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Sisyphus
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Tue Mar 14, 2023 12:48 am

March 13th

Did 3 approaches, got 1 number but she said she had a boyfriend over text.
2 first approaches I was kinda off and tense, the third one went better.

I need to accept that I'm not great at approaching so I need to approach more volume.

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Tue Mar 14, 2023 2:05 am

Doesn’t need to be so complicated-

Spam approaching or not it doesn’t matter, as long as you are going in with intent and follow through with it with each girl. It’s much better to approach 1 girl and try to touch and kiss her and get rejected, than it is to do 40 retard approaches where you’re half assing it looking for the next approach. Girls can feel when you’re all in with them or not, and some may even change their tune once they see you taking risks. I’ve certainly had girls be weird with me and then reject my first kiss, to then be into me and later sat on my face that same night.

When it comes to being calibrated or “smooth”, then sure a little bit is ok at the start. However the majority of guys use it as to avoid going after a girl in a “difficult situation”. The truth is that a girl can be sexually available even if she’s on the phone, in a restaurant or even with a platonic guy friend - and you’ll never know until you try. It becomes like a fun game after a while seeing who might be down.

I’ve approached women in front of a whole plaza or beach watching and took her back for sex. How? Because I was thinking about how I’m going to take her back for sex, not so much who is watching or how I can be calibrated (prioritising my interests over others who are irrelevant).
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Sat Mar 18, 2023 12:40 am

Again I've fallen into the trap of overthinking my looks my vibe etc. I'm coming into terms with my limitations. But that's a fundamental part of being a full grown MAN.

Good way of thinking about looks, vibe, etc: I'm GOOD ENOUGH, I'm not the best nor the worst. I've enough resources to make great shit happen.

I've enough evidence that at least some girls dig me.

If I'm not 6'2" with a square jawline, I'm gonna be a hardass with a dominant personality and good with people. I've been scared of physical confrontation, that's one reason why I don't act more dominant. But if I have to get beaten up once in order to get where I want to be with women, so be it. Perhaps it sounds dramatic, but I really think that getting good with women/becoming an alpha male is a goal worth dying for.

There's a part of Game Solved where he states that the best guys in game don't give a fuck about "Game" itself, they just want to fuck a lot of hot girls so they develop game as a means to an end. That's a good mindset.

When you start improving ur vibe and body language it's easy to get into the frame of trying to get validation/minimizing rejection. Trying to "make friends" and "spread good vibes". Fuck that.

Today I did 5 approaches and got 1 number. I also approached 1 girl and she gave me a bad reaction. I laughed like a maniac. There was no way of making the approach smooth. She saw me crossing the street to approach her.

I also skipped 3 girls. I always feel more anger after being a pussy. Meanwhile I literally dont remember when I "did something wrong". But I never learn and I'm still too concerned with my "ratios"

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I almost finished Fox Web Academy. Cant wait to get my first project going.

Prospecting the way Rob teaches is much more easier than doing it cold, so I won't have any problem doing it.


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I'm becoming more disciplined, but still not functioning remotely close to my full potential. I'm perhaps at a 5%. Which means I waste 95% of my potential daily.

Edit: I sound too angry. I need to balanced that with more gratitude and understanding that no one owes me anything. It's good to be fearless but don't be socially retarded.

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Front stop. Front stop. Front stop.

Hey can I meet you real quick

My name is Gabriel, handshake
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Mon Mar 20, 2023 2:23 am

I've been focusing on completing Fox Web Academy course and not going out to approach at all.

Which is bullshit.

It's a reverse justification of anxiety.

Even if I have shit logistics,
It takes 1 hour to go out and talk to 5 women during the day

Yes going out to clubs fucks my sleep schedule,
but I can manage going out once a week
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
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Tue Mar 21, 2023 1:31 am

March 20th

Did 1 miserable approach. I went out when there was no one around.

Spend all day doing tasks on remotaskds since I want to pay for a trip to BA.

If I lose momentum I'm FUCKED
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
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Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Wed Mar 22, 2023 12:44 am

March 21st

Made 7 approaches, 1 number.
I skipped sets. I need to stop skipping "difficult" sets even if they have lower conversion rates. FUCK my conversion rates. FUCK YOUR EGO.

