Thanks for the kind words. For some strange reason the cookies must have cleared and I was logged out of the forums. I found my password. I was kind of paranoid about getting Devil's Breathed in Medellin so that's why I put in several security blocks on my computer.
I'll try to be brief since I have other stuff to do:
One of my housemates is in his late 30s, 50 pounds overweight, and is 5'5''. He gets laid like crazy. All he does is online game. He showed me his "average" (his words) Tinder profile and it's actually good. His theme is well traveled and well dressed. He said his verbal game is very on point and he isn't afraid of spending money on dates, even going as far to fly girls out to cities. He told me he one time got 20 lays in one month. I learned a fair amount from him like don't take hot women to coffee dates and they'll screen you by asking what are we going to do? He also gave me his opinion on my profile. It wouldn't surprise me if he agrees with the Gene Simmons saying of sometimes you eat at McDonalds and sometimes you eat filet mignon. It's like they say the average of the 5 people near you will mold you.
^^Prior to meeting that mofo I thought game was highly overrated and you should work on yourself as much as possible. This guy shattered my world view.
So....VERY good news.
I went out on my first date with a Colombian chick today. She's in her early 20s and it went well. She's fairly attractive. She liked me more than I liked her. I'm really grateful for this as it's a very tiny win and that's all that matters. Medellin girls are supposedly very flakey and they know their value. I reread some of Andy's articles on what to do when she comes over. I'm probably going to tease her all night long and savor the moment. Then fuck her the next day as well. I'm going to give her a fun positive experience so when she gets old and she's in a boring marriage she'll remember all the fun she had when she was a young lady. I was tempted to say that but I think it will ruin the moment haha.
She even paid for my cab ride back home on one certain condition. She also agreed to meet me at my place to dance. Big mistake I made during the date was call her "teacher". My Spanish isn't that good so I was struggling to come up with something to say...yeah glad that was a minor mistake as I don't have mommy issues. For the most part I don't believe in "bad" topics, I just say what's on my mind, but that was a rare exception that I'm glad wasn't a dealbreaker. I might update with this lay. Funny how the tides change so fast.
pussypounder9000 wrote: ↑
Wed Jan 13, 2021 3:39 am
Do Colombian women fuck foreigners easily or something?
I'll answer this in a nuanced way. There isn't white god factor where you show up and girls suck your dick. I also don't really see that many people give me extended stares and I'm not in the expat areas. I think if you come in with that attitude and aren't getting laid in your home country, you won't get laid in Colombia. So if your Tinder sucks, you don't want to spend money on women to a degree, and you smell bad don't come to Colombia.
With that being said, my date went well even though I sounded like a little kid speaking broken Spanish. The girls are having sex, this isn't a repressed culture. My housemate is frankly ugly and shouldn't be getting laid, but he does.
I would recommend focusing on online and social circle. Cold approach doesn't really work here but if you set one goal to get laid you should incorporate cold approaching. I have never seen anybody cold approach so far. In these days when you compete against apps live interaction will set you apart.