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Holden
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Tue Mar 29, 2022 1:01 pm

Manganiello wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:36 pm
I already came at that point.
Quick tip, score some fenugreek and take 5 pills before you're going to meet a chick. It helps with the refractory period (among other things.)
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Manganiello
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Tue Mar 29, 2022 10:40 pm

Holden wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 1:01 pm
Manganiello wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 12:36 pm
I already came at that point.
Quick tip, score some fenugreek and take 5 pills before you're going to meet a chick. It helps with the refractory period (among other things.)

Ok nice. Never heard about it.

I don't think my refractory period is bad. At all actually. But the testosterone effects look pretty promising thanks for the suggestion.

Oh and for context she was talking about taking a shower 30 minutes before I had to leave for work.

We were already going at it again 20 minutes after she made me come.
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Sun Apr 03, 2022 6:07 pm

April 1-3

Full lay with the Korean.


She invited me to her place Thursday night. We went out for some food. Came back and got busy on the bed.

I went to finger her, and it was too much that she had to stop, but I ended up putting it in her and fucked her for a bit.

Friday morning we fucked for a little bit and she invited me back that night.

Came over around 8pm, we watched Pachinko, I took some Cialis, and pounded her for maybe 60 minutes.

Didn't cum but she ended up getting tired.
Next morning (Saturday) fucked her again.

Then we went for a coffee (which was actually really nice) talked about life.


blonde girl

And then I went home, showered, met up with the blonde girl. Went to a house party, got pretty drunk, slept over at the place, the host left a condom in our room, and I fucked her today (Sunday) morning.

Arranged to see the Korean girl again tonight.



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So that's it.

2 plates. Lots of sex this weekend. Cialis definitely helped.


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Thoughts about rotations

I know I had a goal somewhere about having a rotation of three girls (but honestly, I'm not sure how much I want that rn, 2 girls are time consuming as it is).

I'm probably gonna break off with the blonde girl this week. No fault of her own, but seeing her with the Korean girl really put into perspective what I like.



Starting to learn what kind of girls I like

I think with the blonde chick, I like how submissive and chill she is.

The Korean just has similar values, well travelled, ambitious, into personal development, self-reflective and as weird as it sounds, I like that she was this hot Asian chick that was sleeping with other guys in university.

She was showing me her Instagram yesterday, and I was like Holy fuck this girl is so hot when she puts in the effort. She doesn't put on as much makeup now, which I know some guys like, but this is a bit of a con to me.

But besides the look I like, I just like how well put together she is I guess. Where as the blonde seems like she's just living life on autopilot.



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Life is good, but discontent

Im writing this a few blocks from my apartment in a really nice cafe. And it's kind of hitting me, how this is pretty much the life I wanted.

But it's striking how discontent I am.

Im still not regularly hooking up with hotties.

That's only comeing from cold approach and putting serious mileage into my body goals.

So there's still a lot of work to do.

And then after that, I'm feeling a distinct and strong urge, to go hard into my career/professional life.

But it's very clear to me I want to have more fun, and there's a lot more work to do before I switch gears away from Dating.

Plus Korea is still a cool idea, and the fact that @Toast is going to Japan, literally tomorrow is really motivating to.


Life's good.
But there's so much more I have to do.

I need to suffer some more and sow the seeds for the future. It's cliched but honestly I need to not coast.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 12:33 am

I feel you on starting to realize what girls you like. When you have even just a bit of abundance, you can start to pick and choose, which is an amazing feeling.

I also feel you on how much work there is to be done, and to avoid coasting. I struggle with that when I get a consistent fuckbuddy. I start to slack in almost every other aspect of my life. I believe Discipline and sticking to the slight-edge is key.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 1:29 am

Holden wrote:
Tue Mar 29, 2022 1:01 pm
Quick tip, score some fenugreek and take 5 pills before you're going to meet a chick. It helps with the refractory period (among other things.)
What dosage do you take? I just ordered some, but I feel like "just take 5 pills" seems very arbitrary.
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Manganiello
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 1:51 am

Neo_Primal wrote:
Wed Apr 06, 2022 12:33 am
I feel you on starting to realize what girls you like. When you have even just a bit of abundance, you can start to pick and choose, which is an amazing feeling.

I also feel you on how much work there is to be done, and to avoid coasting. I struggle with that when I get a consistent fuckbuddy. I start to slack in almost every other aspect of my life. I believe Discipline and sticking to the slight-edge is key.

Appreciate that man. Thats exactly how I feel.

Life is soo good rn.

But I also want to fulfill my sex goals and I feel very tempted to settle sometimes.