Notes: it's perfectly ok, even optimal if the first 2 minutes of the conversation are about filler/socially conventional stuff, as long as you subcommunicate sexual energy.

Have MULTI THREADED conversations and bounce between those threads. Manage them.

You need to have some structure/game plan to transition into touching.

What has always worked for me/I had a good feel about is

1) talking about her tattoos->touching her, and also talking about my tattoo
2) talking about her nails->touch her hand+ranting about how I like it when girls put effort on her nails.

I could also try talking about her body, does she workout, saying she's jacked and could be my bodyguard and touching her biceps (thanks Chris).
I could also talk about her ethnicity, her skin tone, ask if the goes to the tanning bed, etc.

Eye contact, proximity, pauses, tonality (whisper leo dicaprio style), micro facial expressions. All of that shit helps. Also, look at her body, lips, etc sexually, SEXUALIZE IN YOUR MIND (dirty talk!)

Ranting in general helps, it earns you time in interaction (actually, thinking this way is underrated, time itself IS a form of investment, even if you want to maximize quality of time), if you do it with a playful "reasonable man" tonality (look into the Wolf of Wall Street YouTube channel, it's GOLD). Rant about stuff you're passionate about in non try hard way.

Introduce urself mid interaction, handshake and kiss in the cheek.

After finding a pretense to touch her, start making GRADUAL SEXUAL AND EMOTIONAL QUESTIONS (aka playing investment game). Have 2 or 3 series of GRADUAL questions in your quiver.

Reward compliance and punish non compliance (you can do it with your FACIAL EXPRESSION, with a DISGUSTED FACE). Find opportunities to BREAK RAPPORT. DONT CHASE RAPPORT.

Breaking rapport= Disinterest, void, takeaways/removal of validation

LOOK FOR OPPORTINITIES TO MAKE SEXUAL JOKES/INUENDO. Haha it's too hard, too long, you love it when it's wet, warm, damnn, that's what she said.

Frame date and TAKE (dont ASK) with HIGH ENERGY AND CERTAINTY
Notes about stopping: front, dont force eye contact but rather make it incidental, cocky smile, talk from a big distance then close distance, say '"can i meet u real quick", make a pause, say "i just wanted to talk u", then "what were u doing", go with firmness, commanding/enthusiastic/high energy/certainty tonality->make sure she STOPS and you get her ATTENTION, then follow up with a more utter sincerity/empathy tonality. Be ENERGETICALLY SMOOTH (DONT try to be witty, clever or movie like), make sure each part of the interaction transitions well, specially in the opening. Eliminate all nervous tics and jerky motions. Move like you are under water.

CALIBRATE to type of girl. If she's high energy/extroverted/cool/hot, go like fucking missile. If she's more shy, go with more empathy.

I started taking acting/improv lessons and it's gold. I think I'm gonna follow yohami's advice to a T and move to a hostel/coliving space, get a server job and take improv and dance lessons. Fuck being rich. AI is taking over in 3-5 years. Let's live our last years on Earth like fucking hippies, learning soft skills that'll help you more than money anyway. Selling websites counts as social skills. Doing random tasks to help train machine learning models doesnt.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Wed Mar 22, 2023 2:29 am

Great post. Very solid technical game information contained within.

I have the same thoughts about AI and technology in general. After the pandemic I've chosen to live life like a hedonist — socializing with as many people as possible, writing, pursuing interesting creative endeavors, and fucking pussy.
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Thu Mar 23, 2023 12:24 am

pancakemouse wrote:
Wed Mar 22, 2023 2:29 am
Great post. Very solid technical game information contained within.

I have the same thoughts about AI and technology in general. After the pandemic I've chosen to live life like a hedonist — socializing with as many people as possible, writing, pursuing interesting creative endeavors, and fucking pussy.
Thanks! It means a lot.

These are mostly notes for myself, I'm still a beginner, but I'm glad they are helpful. I've been obsessing about game over the last couple of months.

And yes, it's not only about ai but about technology and modern life in general, The pandemic was a very strong reminder of the risks of isolation.

I don't think it as much as hedonistic, although I'd consider myself a hedonist, but more as connecting with people and stepping aside from "logical mode" and being more present.

