as added experience.
Second is if she likes you, she may simply want to feel better/reassured around you.
And tell her with words you like her and everything's fine.
And again, the goal is to bring her home.
She may not be down for the kiss -doesn't matter- but she May be down to "hangout at your place...
Last point, don't take her reactions too personal, it won't serve you right. You feel frustrated that's ok.
Don't project it onto her or other women.
How many girls did you talk to today ?
Edit :
If she bullshits further still on 3rd date, if There's one, you can Forget about her.
- creepo
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- Joined: Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:30 pm
- Name: Ariel
- Goal: Get laid
- Age: 20
- Motto: What time is it? Time to get laid
I make those 5 approaches, 0 numbers, all immediate rejections .. damn that Scotty guy is such a beast
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- creepo
- Posts: 94 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:30 pm
- Name: Ariel
- Goal: Get laid
- Age: 20
- Motto: What time is it? Time to get laid
Quick update got covid after kissing one girl, didn't get my dick inside her though damnit, I have been locked down,coming back stronger!
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- Name: Dimitri
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I had been reading your log with interest, glad you're back!
- Goals:
- 1 cold approach lay
- 5 approaches in 1 day
- 10 approaches in 1 day
- 20 approaches in 1 day
- Reach Milestone: 20 lifetime lays [29/20]
- creepo
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- Goal: Get laid
- Age: 20
- Motto: What time is it? Time to get laid
Hey thanks for the support man, hope you are doing good as well, did 3 approaches today 0 numbers
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Damn 22 pull ups is awesome dude, your back should be pretty strong.yeah muscle up is pure technique.
Today did 3 approaches 0 numbers
Today did 3 approaches 0 numbers
Get 10 lifetimes lays before 16/08/2022
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- Posts: 94 | Thanks: 124
- Joined: Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:30 pm
- Name: Ariel
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- Motto: What time is it? Time to get laid
Quick update fitness:
Did today 14 pull ups and 25 dips and 30 push ups.
Did today 14 pull ups and 25 dips and 30 push ups.
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