I don't think I would forgive myself for stopping.


Im kind of wondering like what point would be enough?

I think I gotta get to a point where all my lifetime sex/dating goals are satisfied before I can move on in life. Cuz honestly my career is not where I want it to be, nor is my finances.


I want to keep going and max out myself with sex.
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I want to focus on other areas of life.


But I know myself well enough to know I can't do both all that well. So it's like that inability to do both that's causing some pain.


If any senior guys on here have input. I wouldn't mind it.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 4:12 am

April 5

Just broke up with the blonde girl.

I ended it and just spent the last hour having a conversation that really fucking sucks.



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So we went for a drive and got to a parking lot.

And I really had a hard time bringing it up but I just finally said "I have to say something and this isn't easy."

And she said "I'm scared what is it"

I just said I wasn't really feeling the same way the last 3 weeks as I did when we started.

And just told her she did nothing wrong, and I was trying to keep it going with her but I felt like it was never gonna be a good match between us, and I couldn't pretend that I felt the same way she did. And that if I waited to tell her it would only feel worse.


She basically sat their the whole time staying quiet and crying.


I did not feel good about doing it, but I also felt like this was inevitable and me not saying anything and letting her get more invested was not helping.


She really didn't do anything wrong.
I just wasnt feeling it with her.
And it's like as much as I wasn't feeling it.
I actually really didn't want to hurt her.


I just didn't have the time to see her and another girl and continue to work on my bigger goals.

And as much as it sucks, she was the person that needed to go. And it feels pretty bad that it happened to be someone I actually thought was a really innocent caring person.


This article has been useful:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/


I'm gonna try and fall asleep.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 5:58 am

Better to go through the pain now rather than later. It's harder but overall it gets easier. You're doing her a favor. It's tough for me to do that and something I need to work on.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 12:45 pm

Jacobpalmer123 wrote:
Wed Apr 06, 2022 5:58 am
Better to go through the pain now rather than later. It's harder but overall it gets easier. You're doing her a favor. It's tough for me to do that and something I need to work on.
Ya.
I felt like if I didn't pull the trigger now it would be 100x worse.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 3:58 pm

Manganiello wrote:
Wed Apr 06, 2022 1:51 am
If any senior guys on here have input. I wouldn't mind it.
Well @KillYourInnerLoser is pretty old, so he can offer some advice.

I've felt satisfied with my sex life 3-4 times, to the point I stopped chasing girls and focused on other areas of my life. However now, even though I had 2 plates and could take a break, I kept going.

Why?

I think I fell in love with perfecting my process. In the past I'd get girls without CA and it felt a bit easy. With CA though, I realize I'm lacking skills and this pisses me off. So even though I still want to get laid a lot, I wanna refine my process and get laid via CA. And then get laid with legit hotties.

This is what keeps me going, otherwise I'd be content.

I think you're a bit like me right now, since you want to shift your focus on CA while also doing business and perhaps improving your body. My only advice is to ruthlessly protect your energy levels. Never sacrifice sleep, stick to your diet 99%, avoid alcohol, and ban any kind of drama in your life. When your energy is taken care off, you'll notice that you make better choices that assist you in your your goals.

Finally, you should do some "accurate thinking" regarding what needs to happen to hit your goals (whatever they are) and if you're willing to invest your energy. I'll share a piece that beautifully illustrates this point (surprisingly, I wasn't the one who wrote it)
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One of the most important things Dan Kennedy taught me many years ago was the idea of "accurate thinking" in business.

And here's what I mean by that...

Since last summer, I've been toying with the idea of going all-in on Youtube, and making 2-3 videos per week.

Why?

Because I see so much potential to bring new people into the world of copywriting with Youtube.

I see people like Noah Kagan...

Graham Stephan...

And Alex Cattoni crushing on Youtube...

And I feel like if I put in the work, I could have a Youtube channel with 100k+ subscribers.

Which would grow my personal brand...

It would enroll new members in Copy Accelerator...

So there's a lot of positives that would come from it.

However...

I'm also aware that growing a channel to 100k subscribers is not easy.

It's not as simple as grabbing an iPhone, recording a video and uploading it to Youtube.

I know there's more to it.

So instead of diving head first into Youtube without an "accurate" idea of what it will take...

I recently did some consulting calls with Jack Selby (he's the producer for Graham Stephan who has nearly 4 million subscribers on Youtube).

And during our calls, Jack walked me through their whole Youtube playbook.

He showed me how they come up with video ideas...

What their posting schedule is like...

And all the ins-and-outs of how the Youtube algorithm works.