Playing videogames, doing drugs, jerking off to porn are also hedonistic, but don't involve interacting with others and often times don't require that much concentration and being present at the same time.

Cold approach works your being very deeply. At the same time you have to be brave, be in the moment, be in control of your body while at the same time focusing on the other person and how she reacts, solving problems outside the interaction, then dealing with frustration and disappointment, or even dealing with success when it happens.

Cold approach is so much work and requires so much skill and inner game that hedonism is one word that doesn't describe it lol

Anyway, I'm grateful I discovered cold approach.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
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Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Mon Mar 27, 2023 1:58 am

Over the last few days I approached

3, 0 3 and 1 girls.

I have been learning a ton about non verbals and opening. But at the same time I'm using that as an excuse to be a pussy. Being a pussy sucks. But getting rejected because you're autistic sucks even more. But feeling like an entitled lazy bum is even worse

I'm like a fat dude socially.
Physically I'm ripped. So I get to be extremely careless with my dieting cause I'm already there. But fat people need to restrict their diet and work hard.

Working hard may not be "cool". But not working hard doesn't make you cool. You're still fat.

Not approaching people doesn't make me less autistic. I just get to not confront that.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
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Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Tue Mar 28, 2023 2:00 am

March 27th

Approached 2 girls. Of course I always go out at the time when no one is around.

There's a period of time when u know all the theory but can execute upon it. So u have to keep taking actions even tho u do things wrong while u keep reading the right theory until u hammer it in your brain.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Wed Mar 29, 2023 2:14 am

Did 7 approaches all rejections.

I'm trying not think about it, but I suck at this shit.

But if I get another cute-hot 18 year old chick telling me how big my dick is, I don't give a shit.

Who cares if I'm not super good looking or smooth or cool.

But I want to bang a girl. I need that shit. Fuck the process. I want the outcomes.

When you go through dry streaks you regret the times where you didnt pull the trigger enough even more.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
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Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Fri Mar 31, 2023 2:40 am

Went 0/2 yesterday

1/5 today . Got a number of a 7.5 blonde (late twenties I think) slut. Glitered long nails and shit. I think it was on but I fucked up in some ways. She was asking lots of questions, responding quickly and with emojis. Then she sent an audio and she seemed turned off, I sent an audio and she didnt respond.

I've been reading Game Solved and it never ceases to amaze me how much everyone is fucking up, including myself. It's incredible how much nonverbals impact everything, SPECIALLY, the opening. People make snap judgments in miliseconds.
It's also important to remember that your issues at pulling can be traced back to the opening. Game is a compliance ladder. And what's hard to think about, is that even if you got to the next step of the ladder, that doesnt mean you didnt make mistakes. Her lack of compliance at the end of the interaction is a result of an accumulation of fuck ups, mostly non verbal. That creates a sort of blurry picture of yourself and the interaction. She isn't sure if you're an alfa and has feelings for you. When in doubt, girls reject.

So here is how I fucked up this interaction:

-In person, I should have be more physical. She was sitting so I should have sat along her. Build more proximity. She was waiting for her dad so I mentally checked off. Mistake. Even if instadate isnt possible, try to remain as long as you can in the interaction in person and buuld sexual tension and compliance.

-I got the feeling what Overgaming means or can mean. It's not that I used canned lines but I abused teasing and devalidation. Its worse version is when you miss opportunities to reward compliance or even punish compliance. Not only that means you probably don't build enough compliance, but at the same time subcomunicates lack of calibration. If you see opportunities to build rapport without being rapport seeking, do it.

-In person play to win, but in text play very conservately. Since u dont have non verbals to make everything more fun and lighthearted, a lot of stuff can rub girls the wrong way and since she isnt in front of you, once you lose compliance it's pretty much game over.

-In general it's good to be kind of an asshole, but try to also have empathy and pay attention when u say something and it bothers them. Remember, READ the girl. Dont be autistic
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Sisyphus wrote:
Fri Mar 31, 2023 2:40 am
Went 0/2 yesterday

1/5 today . Got a number of a 7.5 blonde (late twenties I think) slut. Glitered long nails and shit. I think it was on but I fucked up in some ways. She was asking lots of questions, responding quickly and with emojis. Then she sent an audio and she seemed turned off, I sent an audio and she didnt respond.