At the start of the call, I was gung-ho and excited about filming more Youtube videos...

But by the end of the call, my eyes were opened to just how much work this would actually be.

It was not a small thing.

And it would be a huge committment on my part.

Jack mentioned that an average video that Graham creates takes around 25 hours when you factor in writing the script, filming the video and editing it.

And right now he's putting out 2-3 videos per week.

So that's a lot of work right there.

And on top of this...

Graham has stuck to his upload schedule of 2-3 videos per week for 5 years straight without missing a day.

Which is insane.

But the Youtube algorithm rewards people who post consistently.

So they stay on schedule no matter what.

Which means they are always filming...

Always researching new video ideas...

And never taking vacations.

It's a 24/7 job.

Now I know there are other ways to do Youtube...

And I wouldn't necessarily have to go to all the extremes that Graham does...

But the reality of growing a Youtube channel to 100k+ subscribers is that it'd be a LOT of work.

It would need to be my main focus.

And knowing that, it's just not something I'm interested in doing.

PLUS, there's a whole bunch of other variables that I would need to consider like...

- how valuable would 100k subscribers really be? Would it make me an extra million bucks a year? Would it be a lot less? Could I acheive the same ROI by running paid ads?

- how many new people would I need to manage in terms of video editors, project managers etc (I like to keep things lean, so this is a big issue for me)

- do I actually like talking into a camera and filming content? (the answer is not really, I prefer writing, so filming 2-3x a week would probably start to feel like a chore very quickly)

- if my channel blows up and I'm getting recognized everywhere I go, and I'm being asked to take pictures with people, is this something I'll enjoy (again, the answer is no. I prefer to be more anonymous)

So there's all kinds of questions to ask...

And this ties back to the lesson that Dan Kennedy taught me about "accurate thinking".

You need to have an accurate (and realistic) view of what is required to do something.

Otherwise you'll end up trying a ton of things...

And wasting a bunch of time...

When you could have just focused on the one or two things that you really enjoy (and that actually move the needle for you).

So there ya go...

Make sure you have "accurate thinking" in everything you do.

Your bank account (and your sanity) will thank you.

That's all I got for ya this morning...

Enjoy your Thursday,

- Justin Goff
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 5:49 pm

Good job on that break up man. You feel better quicker like this than doing it any other way

Regards advice, i finally got to a point where i felt id spent too long on girls

I was pushing 3 years on it (though covid affected so more like 1.5 good years worth of time)

My new approach is get my income up for the next few years….. and then i can have another hardcore run at dating in my 30s. The goal then will be to finish my bucketlist stuff and find a couple of girls i can love. Also my hope is i enjoy dating way more with no money stress

I do always feel the urge to get back into the game full time gotta admit that - it takes discipline and the ability to get laid still with low time/energy input to keep me away

A couple of guys we know got into relationships purely so they could smash it in business and not worry about chicks
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Holden
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 6:40 pm

@Radical Derek from MPMD is doing this right now, pretty notable.

I've been toying with the same idea because I waste a lot of time and energy on finding girls. If you have a couple on retention it's easier but still a part-time job to do everything right.

Maintaining a harem (not to mention creating one) takes a huge amount of time and energy. Going mono would make go crazy missing the variety.

I think the best way to go about it is to do this girl stuff full-time for just as long as it needs to build a harem. But I'm running into the trouble that I can't just drop my business now to chase skirt - the audience expects content every week or my growth will stifle.

I'm trying to go monk mode again and wake up at 5 AM to work but it's not ideal as most girls want to meet late in the evening.

Oh well.
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Wed Apr 06, 2022 6:54 pm

@Holden I think it depends what level of money success you want.

But i've been listening to a lot of Alex Becker lately and he's of the opinion if you want to be rich you have to sacrifice most of your dating and social life while you build it up (granted he is now chasing billionaire level success)

Im going to butcher this but the quote i heard from him was 'You sacrifice now so you dont sacrifice what you love later'
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Thu Apr 07, 2022 2:07 am

Thanks for the comments guys.

I really value your insights
@Holden, @Radical ,@Crisis_Overcomer

Ill respond to them when I get a chance.
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Thu Apr 07, 2022 5:40 pm

KillYourInnerLoser wrote:
Thu Apr 07, 2022 5:59 am
Plus all of you (Holden, Mange, etc) are missing something here: If you don't wanna put so much time into your dating life, outsource it. Get one of your girls (or multiple girls) to find girls for you both to sleep with on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble.
Yeah, thanks for the reminder. I forgot about that possibility.
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- A foursome
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