I've been reading Game Solved and it never ceases to amaze me how much everyone is fucking up, including myself. It's incredible how much nonverbals impact everything, SPECIALLY, the opening. People make snap judgments in miliseconds.
It's also important to remember that your issues at pulling can be traced back to the opening. Game is a compliance ladder. And what's hard to think about, is that even if you got to the next step of the ladder, that doesnt mean you didnt make mistakes. Her lack of compliance at the end of the interaction is a result of an accumulation of fuck ups, mostly non verbal. That creates a sort of blurry picture of yourself and the interaction. She isn't sure if you're an alfa and has feelings for you. When in doubt, girls reject.

So here is how I fucked up this interaction:

-In person, I should have be more physical. She was sitting so I should have sat along her. Build more proximity. She was waiting for her dad so I mentally checked off. Mistake. Even if instadate isnt possible, try to remain as long as you can in the interaction in person and buuld sexual tension and compliance.

-I got the feeling what Overgaming means or can mean. It's not that I used canned lines but I abused teasing and devalidation. Its worse version is when you miss opportunities to reward compliance or even punish compliance. Not only that means you probably don't build enough compliance, but at the same time subcomunicates lack of calibration. If you see opportunities to build rapport without being rapport seeking, do it.

-In person play to win, but in text play very conservately. Since u dont have non verbals to make everything more fun and lighthearted, a lot of stuff can rub girls the wrong way and since she isnt in front of you, once you lose compliance it's pretty much game over.

-In general it's good to be kind of an asshole, but try to also have empathy and pay attention when u say something and it bothers them. Remember, READ the girl. Dont be autistic
Did not think I'd see anyone post about Game Solved here. He's one of like 4-5 people who truly get certain aspects of social interactions that I've ever read/met.

I have read through all three volumes and I think he's got a lot of great things to say. But, I remember him mentioning to not really worry about his stuff until you could consistently pull but I like that fact that you know who he is. Keep it up g.
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Mon Apr 03, 2023 2:46 am

Oktane3424 wrote:
Sat Apr 01, 2023 4:00 pm


Did not think I'd see anyone post about Game Solved here. He's one of like 4-5 people who truly get certain aspects of social interactions that I've ever read/met.

I have read through all three volumes and I think he's got a lot of great things to say. But, I remember him mentioning to not really worry about his stuff until you could consistently pull but I like that fact that you know who he is. Keep it up g.
I've finished Game Solved vol.1 and it's GREAT. It's probably the best thing I've read on game along with Yohami and GLL. Lifechanging. Time saving. Disruptive. A breath of fresh air. Inspirational.

Everybody should read it.

The fact that I know Game Solved means I'm a big Game nerd and I'm deep into the rabbit hole. I've never been so passionate about Game. For the longest time I thought game was a numbers game, a boring chore, but there's much more to it.
Number 1 goal: Earn $1000/month (300000 ARS)
Number 2: Fuck 10 girls from cold approach (5/10)

Number 3: get to 72kg at 10% bodyfat.
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Mon Apr 03, 2023 7:49 pm

Sisyphus wrote:
Mon Apr 03, 2023 2:46 am
Oktane3424 wrote:
Sat Apr 01, 2023 4:00 pm


Did not think I'd see anyone post about Game Solved here. He's one of like 4-5 people who truly get certain aspects of social interactions that I've ever read/met.

I have read through all three volumes and I think he's got a lot of great things to say. But, I remember him mentioning to not really worry about his stuff until you could consistently pull but I like that fact that you know who he is. Keep it up g.
I've finished Game Solved vol.1 and it's GREAT. It's probably the best thing I've read on game along with Yohami and GLL. Lifechanging. Time saving. Disruptive. A breath of fresh air. Inspirational.

Everybody should read it.

The fact that I know Game Solved means I'm a big Game nerd and I'm deep into the rabbit hole. I've never been so passionate about Game. For the longest time I thought game was a numbers game, a boring chore, but there's much more to it.
Agreed. It's huge tho but Vol. 2 & Vol. 3 just add onto it as well. Yeah I always thought just saying it was a numbers game was a bit of a misnomer.
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